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I appreciate you including a theme OP good job.
Let me be first to say
>tfw no gf
I'm at this weird point where I want to cut but I also just want to enjoy food again.
I'm still 10lbs away from where I want to be but the idea of eating burgers again is too tempting
>practice gf ghosted me
Fricking lmao, here I thought she was punching above her weight. Can't have shit these days
One pelegrino with double lemon less ice please.
My ex gf came back to town for the easter holidays. We haven't talked in one month but we broke up since december 2022. I was the one to break it off because alot of red flags (ldr,male friends,weird situations) she had basically had me on the edge.
Anyway yesterday i took the day off work and i went for a coffee with some friends and she popped out of nowhere with a lanket. She passed in front of me and said 'hi' and went in. I didn't respond and then i realized that she was with the lanket.
I leave after a while and i text her:
> 'Are you really dating this moron?'
> No im giving him a ride to his gf cause he has no car. You dissapeared for a month and now you are making a scene?
She was right about that one. Anyway she called me later and i told her im busy and we should talk another time.
Same thing this morning she calls me again and i told her basically the same thing and i was going to the gym this afternoon and she saw me and i stopped for a second then left and she got angry and walked away.
I low key want to frick her but i know i will regret it. what do bros? she clearly wants it but i dont know if she fricked anybody since dec 22. also we haven't talked for a month
let her go bro doesn’t sound worth the trouble
but i love her
Go for it bro,. Disclaimer: I am a moron when it comes to this sort of thing and fall in love way too hard and get my heart broken. Its somehow addicting
>Go for it bro
ill go for it after i answer to this dude
or maybe i will not depends.
>she doesnt see you as someone to fight for or keep close
I dumped her again in Aug 22 and early oct she literally gave 1000 euros tickets to fly here for my birthday and got me all kinds of presents(irrelevant) and she stayed with me for 8 days. She then left and in dec happened what i said in the op, then when i blocked her she was sending me walls of email texts every day until she came back in february in town and searching for me all over again and never stop calling. She said she never wanted anyone else and that i was bad and cruel with her and i made her feel like garbage and that i wasted her time and potential because she wanted family with me. But maybe you are right idk.
My best friend at the cafe told me that she was a big trouble in my life and caused me a lot of anxiety and that i should forget her forever. He also told me he will never forget that she broke in my house when we fighted in 2021. She is hot tho ngl
that just makes it even more clear she is insane
its your life man
Classic BPD
from what you wrote, she doesnt value you. she doesnt see you as someone to fight for or keep close. you are temporary. she has male friends and hangs out with random men and its just giving rides and this and that and so on and so forth
theres a reason shes your ex.
if you have any dignity or intelligence you will learn from this experience and move on and find someone that really cares
>I leave after a while and i text her:
> 'Are you really dating this moron?'
You are the moron here. Also, she's probably with him. You showed weakness when you texted, you showed her you still cared. She can now do wtv tf she wants with you and she knows it.
You can't unfrick this. You probably lost a decent girl. I did the same at 22. I took her for granted and broke up, we then fricked on the side and got back together. Shortly after she went to Uni and started fricking another guy.
My honest advice, move on asap. Hey, if she had a bunch of male friends, you didn't lose much.( that ex of mine was the same thing).
feel you. I recently got friendzoned by a 23yo 5/10 4'11 fine arts major. These girls really think they can get CHAD. I wish her the best lol.
>you showed her you still cared. She can now do wtv tf she wants with you and she knows it.
>You can't unfrick this. You probably lost a decent girl
Show you care and they get the ick.
>Also, she's probably with him
she is not, i knew the guy
> You showed weakness when you texted
this is true but my intention was to just bully her, at THAT time when i was at the coffee shop i thought it would be beta to just leave like this.
>. She can now do wtv tf she wants with you and she knows it.
she can't do shit. thats why she called 4 times and i didn't answer. she was even walking the dog one hour ago and she stopped me and i just kept slowly going and she got angry and left
>Hey, if she had a bunch of male friends, you didn't lose much.
bro that fricking guy she was with she is with her in the other country and she was the one who initiated to 'help' him when he moved there. she is a fricking hoe and we fighted for this and now i saw them together insane. frick that b***h
lol at that pic
>Show you care and they get the ick.
only that i didn't care
>only that i didn't care
You DMd her about it, that's the first ick, the second is "Are you really dating this moron?" which sounds aggressive and makes you look insecure so that's another ick. Sorry bro you failed the game.
>zero friends
>hungry and horny all the time
>accutane raping my skin and making my lips, nose, and dick bleed
>making zero progress with my stoodying
>haven't had sex in 4 years
The one silver lining is I've made insane gains this year and I'm in the best shape of my life. The other shit can wait, but how do I cultivate the discipline to stoody properly again? After graduating from undergrad I just completely stopped caring.
How I would love to have my thick brown hair of my youth... balding since 18.
ive been smoking weed and abusing adderall for pretty much this entire month every day even though i have many important exams and clinical patients i have to treat
i dont have emotions any more
everything feels the same
there is no reward for good behavior or punishment for bad behavior
I have come to the conclusion that I, in fact, cannot frick this fat chick. She's also a leftist and mentally ill / depressed and I don't need the headache. She's also inexperienced and definitely not the type to easily do casual sex, she'd get attached in an instant.
I'm just going to jerk off and focus on getting fit.
>I, in fact, cannot frick this chick
I know this feel very well. Took this girl on 3 dates. The talking chemistry is good, but the physical chemistry is very poor. Weird feels. I don't really feel like going out to pursue other women either, so I'll just focus on my personal shit for now. Was really hoping for a casual cumdumpster, but alas.
is sex with women really that much better than jerking off? guys on here ruining their lives over pussy
i am a virgin so i wouldnt know
It depends. It's better, but not THAT much better. If getting pussy stresses you out then it isn't really worth it. For me, it's all mental. I use pussy as validation for my worth as a man. I know that's bad and I'm working through it, but that's really why I pursue it when I do.
It really depends on the situation. Sometimes you're just compelled by some unexplainable biological urge to frick. It becomes more important than food, water, or personal safety. You end up on the wrong side of town in an apartment with dozens of overflowing ashtrays on every level surface, garbage bags filled with possessions strewn about, picture frames leaning on the wall under where they had fallen, cardboard and newspapers taped over the street-facing windows. Blackout curtains, half the bed is covered in fast food rubbish and empty beer cans. Maybe she's hot, but until you get a nut off its impossible to tell.
When you cum you feel the shackles come off. You rub your sore wrists and step into the light. It takes a second for your eyes to adjust. Once again you, YOU are in control of yourself again, not that thing, whatever or whoever it was. Have you done something? Oh god, it smells. She wants you to stay the night? She needs emotional gratification and let you sleep with her in order to trick you. If you don't lay down next to her and philosophize about life for at least 45 minutes she'll start crying. Maybe she'll start crying anyways when do inevitably leave. Shame follows you out of the building and down her steps. She said her ex boyfriend was a psychopath stalker- maybe you'll run into him outside? On the bus ride home you can smell youself. But it doesn't matter. Two weeks' emotional rehab and you'll be back at it, you rascal.
that was an enjoyable read
fricking ratchets in a trap house is peak lizard brain experience
Beautiful post, champ
Damn
Sometimes yes, sometimes no. But as someone else said, it's more about the validation. Maybe I just have a not so sensitive penis, but getting blown isn't all that good. but just the fact that a girl has my dick in her mouth, is a great feeling.
but I can say that the four years I had a gf, where the four best years of my life. and being alone again now sucks ass. I thought "hey, i guess i can sleep around now at least", but a one night stand with no emotional connection is just wack.
she likes you. she's just afraid of seeming too eager and "easy". the fact that you've been on three dates with her, is proof enough that she likes you. if not, you would never have gotten a second one.
>I thought "hey, i guess i can sleep around now at least", but a one night stand with no emotional connection is just wack.
You already wrote the solution to this earlier. It's more about having a girl you like want to do these things with you, and a ONS is worthless. So, date several girls at once, girls you like, and you'll be having a good time.
an orange juice but keep it cold
i'll stuff some shrooms in it later
ONCE THIS HOUSE CLEANER FINISHES HIS JOB
I’ve spent the last few months trying to crawl out of my depression. Small steps, small changes every week. I had to start with the most basic levels of human self care like cleaning my room doing laundry, brushing my teeth. I’m staying on top of it for the most part, I just started lifting again and have actually managed consistency with it. My moods are better each day. Energy increasing, posture improving, desire growing, I feel better and better.
I applied to a job, did half the interviewing process and had the last step of the process confirmed. Just a stupid security gig two nights a week. They confirmed the phone interview via text and email and confirmed it again. They never called. I emailed the interviewer he never replied. An hour past the scheduled time and I get a text asking me to review how the interview went…
It’s discouraging but I wouldn’t say I lost steam, just a little annoyed.
My ex sent her routine every few weeks text to me. This time it was a long paragraph attempting to apologize for once. She didn’t even really take ownership or accountability. The whole issue was she flat out threatened to cheat on me, then would gaslight me and say it never happened or tell me it was just a joke or change what she meant 100 different ways. She said it was a just simple miscommunication and shit but this b***h fully expected me to apologize for not trusting her after she threatened to cheat on me. After I got this message I didn’t feel sad or have any desire to speak to her, I laughed. I couldn’t help but laugh. I ended up responding a day later and basically told her “uh okay you threatened to cheat on me I don’t know what you expect me to tell you but I hope you grow from this and *laughter* maybe don’t do that with the next guy”
And she goes right back into saying “I didn’t threaten to cheat that didn’t happen”
I dodged a bullet. Hottest girl I’ve ever been with, but she’s moronic. I feel good, like I moved on
Are you me lol?
