So I finally lost my V card but the problem is that I take way too long to cum or don't even manage to do It at all. I basically can only finish by myself. This is probably the result of a lifetime of being a coomer but even if I stop watching porn what else can I do to cum quicker? Please help me bruhs I really like this girl, I get hard and everything for her but I feel that the taking so long to climax might hurt our relationship in the long term.
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you're just too conditioned to jerking off the way you do
your body will adjust to whats normal if you give it the chance
quit porn, stop the death grip or even stop jerking off and just do it with her if you see her often enough
>Don't watch porn
>Don't death grip
>Don't jerk off too much
This is the baseline, and if you meet this, then RELAX. Just calm the hell down. Sex isn't a performance, it's an experience. Especially if you actually like her, just relax and let it happen. You were recently a virgin, so you're already prone to overthinking.
If you can't manage to fully quit jerking off, try baby steps like don't jerk off at all the day you know you will see her, or don't jack off the whole day before too.
What you're going through always happens if it's been more than a few months since I've accessed the tunnel. Once you train your dick to expect real sex, your urge to jerk off (at least as frequently as you are now) will also slowly, naturally decrease. Congrats on becoming a man though. Celebrate by going to the gym.
>help I cum too soon
>help I take too long to cum
bro just make her nut, frick some and cum whenever it's not that serious unless you're literally trying to have a kid. don't spend your life worrying about dumb shit like that c'mon anon.
I’m scared to lose my virginity because I’m scared I won’t know how to have sex (I don’t)
Don’t be afraid. The key is confidence and to do what feels good to you. Be a little selfish. Nothing kills the mood like lack of confidence. Don’t emulate porn, just do what feels good for your body and see how she reacts to it.
That's a counterintuitive but important point. I'm at my best when I'm selfish and horny, taking her basically, moving her around into positions I want, she ends up enjoying that more too. When you're a little too conscious and anxious and cautious about what you're doing it's a mood killer for both parties. The bedroom isn't outside society it's a place to go back to a dominant/submissive dynamic.
You put your balls in her and then you pee in her butt. You're welcome
Only one way to do it homosexual: significantly cut back on the porn and less death gripping/weird fetish stuff, it readjusts
If you actually, sincerely found your partner attractive rather than settling for her because you feel like you won't be able to do better you wouldn't have this problem. Your body betrays your bluff to yourself.
Yeah I frick ugly escorts and last like an hour
>This is probably the result of a lifetime of being a coomer but even if I stop watching porn what else can I do to cum quicker?
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im literally you. lost my virginity in my early 30s and it was...let's say an acquired taste. a lifetime of jerking off with your fist like there's no tomorrow takes a lifetime of abstinence to fix. unironically. if you want a sex life with another human being forget about masturbation. this is the only valid solution you will hear.
idk I've been cooming for over 20 years and sexing for over 10 and I can still nut in under a minute sometimes when I'm super horny and the pussy is good
it's actually a problem, haven't been able to last long at all for the last while
I had the same issue. I found the best way solve the issue is by not cumming for a few days then having my girl throat me and eat my ass while I jerk madiq. You have to stop jerking off.
You wouldn't have that problem if you were attracted to her. Pro tip: Every man saying he has "erectile dysfunction" is beating off to anime a few minutes later. It's because b***hes are ugly. But men know better than to say that.
There you go, female lurkers. Remember this when you're 40 and your husband can't get it up. Less than 0.3% of ED cases are caused by a physical condition.
100% of my ED comes from too much alcohol or too much cocaine or a combination of the two.
This is not true. Anxiety can cause it.
Every time I haven't been able to get hard is either because of alcohol or nerves
>Less than 0.3% of ED cases are caused by a physical condition.
>physical condition.
>This is not true. Anxiety can cause it.
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>Less than 0.3% of ED cases are caused by a physical condition.
le bull le shit.
I've been with my girl for a year now and have the same problem. You can improve but it will be a very slow process unfortunately. Don't jerk off at all, don't watch porn. Eat healthy foods because it does effect your dick to not get the right (nut)rients.
There are some creams you can try like man1man oil to help rebuild sensitivity and repair scar tissue. Rub it on your dick. There are supplements like horny goat weed too.
Also, retrain your sensitivity. Use lots of lube and barely touch your dick. Use less and less friction to be able to cum over time. Maybe try onaholes, and eventually you will have the opposite problem and start cumming too fast
OP
1. Are you circumcised?
2. Were you wearing a condom?
If your wiener is mutilated it's probably that. Otherwise you're most likely a gay. Try Grindr, I've heard good stuff about it.
do pronebone i usually can have sex for a while but i cum almost instantly when she’s facedown on the bed
I have the opposite problem that my dick is too sensitive. I've very rarely used my hand to jerk off over the past several years and now I cum too fast with girls.
I'd assume the only thing that will fix it is just having more sex
How do y'all not get sex burnout. Last time I was in a relationship I had a hard time getting work and school done because I was constantly thinking about how to validate her. How do I distract myself?