>tfw the gym is my only personality trait
How do I make social gains bros?
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>tfw the gym is my only personality trait
>tfw the gym is my only personality trait
How do I make social gains bros?
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Go out to clubs and bars, get a little drunk and literally just say words to people. it will level up your social skills
I don't drink, alcohol kills gains.
Don't drink all the time, and you'll be fine.
go out to the club streets and talk to drunk girls, its a lot easier.
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>IM DA BASED ALPHA
Alcohol is poison. You're an idiot.
Step 1: Don't let your entire life revolve around the gym. You complain that your entire personality trait is the gym, and then you say stupid shit like "alcohol kills gains". Don't you see how much you're holding yourself back with a stupid mindset like that? A little alcohol here and there isn't gonna destroy your physique. Skip the gym sometimes and go out.
Post body immediately. I don't even drink and I think this reflex-answer of yours is pure cringe.
Frick others,real men dont drink alco.
Except for every real man ever, in the history of men. But you and OP don't, and you are the real men, obviously.
You have no idea what you're missing. I'm drunk right now.
Alcohol sucks but having a beer or two on a Friday night at a bar wont kill you. Do not drink every day or make it a habit though.
I rather have a glass of bourbon or whiskey than beer. Beer is so much empty carbs that I could have eaten as french fries or bread or pizza instead of beer. Snacks like those are a luxury, and I rather spend my carb count on something delicious instead of watered down piss water
based. frick everyone itt with low impulse control trying to shame you into drinking
Alcohol is literally the single worst thing you can put in your body but having an occasional brewski isn't going to kill you. Never let someone shame you into doing something you don't want to do though, frick em
Do more than just the gym and find shit you enjoy that you can do with others. One that I saw a while ago was getting into board games for a board games club. There's also martial arts schools but it's hard to find a decent one. The three best are boxing, BJJ, and MMA gyms but
>so many boxing gyms are full of hood rats who got shit to work through so they go too hard and hurt each other
>many BJJ clubs are full of nerds on a power trip who will "accidentally" injure you
>MMA gyms are almost always full of women, teenage boys, and Joe Rogan dick suckers with only a few guys serious about getting into fighting
>95%+ of traditional martial art schools are McDojos that will give you a black belt if you pay for long enough without leaving
If you can vet places and avoid those shitty versions then learning how to fight does wonders for your confidence and for your social life
any martial arts gym is all 3 of those combined (not including the pay your way to black belt, those gym are a breed of their own) also you forgot to mention how everybody is a sex pest. or has deeply deranged mental health issues
Be born a few years earlier and raised on the internet in an era when communities revolved around hobbies and niche interests.
get into sports, normies love sports
This. If you can put a ball in a hoop you're basically God to normies. Moreso than if you built a wormhole generator from scratch in your backyard.
for women it's "I love to travel" so what's the problem here
You don't need a personality if your biceps are big enough.
Try getting into ham radio. Talking to boomers in my club cured my post pandemic social autism.
zoomers don't have personalities anyways
you'll be fine
You're not alone, at least. Probably most people nowadays wish they had more friends than they do. There was some survey that said the average person has literally 0 close friends they can rely on outside their family. We were evolved to live like this
Everyone has a personality,you just want a normie likeable one.
Copy normies then
>lift for sthetics
>run marathons in different cities across the country
>training for triathlon, goal of doing ironman someday
>play guitar and sing for fun
>have a cute pupperino (cavalier King Charles) that i take for walks in the park
by socializing homosexual.
Develop a phenibut habit and build a personality working well for me but I have a nasty withdrawal to look forward 2. Doesn't effect lifting negatively
Get a sales job where you are forced to be outgoing, extroverted and dealing with rejection daily. After 6 months you will be unstoppable. I am a balding 6/10 /fitizen/ at best, but I have many 8/10 in multiple cities I can hook up with at will.
Sales is the most transferable skill in life. After doing 6 months of sales you will be so dead to feeling anything for rejection, you will start seeing girls like prospects. Filling up pipelines, spending just enough time to keeping girls on the fence interested (keeping in pipeline), and closing (i.e., dicking down) all the definite sales whenever possible.