What do you mean "threatened to cheat"?
It wouldn't have been in those words. I think what the rest of us are used to is rather something more along the lines that you catch her cheating and she justifies it by saying "... well its an open relationship, duh...?"
I spent the entire day on the phone with her from 10am to 11:30Pm and for once I could tell I would be falling asleep before 1am and actually getting sleep so I wanted to take the opportunity because at the time I was not sleeping more than 6 hours per night. The entire day she trauma dumped which is what’s he did 90% of the relationship, and I was there for her. We stopped talking about her problems like an hour before I wanted to get off the phone to sleep. She told me
“Fine I’ll just go keep someone else up then”
This was like 1-2 days after I felt comfortable enough to let her know I sometimes feel like she talks to other guys.
She tried saying it was a joke, she tried saying “no I meant like I’ll talk to my best friend instead” she knows what she meant because she instantly started saying “oh shit I’m sorry I didn’t mean it I’m sorry”
I gave her chances to make it right which would have been for her to be understanding I feel uncertain about her now and to just offer me reassurance, show me it was a simple human mistake and that she did value me and have my best interest in mind, but all she did was play victim about it lmfao
Honestly that's not even that bad. She was just trying to jostle you emotionally. The trauma dumping thing is a waaaay bigger red flag. It sounds like she doesn't respect you as much as she should?
Maybe just give her a year or two to figure things out and if she can do that without being a bawd you can give her another chance
Please see
the exact circumstance is why it’s not an acceptable joke to make. Furthermore it’s blatant and extreme manipulation. “Frick your sleep up and spend 18 hours on the phone with me or I will cheat on you” what? No fricking way. It’s not a wife of 15 years getting a rise out of her husband by saying “those movers are so strong you better watch out”
Oh and I could definitely give her a few years to figure it out but she would have to move to my area which I know she’s not doing, I’m not doing the long distance crap anymore it’s not worth it. She definitely needs a year or two to grow up, she was 23 and immature, but it’ll never work with her unless she’s moved to my city. I would be willing to try again with her if that happened but I’m not holding my breath, she’s a nut job.
Oh and for background that I feel is important it was long distance. Only by 5 hours but may as well lived across the country considering we could only see each other for a week at a time ever couple months with our schedules. I had known her for 5 years prior and she always tried to hmu to hang and do stuff but I either didn’t have time or didn’t want to. The knowing her for 5 years and her being 9/10 is why I broke my boundary of no long distance at all
You simply cannot make jokes or threats about that stuff 1.) in a new relationship, sure maybe if you’ve been together for years or are married and you know it’s not serious and you can trust each other but not a brand new relationship and 2.) in fricking long distance you just don’t say shit like that
But I have her chances to make it right anyways. I was mad for a while, I did everything right. I even gave her chances to show me it was a mistake and she was worth while to display any ounce of concern over her frick up and how I felt that I could cling to to justify me staying with her but it never came so all I could do was break it off unless I wanted to stop caring about myself and having self respect.
Lol, ditch that b***h and keep going my man
Thanks bros. I nearly sent her another text but chose not to because of your replies. Now I’m unironically getting a little effected by it. I need to face the reality. I did nothing wrong, she fricked up and didn’t even at least care enough to try and fix it. And even if I could overlook that, I can’t do long distance. It is what it is maybe I’ll meet her again in several years when she’s grown and matured a little. Hopefully I meet a woman who I actually like and feel good with.
>It is what it is maybe I’ll meet her again in several years when she’s grown and matured a little.
Don't hold out for it, people like her rarely change. It's in their nature to be manipulators. You dodged a bullet. Don't entertain her delusions any more. If she reaches out again don't even do "K", just leave her on read.
I don’t understand incels who are refusing to bone one last time. If she comes back it means she is attracted to you because you did something right. Of course you will go ghost until that happens tho
>I don’t understand incels who are refusing to bone one last time
Because I'm seeing other girls, and why would I give her the satisfaction of me fricking her again? She lost out, she can frick off. Sure if you struggle meeting and getting girls I can see why you would go back for a crumb of pussy, but some of us can manage, dude.
Shoulda hit her with the
>K
I fricking hate my gf, but when I think that she's a practice gf I feel better
bro i do that with everything in life
everything is just a practice ____
The terror attacks are starting again. I wish, more than ever, I had a bf to hug to relax and forget everything. My anxiety is through the roof.
I also wrote in a group chat today and now want to disappear from the world. What an idiot am I.
Ran 8km today though, so it was nice. Finally recovering after the injury
you ever think that being gay is causing your problems? find god
Not gay, just not a man. But I don't think being gay would have made things any different.
>thinks not being man isn’t super gay
Shut up homosexual
i'll be your boyfriend, now you can't complain on image boards anymore. it's official. we are now lovers. so babhegrol, how's it going?
It doesnt rain in a long while, and the last time it did it was a drizzle a couple hours long. Just looking at the weather cast makes me anxious. We're in drought emergency since fricking 2021 and i can't bear it anymore
Where are you?
A few days ago a girl asked for my phone number, then a day after that she talked me into getting Snapchat again. I've known her for quite a while now, we never really talked much but would have mini conversations on lunch break or something. But I've always thought she was pretty and even kind of like her. I guess I just don't know if she feels the same or not, because she's seems to be pretty friendly with everyone, even the utter fricking losers that we worked with (worse than me). We've been talking back and forth for the past couple days though, she even sent me kind of a skimpy photo yesterday. It wasn't too raunchy, she just kind of pulled her shirt sleeve down so her shoulder and upper boob area was showing. I feel like she's just being friendly but I don't know. I've never really had any pretty girls like this into me before, just fat losers. What do you guys think? Is she just friendly or is she into me?
Don’t bend over backwards to chase. Just fricking throw your cards on the table and start making actual moves yourself and slowly escalate.
If she doesn’t respond well it’s ok too. You don’t need her
It's not okay. I see this chick pretty much everyday. If I frick this up it's over. I'll literally have to leave the country to keep my dignity.
Very content to happy with life. I’m turning 27 this month and my salary just cracked into six figures. I’m the strongest I’ve been in my life (a few pounds over 1/2/3/4 for each lift for sets of 5), and my cardio is the best it’s been. All I want now is to drop fat (5’10”, 185, I want to get to around 170-175). My problem is I love eating and drinking way too much. I love to cook elaborate meals and usually overindulge.
Today has been above average, woke up, got my hair cut, went to train Muay Thai for 2 hours, then came back and my wife had toasted me a bagel and fried a couple of eggs. Showered, now laying in bed. Comfy Good Friday.
Life is good. Met a girl. What makes me somewhat nervous about her though is a) she's inconsistent about her life story and b) she knows more about my family than most women I talk to do; mostly just the fact that we're financially comfortable. And I don't know how this factors into her thinking or whether she'd be capable of tricking me, pretending to be in love?
I don't know why I care so much about her past. We're at the age now where everyone has done everything and it'd be naive to pick anyone out for clubbing as a youth or having other boyfriends previously. But the thought of that still disgusts me? It wasn't so bad with the last woman I was with. She described her previous boyfriend and there was something comforting about it. He was just a dude (nurse? biochemist?) who would make her dinner and they'd play a lot of board games together. But meanwhile who I'm with right now has clearly stated that if she told me everything then I would leave? Maybe I'm just looking for an excuse to do so.
Regardless, I hate being manipulated by women. I fall for all that shit, which in hindsight is likely often performative, not genuine. "I cried all night because of what you said". What? Why didn't you call me.
Its tough out there.
It probably just means you are very interested in her. The more you fall for someone the worse you think about their sexual past. Its normal, you want to own her. Maybe I am also projecting, was me with my last gf who broke up w me last week and I have never felt so sad. Loved her way too much, and the worst thing is that I wake up every day and hope she texted me. Been consistent with diet and exercising though, dont let women interfere with your disciplin.
>I fall for all that shit, which in hindsight is likely often performative, not genuine. "I cried all night because of what you said".
Sometimes they really do cry over the smallest things.
/fat/ here
I’ve lost some 60 pounds since new year. It’s great. But today I had this lunch with coworkers thing, some I see once a month or so. I had this day marked on my calendar so to speak. It came and went. I got a few “wow you lost a lot of weight!” type of reactions. But idk, it was as if nothing changed. Like I was still basically off to the side while everyone enjoyed themselves type of thing. I left a bit early and no one seemed to notice. I think I just built it up in my head. Sitting on the bus now and all I want to do is down a 6 pack of beer and order pizza, despite not having that in the last 4 months.
I know that feeling. Coworkers are wrapped in their own realities so they won’t noticed others unless they are invested. Especially so for men. I would think inserting myself into a situation might help but that does take some balls to do
Yeah it’s pretty unfortunate. I’m about to buy some useless crap on Amazon just to get my mind off eating or drinking, sleep it off, and wake up fresh
The more fit I get, the gayer I get and the more cuckolf fantasies I have. I am not on peds, just tonglat ali, fadogia, and recently trying out velvet deer antler.
After every workout I sit in the sauna with nothing but a towel on praying that a hot guy comes in and shows me his wiener. I'm married with three kids. This isn't fun 🙁
I filled in the captcha just to call you a homosexual
I just noticed that this girl I started going on dates with never hits me up first. Doesn't text or call me first, but is always very receptive when I reach out. Very enthusiastic to meet up. We've been on three dates in about a 4 weeks.
