Yea i think about shit like that all the time. Hindsight. But i bet if I went back, I wouldnt of done anything different given the circumstances and forgotten details that lead up to it. Just have to try to be your best everday and move on.
>spend entire life turning the other cheek to people who hurt me >some girl last month becomes the 20th or so in a row to lead me on then ditch me >finally send the meanest text of my life back to her and block her and move on >know she shared it around to a bunch of people to make me look psycho >oh well, I'll have to accept the social consequences of blowing up at this girl one time (didn't say any threatening shit btw, just insults)
I always go with the never reply thing because women only love getting you to react to them, but she got me this time. Anyone she tells about it will infantilize her and see her as a victim of a big mean man instead of just as two adults acting childish hurting eachother's feelings. I don't even feel bad about being mean back to her, but admittedly much of it was pent up frustration built up over similar experiences all blowing up on her.
You need to unironically join a boxing gym. One of those old school clubs full of steel mill workers and guys from the hood. You need to learn how to be assertive and aggressive without being reactionary and that environment is the best place to learn it
I'm living in Nippon so I thought it'd be a good meme to learn a martial art here, but I don't really care as long as I'm challenging myself and overcoming the weak people pleaser in me
Oh my dude 100% you can find an Okinawan karate school that would fit the bill perfectly. Why didn't you say so? I thought you were in yoorup or burger like the rest of us
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I knew it would affect the answer so first I wanted an unabashed take on the merits
Nah anon, I know, I just let myself ignore that knowledge this one weak-ass time to feel satisfied for ten minutes. Now I have this mental nightmare they'll try getting my called into HR at my job or something sending screenshots of my insults to them and I'll get a "This reflects poorly on the company" firing or whatever. I dunno, never get further involved with psycho women trying to amp up the exchange, they are way better and way more experienced at it.
I don't think so. Up until now I've found the best thing is nothing. No matter what you say it's getting screenshotted and put in the group chat/on her IG story because your attention, whether positive or negative, validates her. Best thing to annoy them is give them nothing, or at least if it doesn't annoy them it doesn't fuel their nutty fire.
Yeah nothing fucks with a woman's mind as much as not giving her attention. It took me 28 years to find that out so I'm definitely late to the party but at least I eventually got it
>tfw i start thinking about all the times i was mean or cruel to someone in my life >tfw i start thinking about all the times people were mean or cruel to me
doggy dog world
>got hit as a kid >hit my kid
haunting me til I die/10. wasn't much of a hit but it probably broke his trust in me and fucked him a little like it did for me. sucks man.
being upset about what you've done in the past just means you've grown. mental and spiritual gains. you're alright, anon. just do better in the future
when i was 17, i told a girl who was interested in me that another girl who i was interested in was 9/10 and she was more like a 5/10
im a horrible person
lol you mean moron but you were honest.. thats more than most fuccbois out there
Yea i think about shit like that all the time. Hindsight. But i bet if I went back, I wouldnt of done anything different given the circumstances and forgotten details that lead up to it. Just have to try to be your best everday and move on.
man up, frogposter
I raped my schizophrenic friend while she was on LSD once. You haven't done shit, I promise.
>had sex
Kind of a weird brag.
i can't imagine dealing with someone who has schizophrenia and on LSD. what are they like?
it's a cruel world. in the end it doesn't matter, if they've moved on, you can move on,
Christ she must have been terrified
Bro she was on lsd she probably had no fucking idea what was happening
You're still lucid unless doing heroic levels
The fact that you recognize your failings is half the battle use it as motivation to be better in the future.
>spend entire life turning the other cheek to people who hurt me
>some girl last month becomes the 20th or so in a row to lead me on then ditch me
>finally send the meanest text of my life back to her and block her and move on
>know she shared it around to a bunch of people to make me look psycho
>oh well, I'll have to accept the social consequences of blowing up at this girl one time (didn't say any threatening shit btw, just insults)
I always go with the never reply thing because women only love getting you to react to them, but she got me this time. Anyone she tells about it will infantilize her and see her as a victim of a big mean man instead of just as two adults acting childish hurting eachother's feelings. I don't even feel bad about being mean back to her, but admittedly much of it was pent up frustration built up over similar experiences all blowing up on her.
You need to unironically join a boxing gym. One of those old school clubs full of steel mill workers and guys from the hood. You need to learn how to be assertive and aggressive without being reactionary and that environment is the best place to learn it
Can one do this with any martial art?
You can but boxing gyms are usually the easiest to find for that environment
I'm living in Nippon so I thought it'd be a good meme to learn a martial art here, but I don't really care as long as I'm challenging myself and overcoming the weak people pleaser in me
Oh my dude 100% you can find an Okinawan karate school that would fit the bill perfectly. Why didn't you say so? I thought you were in yoorup or burger like the rest of us
I knew it would affect the answer so first I wanted an unabashed take on the merits
Nah anon, I know, I just let myself ignore that knowledge this one weak-ass time to feel satisfied for ten minutes. Now I have this mental nightmare they'll try getting my called into HR at my job or something sending screenshots of my insults to them and I'll get a "This reflects poorly on the company" firing or whatever. I dunno, never get further involved with psycho women trying to amp up the exchange, they are way better and way more experienced at it.
you need to learn to scold women like they're kids instead of getting angry
I don't think so. Up until now I've found the best thing is nothing. No matter what you say it's getting screenshotted and put in the group chat/on her IG story because your attention, whether positive or negative, validates her. Best thing to annoy them is give them nothing, or at least if it doesn't annoy them it doesn't fuel their nutty fire.
Yeah nothing fucks with a woman's mind as much as not giving her attention. It took me 28 years to find that out so I'm definitely late to the party but at least I eventually got it
I regret being a moderate bully in hs. Being a cool kid was a curse.
>tfw i start thinking about all the times i was mean or cruel to someone in my life
>tfw i start thinking about all the times people were mean or cruel to me
doggy dog world
>doggy dog world
Stupid son of bitch. It's "dog eat dog world". Retard.
No you idiot. It's a moggy mog world. I fucking swear
newfags like you are a diamond dozen these days
Hmm, if only there was someone who could love you despite all your flaws and sins...
Can’t relate
I almost never feel guilty about anything ever
>got hit as a kid
>hit my kid
haunting me til I die/10. wasn't much of a hit but it probably broke his trust in me and fucked him a little like it did for me. sucks man.