I will say you will get jaded pretty quickly as you realize that 99% of all women are carbon copies of each other personality wise. In fact, this power (being good at sales) is a two sided sword for your happiness as you realize how easy it is win in America.
Good luck.
I'm 29,my will to live is basically non existent
sales follows the pareto principle down to a T
youre either really good at it or an abused dog fighting for scraps. I imagine people who browse this board and specifically these types of threads would be in the latter camp
I agree with losers on this thread.
That said, nobody is a "natural salesperson" in a high paying says gig. They occasionally have a good year, but the reliable top performers are all learned and follow process to a T. I have trained sales people to be on a winning team and I've seen all the natural sales stars crash and burn. Its the workers and process based sales people who crush their number each and every year. Its a learned skill and just requires the right mentoring.
Again, I think OP should at least try it to see if he is good at it / learn the basics. Can't fathom how many losers just expect women to just throw themselves on their car windshield. Basic prospecting / building pipelines is a totally transferrable skill. Wasting time on zero chance women is what all these losers with no sales experience do all day.
t. Introverted sales chad who was once an desk jockey engineer
should write a book in sales terms for picking up w*men
You’re overthinking it. Nobody cares if you lmaoplayguitar, lmaodoBJJ, or lmaorockclimb. I’m assuming you think you have no personality around girls? Most of the guys you think must be having these compelling hobbies and vibrant personalities in reality just watch Netflix and scroll social media. Just stop thinking you’re not enough for women. You’re way over-estimating the competition and if you want to do a hobby just remember that it will not give you “personality gains” and no one will care.
This. My most charismatic friends have the same hobbies as I do, but are able to talk and pull b***hes. It really isn't difficult.
The difference is that those guys are already in friend groups. If you're trying to find friend groups and you're not naturally near people because of something like uni or having cool coworkers, you have to get more creative
Fair enough I was reading into OP’s post that he was trying to be more attractive to women. I myself have a gf but feel disconnected from previous friends so I’m also trying to make new ones. I’m in school while working so it’s waiting until I finish school in April, but OP I can tell you my gf does a cardio class and has made really great friends. She’s an outgoing person so take it for what you will, but she goes every day which is the most important. You need to figure out something that meets regularly. My plan when I have more time is try church small groups, a cardio class (since I do weights on my own obviously), or a volunteer group and go to different ones until I connect with a group. OP just think of something you’d be interested in that is a group activity that meets regularly. And if you frick up you can always try again akd you’ll get better at it
Everyone’s always like get a hobby or sport then you’ll get laid!!! And I’m like b***h what? I have the cleanest hardflips in town but apparently that doesn’t count? Ok whatever
>How do I make social gains bros?
Alcohol
If you don't pick it up naturally from your EET environment you have to get proactive and start doing things. Any sports you like to play? Local sports clubs are a good way to meet young people
If you live in the middle of nowhere you're SOL, get really into MMOs and die of a heart attack at 51
What more interests you?
There must be something more you kinda feel looks fun. Find out and just go do it basically.
If it's girls, start to do stuff where girls ARE.
Like, not clubs or some stupid thing. Do a workshop. Workshop about cooking, anything really. Talk with people on said workshop.
That's how I've met all of my previous girlfriends. It's super easy aswell. All you do is talk about the topic. So it's usually easy getting to know new people.
You first remember they're objects, not human beings.
Are you guys really this stupid? Tell me you’re not this stupid.
Going to the gym is just something that happens on autopilot in the background. It’s like showering or changing the oil in your car.
You wouldn’t make changing the oil in your car your whole personality, would you?
You have to actually live an interesting life. Go out and do things. Achieve some professional success. Make friends. Meet women. Travel. Pick up a hobby.
Nobody is going to be impressed that you do the bare minimum to be a viable candidate in the dating world.
You’re all just like the women who are obsessed with makeup, make it their hobby, but don’t actually work on their health or bodies. NOBODY CARE ABOUT YOUR OHP.
oh yea? well at least we don't reddit space
does this angel have a penis?
you know it!
Yes! Goddamnit I need a young trans gf
this was written by a man wearing women’s clothing such as yourself
>tfw well-known and popular in 2 gyms
>Hang out with loads of girls and guys
Gym IS my social circle