Does this matter at all? Am I thinking too much? I want to casually date her anyway, so I don't know if it's something I should worry about really.
You are the woman in this relationship
elaborate
It’s literally over
That's normal, they want to be courted, they want the guy to reach out and ask for dates and trying to set up things etc. They want the guy to be interested but not too interested.
Sometimes when I think about how their brains function it pisses me the frick off and other times I take it for what it is: a game. Never trust any of them, by the way, as if the way the shit I just described doesn't say it all. They're playthings and don't ever let the act drop.
t. had a late night half-drunk talk about this with a girl I barely know recently + am seeing 4 girls rn (non uggo or fatsos or any other trashy shit)
Yeah a lot of the psychology just emerges from prevailing cultural and social practices. For example, A lot of early 20 guys will complain that women are all morons. However once you make some money and get in shape, women will spend more time and effort articulating their interactions with you; you'll be impressed constantly by how smart the women you meet are. Its just perspective.
I'm late 20s with no money and a DYEL skelly-tier body and it's more so that my mentality to women has changed. I could never flirt when I was younger, now I do it both unintentionally and intentionally.
You’re fine. You’re the hunter, she’s the hunted. Besides, this is the wrong question. Is she withholding sex? if she won’t have sex with you, then you need to drop her
I wish i could reach true body neutrality, im tired of caring what i look like when I'm fit and healthy
Water, with apple cider vinegar. I've been in a cycle of getting a job, going to the gym, then self sabotaging with vices and not following through on promises.
I gained 30+ lbs this month from eating, sleeping, and literally sitting on my ass. I know I gotta get my shit together, but I'd rather be alone while doing it.
I'm going to build a deck and I'm really excited about it, but can't pick a color out. My house is this super dark greenish gray and I'm debating between a similar color for the deck, or maybe a tannish brown
Ahhh been a tough few week boys.
>Gf informs me she fricks her coworker when traveling
>Car on it's last leg
>Boss says my numbers are down
carpool to work. is grinding possible w/ your job?
I am so fricking close to Nicholson's hairline in OP's pic. Somewhere between Norwood 2 and 3. Been growing it out since Thanksgiving and probably gonna get it cut tomorrow. If I see my scalp on the top of my head I am officially at 3 and gonna keep it long as long as possible.
Hold me, anons... I'm scared.
Cheers Guys, was in need for such a thread two days ago, now i am doing fine.
>Be me
>On a Date saturday a week ago
>Going pretty good
>She is kinda cute looking, nothing Special
>Is unvaxxed, my interest goes up by 360°
>Says "See you soon" when i drop her Off at her Apartment
>Feelsgoodman
>Starts ghosting me the next days
>Sorry anony, I am Not over my Last relationship
>Feelsbadman
Welp, when she werent unvaxxed i wouldnt Care so much, but anyways am. Just wanted to Share this with you guys. Gonna have a bbq with friends tomorrow to celebrate my graduation. Next week gonna Go clubbing, in beetween spending time with the Family. We all gonna make it, Brahs. Dont give up.
Grandma's sick.
My condolences
What makes a girl come back?
Ex gf reconnected recently. She left me almost two years ago but since said that I was justified in my cynicism and nagging and that she was just in a bad place mentally or emotionally. From what I can piece together, she checked out other options in the meantime, fricked around a bit (she was a virgin before and we were going to wait, if not till marriage, at least until we moved in together or smth). She said she came back because she had been absorbed in memories of me ever since and that she had only gone out with other guys in confusion, error. Obviously this feels like a great honor to have her remember me positively but I worry that the positive elements that she remembers would be my financial state and possibly a vulnerability to her manipulation; I was in love with her, and I can feel the same comfortable fogginess filling my brain again. It just seems disrespectful. Obviously she's a good catch herself, but frick! Where we live, attaining a certain quality of life is near impossible unless you marry into it, inherit it, or invent an app or whatever. She knew about my family's financial security and I worry about it, especially since within weeks of reconnecting she brought up getting engaged, how its annoying when people stay engaged without marrying for X amount of time, etc.
Its also insulting in a way. She fricked around, hard, but established that we couldn't have sex until various factors had fallen into place in our relationship? She wants to become who she was when we used to date, she pretends to be naiely innocent about things which she understands well.
Shit. She is a good catch, but this shit fricks me up, especially as we've planned dates so far into the future. I'll probably run out the clock and find an excuse to ghost her, no sex etc, just tell her I'm gone or something. It sucks because so much about her is good (appearance, softness, intelligence, career, genetics), but her actions are so fricking insulting.
what makes her a catch? just her looks apparently
she let some random guy frick her virgin pussy
you are one dumb son of a b***h if you think she is a good catch. youre probably from east europe where everyone woman is a soulless gold digging prostitute
Thats tough but I needed to hear that. And yes, eastern euro. She's a good catch because she's physically attractive, quite smart (and works in a respectable field) and has a fundamentally feminine character, her long term goals are apparently the same as mine.
What does it mean to check someone. Background check?
Tbh that doesn't sound bad provided you're on track to better things man. I wouldn't assign a ton of value to the car if I were you. It makes a bigger impact on status than quality of life and doesn't represent a secure investment in a financial sense. Your life still sounds good tho so don't sweat the exs
>Tbh that doesn't sound bad provided you're on track to better things man.
Working on setting up a company to get out of the rat race. The good thing is that if it succeeds I have an easy way to set up tax avoidance stuff.
>It makes a bigger impact on status than quality of life and doesn't represent a secure investment in a financial sense.
It's a lease, everything's covered. Electric too, so the battery'll shit itself in 4-5 years, so I'm actually coming out on top for this deal.
>Your life still sounds good tho so don't sweat the exs
I'm one of those people (with ADHD) that get genuine happiness from having a girlfriend and loads of sex. Keeps me in a good mood. Right now I just feel empty, tired and unmotivated.
>What does it mean to check
try and mention some of the past behavior and note her response.
her false naivete, her focus on finances at this point in a relationship, her 'subliminal' marriage signaling. all weird.
>know her past behaviors and have identified them in the present
run. on the off chance you wanna go through with it, might as well check her on this stuff
>What makes a girl come back?
Wish I knew, I miss my exes. Life seems to be stagnating and every day is just routine without any feeling of progress.
>Drive a nice car for my age
>Renting my own apartment (not huge, but it's something)
>Fittest I've ever been, people ask me for advice, known as a friendly guy so have a good reputation
Yet I feel like I haven't succeeded in anything.
>Yet I feel like I haven't succeeded in anything.
You haven't succeeded in what matters: love.
t. a moronic hopeless romantic pussy
you didnt get any girl in those two years did you?
you're like forest gump, you dont frick her, she leaves and fricks others, comes back for the money and you take her
Yeah Ik the movie forrest gump. Shit.
I do try to bring stuft up. Its hard though because when she tells me stuff I feel so sick, it makes me sick to hear: And then I tell her to stop and she cries. Why the frick am I wasting time with this person. Maybe we all have flaws and I have a hard time determining whether her past actions are distinct from who she is now
>be trying to get job out of college
>first interview goes well
>turns out the corp is collapsing from the inside and managerial incompetance meant I got interviewed for a position that was already filled
>second interview
>bomb like a tard
>third interview
>goes super well
>finally got a job with a private company that looks super nice with decent pay
wagmi brehs
I thought I was an incel all along but it turns out I just didn't register ugly women as the opposite sex. Two coworkers had crushes on me
Alright lads its real homie hours and I need your genuine thoughts
You have two options to pursue:
Girl A
>retail wagie job
>lives with parents
>plays vidya/watches anime as hobbies
>definitely has something on the mental health spectrum like depression or anxiety
>fun in conversation, like talk for hours/days naturally
Girl B
>junior doctor
>renting her own place
>IST hobbies like hiking and netball
>SHIT conversation because of work schedule but also just sucks at small talk
>actual functioning adult
You'd think B is a winner by a clear shot right? Then why the frick am I drawn to A way more? Is love a meme? Do I follow the heart or the brain? I'm going fricking insane
im goin balls depp in in girl A
I'd probably go for the woman doctor (nurse?) because shes not mentally ill. Maybe just choose whoever has a better physique? Mental illness is dangerous
who isn't mentally ill nowadays bro
Girl B will choose career over you, no babies and will be 'tired' 24/7 and grow apart.
>You haven't succeeded in what matters: love.
I know anon. Cliche as it sounds, I got dumped the last time because my ex wasn't used to being treated so well and was not doing well mentally and 'didn't want to drag me down too'. Weird shit.
>They just say that, it's bs
Thought so too, but it was genuine.
>Cliche as it sounds, I got dumped the last time because my ex wasn't used to being treated so well and was not doing well mentally and 'didn't want to drag me down too'. Weird shit.
Nah you don't get it bro, it's not weird shit, this is what happened: you treated her like she was someone, so she realized she's the important one in the relationship. Sorry man, if you'd been more aloof, indifferent, hung back on reaching out to meet, slower dms, all of it, she probably would have stuck around. It's part of how they work sadly.
>They just say that, it's bs
It is bullshit, because anon: if she was in love with you, or had feelings for you, do you really think she would leave?
>Thought so too, but it was genuine
Come on now.
Take it as a learning experience. When I fell in love for the first time, with a friend, I wasn't able to be myself any more, talk to her like I would a girl I was interested in, invite her out, be calm, cool, all that, and of course it inevitably ended with her rejecting me and our friendship was over. And now, I know never to let emotions get in. Sounds pessimistic but you can't be hopelessly into a girl, that's their privilege.
For something serious? Neither. Girls exist who have their shit together and are fun to talk to, it isn't just discord kitten pseudo-NEETs and boring careermaxxing hags. Date both at the same time and gather experience as you look for others.
Perfectly stated. Just wear a condom and don’t accidentally knock one of them up. ESPECIALLY Girl A
I have everything I want and I still can't seem to be happy. I have a loving supportive girlfriend, I lift regularly and am back to prog overload after a long plateau, and I discovered my love for guitar 2-3 years ago and I'm finally getting good. It just seems like everything I do is undercut by negativity.
I have a girlfriend but she's going to get sick and die before me. I work out but I will always hate my body and my unhealthy relationship with food. I love guitar but I can't motivate myself to make songs.
I don't understand. My life is perfect. I have everything I ever wanted. I'm young, I have a decent career, I don't have debt, I'm investing, I leave beneath my means, etc etc etc. I've always said stuff like, "well as soon as I graduate college, THEN I'll be happy," "as soon as I get a GF," as soon as I move out, as soon as I pay off my debt, get a hobby, do this, do that.
I'm at the point now where my only real goals are to buy a house and retire, and I know buying a house isn't going to make me happy. I just don't know what I want anymore. I just come home and I'm bored and sad.
Saw that she was texting a guy she fricked two years ago. She insisted she just sent a picture to him of a doppelgänger she saw in real life and they were just catching up but that she only cares about me. They were really friendly over text. Told her to get out. I really cared about this girl. Another 1.5 months down the drain.
>teehee anon im just catching up with this dick that fricked me 2 years ago
Lol
>"I really cared about this girl"
>1.5 months
Lmao
>be agnostic from Catholic family
>currently high on 3g of psychedelic mushrooms
>suddenly got a very strong urge to go to church and pray
I should go to Easter Sunday Mass
Jesus is calling you back anon. I will pray you find your way back to the Lord
It's the morning after, that was an interesting trip.
I felt something I can really only describe as spirituality. It was a very intense emotion and it was unlike anything I have ever felt before which makes it hard to describe.
At my peak the sensation was strong enough to draw tears from me, and my girlfriend who was trip sitting me asked if I was okay. They weren't tears of sadness though, I was more awestruck by Christ if anything.
That feeling of awe I felt for Jesus is really just indescribable, I have never felt that much elation for something or someone before. Even the Romans who had the fortune of seeing Augustus in his prime have not felt such majesty. I'm a hardline Trump supporter and I felt tremendous elation when I saw him in 2015, 2016 and 2017, but those feelings are completely dwarfed by what I felt yesterday. It's like comparing the size of an ant to the size of the sun.
It wasn't just feelings of awe and majesty either, I also felt a very strong sense of desire to pray and worship. It wasn't a frivolous sort of desire either, I think it was the type of desire you can only typically experience in very dire circumstances. Maybe the 6th German Army under Paulus felt a similar desire for food and water when they were stuck in Stalingrad.
This was honestly a very unexpected trip because I have spent the last 15 years as an agnostic or atheist. I know it was Good Friday but no one in my social circle attends church and my girlfriend and I were not discussing spiritual matters before my trip so I don't know what caused it.
Those mushrooms look good anon!
Wishing all the anons a happy Good Friday and victory in their battles. We will all make it.
Got dumped in November. We'd been together six years. I've posted about it here before. Y'all asked me why he dumped me and I said he stumbled and contradicted himself so i suspected that he had someone else and didn't want to admit it. Well I found out yesterday that I was right. Makes me question the entire six years. I don't think he ever really loved me. I feel like shit.
Gay?
Nah I'm anonette. Post breasts etc
How could you not tell earlier? What type of guy is he.
Believe me, I've been asking myself the same thing.
He said all the right things. Even up to the very end he was talking about marriage and kids and how much he loved me. The last time I saw him we were very much in love. Dumped me with a phone call, very very out of nowhere. He is a good actor I guess.
6 years though? I really just can't imagine that there weren't signs. Maybe he's a sociopath but even so there's signs, you probably missed the red flags because you were too into him.
Well sure, I feel like a dumbass for wasting my time. I should've seen it but just wanted to make it work. I'm mad at him but madder at myself
>should've seen it but just wanted to make it work.
Classic. And how hard did he try to make things work? You were the one doing the heavy lifting, relationship-wise, right? Either way it's over, take the lesson and do better next time. And don't ever think he's changed if/when he reaches out lol
Oh 100% I was the one doing the heavy lifting. Lesson is learned. I have no desire to be with him again. Getting the confirmation that he was actively seeking out other girls while he was with me just gave me a mindfrick today. I was never one to be in serious relationships before him, and he convinced me to be serious with him, and then he ironically is what convinced me that I was right about not getting into serious relationships
Don't end up alone with an animal family.
Just don't fall for the bullshit where you're the one that has to do all the heavy lifting. Have a female friend where she had to do all the work in her last relationship. Then I find out from a mutual that she'd told mutual she was dealing with some things with current bf, and immediately what I was thinking was that:
1. She's probably unconsciously going for the type of guy where she's the worker
2. It's probably gonna end
You gotta stay detached to a certain extent, sadly, to be able to spot things when you're in it.
>You gotta stay detaches to a certain extent
I agree. I always have before. I let my guard down with him because he was the most decent, kindest guy I'd ever dated, and he gently convinced me to really love him, told me he loved me. Only guy to ever say that to me and only guy I've ever said it to. But to him, it was just normal relationship stuff, you just say that even if you don't really mean it. To me it was a huge deal. And then I lost perspective because I want detached anymore. It's an agonizing balancing act.
See
Maybe a way to find out next time is ask, seriously, about whether they've been in love before, how many times if yes, to describe it, the way they felt, what happened, etc. If someone said 8 times I'd tell them to frick off.
Solid advice. Thanks anons
No problem.
I had a talk with a girl recently on this, don't date her but she was interested and I was too but she was dealing with some on-off with her ex. Anyway, we talked seriously about it and I think it's one of those things you can't fake. I've felt it once before, she'd felt it twice, and we kind of in tandem described our experiences, how we felt, the way it took over other aspects of life, everything related to it. Imagine you have that talk with someone who's never felt it before and lies about it, or genuinely tries to say they've felt it for like 5 exes. I don't know, I think it's one of those things where if someone is really an actual sociopath then that gives off certain vibes, same way on the opposite end of the spectrum with someone being a moron and lying through their teeth because they wanna frick/manipulate but aren't good enough at it. The dangerous ones are the "normal" ones. But again, gotta stay distant, detached, all that shit, people can't keep up masks forever, slips happen even early on.
Get out
You feel like shit because it turns out your are in fact foolish enough to get strung along like that. You'll feel better when you sort through the memories enough to feel like you have a handle on what the signs were.
I totally agree. I do feel foolish. When he broke it off with me, I figured that at least I did get to experience what it's like to love and be loved in return, but now I don't even think that was true. I think he was just saying what you're supposed to say to your girlfriend
>I think he was just saying what you're supposed to say to your girlfriend
I postponed being with girls for so long because I never wanted to be one of the guys who had to lie and say "I love you" and say and do all kinds of shit I don't actually mean. Then when I finally met someone I could have done it to, she didn't feel anything back, which in turn jaded me and I stopped caring about meeting someone to be serious with. I'm not going to get into a relationship, let alone say "I love you", but now I'm just trying to see how many girls I can date at once.
I think the majority of relationships are built on emotional lies, either from one party or both, so it's not really your fault IMO.
>it's not really your fault IMO
This is a lot more bleak an idea than you think it is. If it's not her fault, there's nothing she can do. Fortunately, there were definitely signs that she simply didn't appreciate the significance of at the time.
I meant that as a continuation of people simply go along with shit when dating and in relationships because it's easier to not have to say "no" or "I don't feel the same". Of course you gotta look for signs, because they're always there. You have to meet and learn and talk to more people to see the signs of weird shit.
Doing alright I guess. Turned 21 recently and am drinking whiskey mixed with ginger ale. It's pretty good
I was fricking a thicc mentally ill black girl for a while before I got together with my gf. She had such a great arse, but I live with my mother and she threatened to kick me out if I kept it up with both girls, so I broke it off with thiccy. The thing is my gf isn't as well endowed, if I had my own fricking place (literally) I could bring them both there whenever I want, but rent in this shithole isn't worth it. Black girl even wanted a FWB situation but I had to shut her down completely; she cried, my dick's too good to lose bros.
I'm getting my money up this year and getting away from this hellhole, my seed deserves to be spread. Until then I bide my time, lift weights, THINK my Black folk.
>knows life is like a sandwich
make sure to actually save enough funds
I'm trying brah, getting my shroom business going again this summer. I'm thinkin two tubs monthly minimum but I'm gonna have to network to sell these lil homies
her ass was high tier despite no physical activity, somalian women just have naturally fat asses, and she was young so no cellulite or anything. man it was great you don't even know
>somalian
Frick no
you WILL pay respect to Yakubmaxxers
just nah it doesn't work
That section that is barren and desolate will have contam pop up after first flush. Probably trich. Cant help that unless you go agar. Spore needles are dirty inherently. The best way to profit is practice ways to make it easier for normies to take like mixing it with honey or chocolate.
>he was fricking a fat ugly black chick
Congrats bro u the man
>My mom literally had to threaten to kick me out of her house to get me to stop fricking Black folk
Your seed does not deserve to be spread at all.
Can an Anon get some advice? Story time:
>Be me
>Buyergay for company
>meet with supplier who wants business, standard shit
>He treats me to business lunch
>work with him on a couple of things
>keeps inviting me out to lunches
>k whatever
>one lunch is odd
>we meet up and he recognizes this host/owner
>talks with him, later he says "Oh yeah Anon this guy was gay in highschool and I told him that I'd beat up anyone who talk shit because even if bully talked shit I would grin there and glady be punched in the face and (etc)"
>just smiling and nodding along, no idea wtf he's going on about
>eventually we sit down
>he talks about what his company can do, bla bla
>"Hey Anon, do you play videogames"
>spaghetti falls out of my pocket
>'Uh, kinda, why?'
>"Well funny story, I was dealing with some Koreans and I know how to deal with them asiatics; I hopped the fence into their warehouse, and he said 'HEY! WHO ARE YOU?!' So I lit up a cigar and said 'I'M THE GUY WHO'S GONNA SOLVE YOUR BUSINESS PROBLEMS'. Anyway, he looked at me and he smirked, and said 'Oh yeah? What can (You) do for me?'.
>he then tells me how he made friends with this guy
>mfw listening to this fanfic
>however he's completely serious, like this is exactly what went down
cont.
go on
>ask him what he meant by videogames
>"Oh, yeah well he apparently played some game and he wants to face off against me. I was wondering if you could take my place instead, and I'd talk shit on the microphone."
>mildly interdasted out of sheer curiosity
>ask him what game
>"It's called... 'League of Legends'?
>lmao frick that
>tell him I can't really play that game, but just for shits and giggle tell him I'll team up with him for any FPS games
>"Oh yeah cool anon :)"
>eventually he finds out that I was planning to leave my company (the pay was shit)
>Immediately caught off guard
>He's understanding though, just wants to know if he can help me out and who to contact at my (now) old job
>later
>I call up his company
>speak with some guy I knew from a previous meet and greet kinda thing
>"Hey uh, I haven't got a hold of your guys contact. What's up?"
>He gets quiet before saying 'Oh uh, well he's been let go from the company.'
>pic related
>Ask him what happened
>he tells me apparently they can't reach him after numerous days of trying to call him on his work phone and that they just let him go
cont. (last one I promise)
Frick I thought that pic said what.
Anyway.
>ask him in more detail
>he said he went through some mental breakdown, he kept saying his dad died even though his dad died years ago
>this was about a couple of weeks since our last interaction/meal
>about 8 months pass, I leave old job
>working remotely
>get a message from some secretary at the office
>"Hello Mr. Mous, I have a "Supplier Guy" here, he said you wanted to see him.
>what the frick
>ask him which company he was with
>I didn't get a name, but it was the industry he was working for previously
>guy gives me his new number
It's odd, because I already gave him a cellphone number when we were buying shit from him.
Bros, what the frick do I do? Do I just ghost this guy?
Am I just ugly if I haven’t dated or had sex by age 20? I don’t have good social skills but still surely I would’ve had women interested in me by now
Made a nice homemade meal for my friends. Even baked a pie for them. I enjoyed my friends but I wish I could be doing this for my wife and family. Just getting sick of being single.
I've been so long without sex (6 months) that the tinder trannies are starting to look good. In fact if I wasn't paranoid about getting an STD I would've fricked one already.
>so long without sex (6 months)
Who's gonna tell him
Man, I wish I was more intelligent. I feel like I have to put in 2x the effort and time than everyone else to succeed. Which I usually do, because for some reason I have a hard time quitting things and am very persistent, so I guess it balances itself.
Just have the impression that I'm an absolute midwit.
Intelligence is nice until you see the horrors beyond your comprehension and regret having the ability to "know" as much as you do.
Some of the joy in life is NOT knowing, honestly. Think about the lesser intelligences that don't even have the mind to understand the broad implications of shit, they can simply exist in the moment and feel accomplished for all the little things they do each day. Intelligence can be a curse in that sense. Unless you're smart enough to do anything you want to, you'll be stuck betweem knowing enough to be afraid of everything and not knowing enough to do anything about it. Not everyone needs to be a superhero in life, there's a distinct pleasure that comes from a more anonymous existence too. Just follow the beat of your own drum and don't let the noise bother you.
Everyone pretends that things are much easier than they really are all the time. Except at work - where everyone pretends they're working much harder than they really are (while still claiming that it's easy for them to keep up the image of great competence). Chill out.
In a way I envy you, anon. Everyone who gets close enough to know me always ends up telling me I'm "one of the smartest people they've ever met" or something along those lines. And while I don't think I'm abnormally smart 300IQ, I do learn things pretty quick and excel at things I have to do.
The problem is that I've never done anything meaningful with it. I get analysis paralysis, I'm quick to give up, I'm completely hopeless about life, partly due to the things this anon
talks about.
Intelligence doesn't matter for shit without being a hard worker. Which it sounds like you are, so props to you. I'm sure your effort makes you mog a lot of undisciplined "intelligent" morons like me. You're not a midwit, anon.
You're probably smarter than you give yourself credit for, anon.
The Dunning-Kruger effect theorizes that smart people often consider themselves as less intelligent than they are, and stupid people consider themselves more intelligent.
You've probably encountered a lot of stupid people with faked intelligence and an ego, but the fact that you can acknowledge you are lacking in intelligence implies, to me, that you are smarter than you think you are.
Also...
this
It's a blessing some of the time, but more often it is it a curse.
Not relating to, or being able to even converse on a stimulating level, with 90+% of people is kinda shitty; but it's also kinda nice to be content with just a few really close friends tbh
University gay here, electrical engineering
Intelligent people all put in 2x the effort and time they see everyone else doing
What percentage of your time and effort are seen by others?
Don't compare yourself to others, anon. For better or worse. Persistence and curiosity beat mere intelligence 99 % of the time.
I'm somehow managing college, two jobs, a language class, regularly lifting and making gains at the same time and I'm happy and don't really have anyone to share this with
Good work man, that's impressive. I'm currently in uni and working a full time job and that's knocking me on my ass. Gotta get back to lifting soon...nowadays I just get home around 7PM and browse IST until bedtime because I just want an empty brain.
Uni scares me a lot so I'm trying to pick up the good habit now especially since I'm 27 and it's do or die by this age if I want to do something nice with my life. I hope that you can find some reserve strength somewhere and get it going too
Recently got a job and been working there for two months. There's a cute girl who works there as well(we work in different departments of the office) and I've caught her looking in my direction quite a lot. Thing is though, is that I feel this is just normal for somebody to do(as in just looking around at shit. I mean, I catch people looking around the office a bunch so I'm not sure to consider it a big deal?). I've said hello and waved to her a couple times, but we don't really get into conversations or small talk as we work in the same company, but different fields. The other day, she did say hello to me out of her own volition, so I'm glad that I come off as friendly I guess. In case you needed to know, I'm khhv at mid-twenties, so I lack confidence a lot and overthink things a lot. Probably overthinking this as well. I don't even know where to go about this.
I don't feel affection for anything once I blow my load. Could give me the prettiest, most special girl in the world, and once I ejaculate, the love would fade like windshield frost in the morning sun. Never really liked my family or felt too close to them either.
It's a little lonely and frustrating, but I feel slightly moronic when attempting to b***h since I know that my life is probably gonna turn out fine from a material standpoint, and I'm likable enough that making friends isn't hard, although my current situation is bleak since I have little time to.
I guess I just feel a twinge of contempt towards the world. Some of the posters in the thread vaguely disgust me with their logic. Maybe I'm too cynical for the world. I feel like a trip to South America with lots of aggressive sex with prostitutes would fill me with vitality. However deep I larp as with people irl, I'm just a hedonist in the end.
>she made her choice
>it wasn't me
Frick
Its pain but we'll move forward
I still live with my parents at 31 because I'm a worthless autist. They were on vacation in Europe for two weeks getting back yesterday. Having the house to myself was really a great feeling. Being able to freely roam around. Watching TV/movies as loud as I wanted with my booming sound system. Making whatever I wanted. Being in a completely quiet house. It wasn't like I invited people over to do anything, it was just me alone every single night but it still felt good. And not having my parents around actually helped my severe depression and 24/7 suicidal ideations as well.
It should be an impetus for me to want to move out on my own like most people do at 18, but I feel too pathetic and autistic to do so.
Moved to a new place 1400 miles away from home for a new job that will give me a very good life. Dropped my mom, who I love very much, off at the airport about 3 hours ago. I'm supposed to be putting away and sorting my closet but I'm just sitting on my bed drinking cider and crying. I have the best mom in the world. I thought I realized it in 2021 but now I really do.
Think about it this way you are working hard so you can take care of her later in life. My mom had been unhealthy most her life but my dad worked hard and was always there for me. I know working was hard for him, but he needed to work a little longer. If he stopped working he wouldn't have had enough to support himself. I was working on buying a home that way I could move my dad in once he stopped work to keep a better eye on him. He passed away last year.
I feel for you. I hope I can provide for her in her old age. It'll be tough.
Currently dealing with Addison's Disease untreated because I can't find anyone to help me
Trying to figure out a way to get around having to see a specialist and just get the diagnosis and the treatment but nothing is that simple when it comes to this shitty healthcare system is it
It shouldn't have to be this hard to get a basic corticosteroid that would prevent me from wasting away and dying
Dont want to see a specialist because of the cost?
It's not that it's too expensive, after literally going through the entire list of offices in my city I've learned that I need to fulfill three criteria
>They need to take my insurance, and my insurance won't allow me to pay out of pocket at other out of network offices
>They need to actually specialize in my disease which is rare, around 1 in 100,000
>They need to be accepting new patients, which none of them are
It's not that I can't afford them it's that there's literally none of them to help me
I really am just being stonewalled here and with my condition deteriorating it's feeling pretty hopeless.
Expand to other cities? You have to factor in travel costs but in your state there has to be someone who takes your insurance and deals with addisons right?
That's what I'm trying to do now, but my city is already pretty massive so it adds to the demoralizing factor
I've resigned to just doing one last week's worth of calling around before I start looking into changing my insurance and seeing if that'll get me the help I need, worst part is even if I do manage to get a bite I'm gonna be forced to wait 2-3 months for an appointment anyway
What state are you in and whats your insurance?
AZ, on a Medicaid plan
For as much trouble as I'm having with it I'll say not having to do any copays is a huge plus
Don't get me wrong I know most of the ins and outs of the insurance, I know I'm specifically calling places that are in network with my insurance. The biggest issue I'm running into on that front is that none of them are taking new patients and Google/office websites are very slow to update.
You have contacted Mayo Clinic already right? They have endocrinologutdhyd offices in tuscon
In case I fall asleep fricker posting sad images and making me feel on the comedown after a shroom trip. You might want to re-contact the offices that you know that specialize in addisons. If its a rare disease, then those doctors who specialize in it would know others who work with it most likely. See if they could recommend you another specialist who does work with it. You might also want to contact your insurance provider if things get desperate. They dont want you in the emergency room since that drastically drives up costs for them. See if they can provide any assistance with locating a specialist for your disease. Might be a dead end but worth a shot. If you want to get to see a doctor faster look at some of the crisis symtoms that could be life threatening and say you have experienced them in the past and they will most likely fast track you if they can. Then on top of that you can ask to be put on their callout list. Someone who cancels their appointment and they will call you to reschedule to do it faster.
You make a lot of good points, sorry for affecting your comedown lol here's something more positive
I've talked with the insurance company already and they only recommended a few places but it wouldn't hurt to try and get ahold of someone further up the ladder since I have had a couple crisis episodes already.
I suppose at this point the only thing I can do is just double down and try and squeeze in twice as many calls into my schedule and hope I get a bite. Honestly don't mind being forced to wait a little longer so long as I'm guaranteed an appointment.
Thanks for the tips though Anon
Yeah I tried getting ahold of the one in Scottsdale but it was no dice, haven't tried the Tucson one yet though
I'm finding that I have to dig really deeply for specialists on other websites because Google and the Insurance Portal are really shoddy
Genuinely appreciate the concern and help though Anon, hope some good fortune comes your way because of it
Eh you're fine I always seem to feel this intense need to want to help others / empathize with their struggle. I want more intense visuals psychfrickers.
No tuscon, was looking up something and mistyped. I dont see anyone in the mayo clinic endocrinologist in scottsdale. They're only listed at the phoneix campus though? Dumb question I know but sometimes you need someone to ask you that parent ass question.
Trust me I know the feeling lol the help is still appreciated either way you're putting good energy into the world
Ah I see the issue, the Mayo website I'm looking at has a list of doctors but none of them specialize in my condition unfortunately.
I've been told by a family member that this kind of stuff is just it's own part time job and it definitely feels that way.
There is absolutely no way the mayo clinic doesnt have specialists for addisons. They are almost always the go-to for rare conditions.
Hmm maybe there's something I'm just not seeing here?
From what I can see on the Mayo Clinic website the only Addison's Specialist is in Rochester MN
Do it anyways. Based off this post if the mayo clinic felt strong enough to give a second opinion in phoneix you should be able to still get care. If not, they would have an idea who they could recommend you with my guess. You're down bad ane mayo clinic has a well regarded history of providing.
https://www.inspire.com/groups/national-adrenal-diseases-foundation/discussion/need-a-new-addisons-disease-endocrinologist-doctor-in-phoenix-az-area/
Granted that was 2011 but still I doubt they would have slimmed
yeah I figured if the lead is that good I'd add them back to the list and give them another call
I suppose the plan on monday is to just call them and the insurance and see if I can make it sound urgent enough to get fast-tracked
not to say that it isn't urgent, recently I've been ill for multiple days in a row which is a first so I wouldn't be surprised if I do end up having another episode
It is absolutely urgent. Someones got to pay social security and if you die early the whole system falls to pieces.
So true dude, gotta give the boomers a comfortable retirement after all lol
Anyways even if what I said turns out helpful, have some hope motherfricker. If you're sick then take the day off and get up and start calling. If you're on hold, figure out a way to make multiple calls
Yeah I'll try and hang in there, it's just been getting really frustrating after dealing with this actively for months now
I'll do my best though, thanks for the help and I hope that good energy you put out comes back around tenfold in return
>alone and bored
<overeated
Why am i like this? at least i overeated with peanuts and eggs, instead of pizza like in my fatass years. But still not good enough.
my psych dissappeared off the map and i cant get my script for my addy's. I dont get anything useful done unless im on them and my work performance/life/finances go to shit.
My gym is going good with strong lifts and im losing more and more weight and trying my best to become the best person i can be before time runs out. I really want to see someone about being less socially moronic when it comes to conflicts with people. I'm having a day where "i'm not going to make it" is running constantly through my head, so I will hit the gym tonight and try and get 8-9 hours of sleep.
Somethings wrong boys. I'm away at the moment, so spent an hour on the phone with the lady before bed last night. It sounded like she was off to sleep, she was in bed and had her makeup off, hair down. She texts me today that she slept in until, pretty much the evening- presumably she didn't sleep at all after I hung up last night. This is unusual. I'm worried that she had a guy over or something
This 26 year old woman at my workplace is one of the most obnoxious people I've ever been around and I can't help but feel like if she was a guy being this obnoxious she would be ostracized but since she's a woman who acts like this, instead she's just "bubbly" or whatever other term they give these people.
Is she a asiatic? Reminds me of someone I know.
asiatic adjacent yes. maybe its just an asian girl thing then
But does she have a bubble butt
Yeah asians tend to act that way. I know of one around that age and she was a nightmare. Fricking crafty fricks that will try to exploit and dominate you with psychological warfare. Root and run or avoid at all costs.
Not everything is about sex. I don’t even talk to this girl. I just have a desk near her and her constant loud shrieking and cackling and concern about money when she’s very well off everything provided by parents is insufferable
True not everything is but was saying that just in case. Yeah that sounds annoying as frick man, sorry you have to deal with that.
It is healthy to fast for more than three days?
cut things off with a girl because I’m going to be gone for a couple months. Hurts at times because I cared but I wasn’t super serious about her, but still feel weird at times
trying not to spiral into neurosis as ex moves on with multiple new guys. She cast me aside saying she wanted others and not me. Frick it hurts to see myself replaced/upgraded. Doozy on the psyche0k8mvv
Just gotta change your perspective man, you didn't get replaced she made the mistake of casting you aside which means she is not the best you can get.
It'll take time though, it's okay to hurt.
Thanks lads, it's tough- we share mutual friends/groups so it's been bitter as ever living knowing and hearing all this going on.
Sorry you're going through that bro
I don’t give a shit about my ex
What do I care about other dudes banging her
I was in there first and all other dudes have to live with fact that
I carry fricked her for hours before they could
>samegayging here
You are looking at it all wrong
My ex was a fricking bombshell with breasts so big men were severely jealous of me thinking how the frick did that autist score that (obviously doesn’t have money and his mommy drove him with her to a date)
A few months later a even hotter younger girl who I shared more in common with came along
Baffling all the peawienering beta males with their mustangs and mediocre physiques
A woman won’t exchange you for something better. More often than not an insecure woman will replace you with something new or unknown, because insecure hoes are never satisfied with what they have. Keep working out, keep working on yourself. One day you’ll be glad she left.
Thanks Anon, have to learn how to 'fight for myself'. I deserve better than this washy treatment from someone, let alone those words
She will come back
>She will come back
No. She won’t. If she does, turn her down.
The last thing you need is a disloyal, easily affected child of a woman who’s screwed a dozen guys after she left you and only then returned to her safe option.
well mine came back and accepted her because she has been fricked although she went on two dates after she broke up with me. now she is obsessed with me and will never leave me
Vodka Redbull please, thanks. I just want to scream because I've stopped talking to this chick I've been on/off with. I still want her but we're just not compatible it seems. The good times are great but we just get under each other's skin so easily, it's so toxic and yet I can't stop thinking about her. I'm getting fricking pissed for acting this way, this isn't how I am. It's like I'm obsessed now or something. Thanks for letting me vent, it's good to get it off my chest.
Time to get on top of other chicks bro. It'll be fun and make you feel better, but ultimately it kills time doing the whole dating thing and distracts you, and time is the only thing that will make the pain go away.
I dreamt that I fell in love again bros. Haven't felt this in a long while considering I have been on a fornication spree for the past few months. It wasn't even any particular girl I dated, just someone I know with a different personality that my dream attached to her.
Yeah I am going to quit vaping
>took a good look at my self
>I am spending money on this every week
>was one of the issues that led to me breaking up with my gf
>she was right it is a garbage behavior that I need to address before I get into another relationship
What made me happy smoking or having a trophy gf
So I decide to quit
I'm 25 years old. I've struggled with anxiety and trust issues my entire life. I recently read the books "Rational Recovery" by Jack Trimpey (which cured my addiction to porn) and, more importantly, "The Tao of Fully Feeling" by Pete Walker.
What Pete Walker's book showed me was, in a very concrete, actionable way, that my anxiety issues can be solved and I can achieve normalcy and stability, but it will take months if not years of work.
I get discouraged thinking I might be pushing 30 by the time I'm caught up, emotional health-wise, to people my age, and that I missed out on much of the early-20s experience because of my anxiety.
I guess what I'm asking is: it is worth it to keep going, right? It's my life and I am not interested in suicide.
Well fellas, I'm gonna be honest. I spent my 20s in a super competitive career in hcol areas, and entering my 30s I realized that I fricking hate everyone around me. I disliked everyone I was "friends" with and everyone I worked with, I hated the shameless psycopath narcissism of elite institutions. So at 31 I quit, cut off contact with everyone, moved back to live with my parents with a very comfortable nest egg from saving virtually everything I made, and now spend my time lifting, cooking, gardening, and helping my parents.
And so far, I see absolutely no reason to go back. That was hell, this is paradise. I can comfortably coast on savings since I'm frugal, financially competent, and hate people anyway. I can finally make major progress on my lifts since I'm not running on 4 hours of sleep and need to rush my lifts to get back to work.
So yea I dunno bros. Turns out if you're not a psycopathic narcissist, life around others is just kind of hell. Make your nest egg and get the frick out, is my advice.
I'm thinking of taking a vow of celibacy.
>Last four months of my PhD
>Most important experiment for thesis still coming up
>Not allowed to use the machine without the designated staff
>He is basically nonresponsiveto any of my messages
>Have to apply for pre-defense, deadline in six weeks
>Can't turn in the application without results from the above experiment
>One fricking idiot can now put my graduation into jeopardy
I hate university staff so much bros
If I work alone, I make good track but as soon as it involves other people, I run into a fricking stonewall
Contact his boss.
My mother thought that my standards were too high
>she thought i would settle for a fat to mid at best girl at least for my first time
>she said that my problem was that I only wanted super models
>she eventually met my first gf
>holy shit anon you literally got a trophy a girlfriend on your first try
>all my coworkers are left in awe when they saw her
>my neighbor spoke with her and even she was in shock
But anon knew his worth and didn’t settle for a fatty
Never frick a fat girl I don’t care how desperate you are to pop your cherry never settle
quit a 2 year daily opiate habit cold turkey 4 months ago when i started university.
been going to gym regularly, got a job, have had success in improving on pretty much everything i've set my mind towards plus aced every course this semester and developed a genuine interest towards the field.
probably should feel decent about fixing the course of my life but i'm completely fueled by self hatred. can't stop thinking about how i have irreversibly destroyed my cognitive function and capability for normal social life with opiates. can't talk about this with anybody in real life. family members have enough on their plates without me venting out my problems, friends and gf are obviously completely out of the question and going to a professional would get me labeled as a junkie, so i don't see much of an option but to keep it in and keep focusing on building a proper career. even writing out this post feels edgy and gay as frick because its nothing but impotent complaining.
I ate oysters for the first time and now I'm filled with tonnes of energy. I normally have 50mg of Zinc with 6000IU of Vitamin D. What the frick is this? It's also a non-wirey energy too so it can't be from the energy drink. If I could describe what it feels like, imagine the gameplay of MGS5 and how Venom Snake moves around, especially when he runs.
White russian for me. With lactose-free cream, please.
lol. I love this post. now i want to eat some oysters.
I feel you ... I don't know how to make new friends, so my social circle is all high-school friends who live on welfare or with their parents, and daytrade and play video-games and do recreational drugs all day. nothing new ever happens, no one has any aspirations. We've just outgrown each other. I quit playing video-games years ago, so the biggest common interest is gone.
My social encounters with acquantiances and my colleagues are so much better and more fulfilling and interesting. Wish I could build some stronger friendships with them ... it just doesn't come naturally to me.
Same goes for many of the dates I've been going on. Fun and interesting girls. The highlights being a first date that lasted 6 hours, with just me and her talking and laughing non-stop over some wine. And another date with a cutie lasting from 19:00 to 03:00 - where she brought a weed-vape that we hit after leaving the bar, before we went clubbing to techo and made out in the bathroom stalls.
It's sad to say, but the latter was perhaps the best night of my 28 year old life. Honestly topping the entirety of my recent 3 year relationship. Welp. Anyways, none of the two resulted in a second date ... which sucks. Not just from a romantic/sexual standpoint, but just as much from a "I wish these fun people were my friends".
>go to a date
>she says upfront that she doesn't want to kiss on the first date
>end of the date, hug goodbye
>say "i'll give you a kiss on the cheek"
>kisses me
>ghosts
FRICK
Did you actually get ghosted or did you send 1 autismo DM and give up?
I just spent all weekend having fun with "friends" But everytime i go home i just want to kill myself. I'm so tired and so alone
>"friends"
What do you and your friends do for fun? What type of people are they? Are they actually your friends? If you ghosted them right off the bat would they even care if you left? Do you hang out with them because they align to your personal goals and help you move forward or merely just for a sense of belonging? Are they catty, b***hy, gossipy? A lot of drama? Ask yourself these things. You say you have "fun", was it really fun?
>I have just now come from a party where I was its life and soul; witticisms streamed from my lips, everyone laughed and admired me, but I went away — yes, the dash should be as long as the radius of the earth's orbit ——————————— and wanted to shoot myself
iktfb, the way to solve it is to just keep going out, stay busy, start some hobbies, make new friends, start dating a couple girls
Celebrated best friend 30 birthday yesterday and catched up
with him and this girl friend I have, it was good to see them. We've agreed on holidays together so it's gonna be us and their partners, I know I'm gonna have a great time but it hits me a bit when you compare that they're in a long lasting relationships and I'm alone since forever living with parents. Don't get me wrong they don't seem to give a shit about it and I'm on very good terms with the other two.
Also on the plus side I've been assigned to another task at work and got 30% raise, which means it's 5 minute from where I live and the people I work with seem fine.
>girl doesn't reply to my messages for a few days
>think this is it I'll cut contact and move on
>she messages
>I reply same day
>repeat
Frick me
Some people just DM like that, one of my best friends does that shit too sometimes. Don't sweat it, keep yourself busy and stay detached. And keep other girls in your DMs so you're not waiting for just one to get back to you.
Damn I am in this same situation
NTA; Greentext it bro
>girl doesn't reply to my messages for a few days
>think this is it I'll cut contact and move on
>she messages
>I reply same day
>repeat
But did you meet her, is it a fricking tinder/ig DM bullshit, what did she DM you last etc. dumbass
Its my (favorite) ex gf who randomly started texting me in February after not talking for a few years. My cynical suspicion is that she just wants validation and the satisfaction that she still has "access" to me
That is what it is indeed. And you giving it to her means she is winning the game right now. This is what you should do:
>wait for her next DM
>don't open it, leave it unread
>wait 3-4 days
>DM her back something like:
"Look, it's been fun to catch up and all but I have no interest in you, we broke up for a reason and it still applies. I've moved on and so should you. Take care."
>don't block her but if she sends another DM after that don't ever open it (to deny her the satisfaction of having the last word)
You will mindfrick her harder than any dick has done the past 2 years.
I can see why you may be having communication problems kek
What is NTA
Not that anon
>Adopting two kids
>Biological family fighting us for custody
>Year and a half long court battle
>Finances depleted
>Facing eviction
These people seem to have unlimited money, and I've been working extra hours and started a GoFundMe for support. I really hope I can make it bros.
>be lonely
>wish for nothing more than having a gf
>get a gf
>want to be single
when will this shit end. I just want to be happy
You don't get happy from external sources, be it other person, job or hobby. You get happy from within.
All you need is within yourself. Searching for peace or happiness from someone else will end poorly. You need to find it from yourself. Meditate on it.
>hang out with friends
>bitter incels with nothing to discuss but vidya
>always find something to pick on
>get depressed, angry, sad
>hang out with an acquaintance with whom I meet a couple of times a year
>going trough a divorce and some deaths
>still manages to be positive, uplifting and interesting and most importantly non-judgemental
>dates a bunch
I really need a new social circle
was at a rave yesterday with two female friends
one of them hit on me I'm 99% sure, I can still frick her today or tmr as she is a guest of other friend but I fumbled my hand with her as I didnt want to be "awkward on drugs"
two girls literally hit on me and I refused to dance, got a lot of eyes from other females and did nothing
I either have PTSD from my other relationship or am I gay? idk really man, if I can frick (by organiisign the time/moment and literally getting it up and penetrating her) the friend I'll be relieved
Asked out my gym crush on Tuesday and she said yes. I proposed Thursday and she suggested Friday instead so that we could actually make it work with her schedule. I was pretty excited since it felt like she wanted to make things work out to spend time together. We were gonna train together and get food after. Pretty casual. The day of, she comes to the gym and comes up to me to say she needs to talk. Tells me about a work event that came up (enough detail was told that it felt genuine), but then said how she could go out afterwards but didn't want to (cause it'd be late) and that she wants to keep things to the gym between us.
I took it well in the moment and nothing was awkward between us, but it just feels like such a fricking punch to the gut. I don't put myself out there and I don't really have anyone close to me in my city. So, it was a big deal for me to go through all of this and then have it end like that. At least today is a training day so I can mentally distract myself for a couple hours.
gut punch feeling is inevitable. temporary, but still horribly deflating. good on you for asking, and she respected you enough to give you a straight answer. ygmi
actually had balls to ask a girl out in public and not on pussy social media/tinder
respect ygmi
Your reaction comes from not having other girls. I hate to say it but the PUA/redpiller/MGTOW bullshit is true and works: you need to have multiple girls in your dms that you're seeing. It makes you not care when a new chick rejects you or when one you're seeing leaves, and it makes it so that if a girl knows you're seeing multiple others it turns her on/makes her more interested in you. Keep trying with other chicks, you're already lightyears ahead of the avg fitard who's afraid to talk to a girl period.
I agree. I got this advice from my sister:
It’s ruthless, but when pursuing someone, you should always have a “plan b”, at least mentally. If whatever you’re pursuing doesn’t pan out, you can go screw or get affection from other women.
Yeah your sister is right and good on her for being honest with you about it, you need to stay detached sadly.
I fell for one, had no other options going and I didn't even want to so much as look at other girls, and I was a mess, couldn't be smooth or anything, so of course I was nothing to her and got rejected and the friendship was over. Now, when I'm seeing four at once, I couldn't give a frick about them and of course things are easy and I can flirt and be smooth etc. but I don't feel shit. How the frick do you win? How do you end up falling for someone in a system like this and not having them get the fricking ick when you try to be genuine? I can see the stupid game rules and moves I have to make with these girls, what to DM, what to say, when to touch, all of it, but it feels so stupid, like it's a joke and I'm some kind of actor/clown just playing my part to advance the plot with them. Sure dates are fun and so is fricking them, but it's all fake from my end. I genuinely enjoy an evening of chilling at home sitting in call with my racist Internet and playing some games more than going out on a date and fricking a girl. It's still fun don't get me wrong, but it's "fake", if that makes sense. WHY ARE WOMEN LIKE THIS FRICK
Did your sister tell you anything else? Frick man, sometimes I think maybe I shouldn't date several at once especially when they're nice girls, but then I remember they all fall for all these dumb fricking "tricks" because it gets them off. "She's not yours it's just your turn" lmao
I'm so close to moving away that I can taste it. 23 years of my life spent on emotional abuse by a woman nowhere fit enough to be a mother. I can only hope I'll leave my emotional baggage behind once I do.
Can I get a Blackni? Had one on vacation the other day and have been itching for another.
Actually found out my wife and I are pregnant like two weeks ago which is exciting. A little nervous about the change bc I'm a little selfish when it comes to my time and interests but I'm trying to get over it. Want to continue boxing or kickboxing until the babby comes but I'm a bit injury prone and don't want to hurt myself while my wife is pregnant. Excited to be a young parent though, I'll only be in my mid 40s when he/she is in their 20s.
Very nice. When your child is born your priorities and what's important to you will become clear as day. Those will be your challenges and give you happiness and fulfillment
Want you to be a grandparent in your 40s, how it's supposed to be. Very well done
I’m too horny. I will let the qt latina cheat on her bf with me. It has to happen, I need to get laid sorry lil bro.
1. Frick her bf and frick her
2. >latina
cringe dude, get better
I quit drinking alcohol and soda. My diet isn’t perfect but I’ve lost about 35 pounds so far, still have another 25-30 to go. Hoping to lose it and hit my goal weight by July when I go on vacation.
Started going to the gym again, working 50-60 hours a week now between my job and school so I don’t have a lot of spare time where I’m not just passed out, but I’m still making the effort to go at least 3x per week.
I know I won’t really make any noticeable gainz on a calorie deficit but frick it, at least I’m building a habit and consistency.
I’m tired of being a tubby b***h, I’m gonna be the old me again no matter what it takes.
Do push up and squat and other bodyweight progression shit, yoga stretches. You're probably a degen coomer so jerking it would definitely take you more than 5 minutes, so you don't have an excuse to not spend 15-30 mins doing some shit on the floor when you get horny and think you might relapse.
>it's the "weird dark force overcomes me and makes me swear allegiance to the devil and I wake up repeating the Jesus Prayer over and over" dream again
broke up with my gf after 8 years because she's been having mental health issues for the past 2 years and refuses to get help. she also admitted to cheating on me once, like 4 years ago. oh well. at least i now know that you can't give a b***h any slack, because they'll just use it to their advantage (by which i mean they'll continue to do nothing to improve their lot in life, while they continue to cry about how much their life sucks.)
>she also admitted to cheating on me once, like 4 years ago. oh well.
You fricked up so bad letting that shit slide. The last 4 years are on you.
i didn't know about it until last night. at the time she was still living with her mom and i was working a lot of hours, so it's not like i could have known.
Oh my bad I thought you meant she admitted it when it happened 4 years ago. Not your fault, frick that b***h. However, granted, surely there would have been signs earlier that she was fricked and not worth it longterm?
she had a shitty upbringing so i thought i would give her a chance to get her life together. but you're right, i should have pulled the plug much earlier. without the benefit of retrospect (knowing she cheated on me), it probably should have been around the 5 year mark.
>female childhood friend moved away
>75% male middle school
>all male high school
>85% male university
>95% male workplace
>inner friend circle is all male, their friends are also all male
it was over before it ever began. sometimes I wish I was gay.
These threads are so fricking depressing, holy shit.
It's just a bunch of failed normies and chads complaining about their ex gfs while having a great life.
You homosexuals don't know what having real problems is, you had a good family growing up, a good school, a good and safe country to live in with infinite supply of young pussy.
Try being a khhv third worlder who grew up with toxic parents, never had a father figure, never had good education or anything else to live for and that will probably kill himself before 30.
You frickers truly don't know how good and easy you have it.
All of that is true with the added bonus that I have enough money to regularly fly to thirdie shitholes like yours and frick all the brownoid women who don't want your broke uneducated ass
And there are kids in Africa right now starving to death, shut the frick up and appreciate the fact that you can even post on here.
are you feeling it now mr krabs
word. watching some loser complain about his ex-gf always makes me go wtf. just enjoy the time you spent together and move on, c**t. the fact that you were even able to get a gf in the first place, gives you enormous advantage and experience
You don't understand because you haven't felt it, of course it's easy then to say "lmao just move on and remember good times".
then just get a new gf to forget. you were able to do it before
Look man you don't get it. I've fricked and am fricking other girls now, and I'd rather literally look her in the eyes again for just 5 seconds than frick a whole harem's worth of models. You can't understand it unless you've felt it.
How did you acquire this loser mindset? rent free too
The hedonist treadmill works both ways.
I was fat and no women, etc. all the way through end of high school, total loser. I knew what it was like to be truly alone and terribly depressed.
I got fit and in college faked it until I made it. I managed to sleep around, lots of friends, threw big famous parties, it was incredible. I thought I had made it. Found a GF.
Now its just a horrid depression. She's great, does a lot for me, I do a lot for her, but I can tell our relationship is just cracking. And it's a really rough time.
I can tell you the loneliness is worse than when I never had a GF because at least I could dream of finding or having a GF who would remove my loneliness.
Now I know that having a GF doesn't cure the loneliness. It's easy to delude yourself of how you would be and treat your wonderful GF if you ever got one, but it's like getting a new shiny toy: hit of dopamine, and then you're back to who you were before the relationship.
It's why so many people say "you can't expect getting a partner to make you happy and fix you". If you are a loser and depressed before a partner, you will be a depressed loser with a partner. If you are super insecure, you will become mean and controlling and be absolutely paranoid that she is attracted to every dude who even slightly looks good and will leave you.
Now if I want to find more happiness, I have to go through the emotionally raw breakup and THEN I can maybe pretend that getting another GF will cure the loneliness, having the experience that it didn't do that before.
Or, I could put the work in and try to fix my relationship with my current GF. We have a great sex life, 3-4 times a week, and we have a lot in common. I just...no idea. I love her but the chemistry is tough or something.
Were you ever in love with her?
men loneliness and depression is caused by lack of female attention and you know it, anon
i wouldnt be a depressed little twat if i had a normal life since my teenage years but maybe youre right
Haven't spoken to this girl I'm flirting with for 3 days now and I'm going insane. b***h is playing hard to get but I don't want to simp too hard.
Rent free. Go talk to other girls.
>Try tinder
>required to pay to see who liked you
Talk about blueballed
Talk to girls IRL, pussy
Not him, but where do I go?
Where do you think you autismo? Really, take a guess, we're all so smart here on 4chin so it should be an easy question.
Why do you morons insist on making completely worthless posts like this?
I'm the one dating three women at once and you none, who's the moron again?
Still you
Bragging about being a hyper giga normie doesn't impress me
>Bragging about being a hyper giga normie doesn't impress me
The day will come where you'll regret having spent all this time on the Internet thinking yourself to be cooler and smarter than ""normies"" for not participating in life. Enjoy the misery.
And yet, here we both are
Difference being I'm here to chill and be racist online before I go to my classes or to my hobbies or out with friends or on dates. Where do you go when you finish up a couple hours of Internet usage? Trust me man, you're not smart for doing nothing with your life.
You argue like a woman, you don't have to be so butthurt just because I pointed out that you made a worthless post
I sincerely hope your mindset changes before it's too late to make something of yourself, because you're in quicksand right now and don't even realize it.
I sincerely hope you frick off back to instagram homosexual, no one cares
>muh secret 4chinz club normies ree get out
LMAOOOOOOO this homie fr think he slick while he aint have no friends and never even touch a female LMAOOOOOOOOOOO
Seriously though you're stuck in the past, imagine being a newbie in 2023 and still behaving like it's a decade ago
>college student in 2023
>calling anyone else a newbie
You sure make a lot of assumptions about anonymous strangers' lives
I'll give you a hint though, I at least have a degree and a full-time job, you little shit
stop arguing with this schizophrenic homosexual he is always like this in these threads stop giving him replies
>he spends so much time in these threads he thinks I'm some random anon he sees in them
Anon, I.. you're the schizo
>You sure make a lot of assumptions about anonymous strangers' lives
You're a virgin who's afraid of women and have no friends, you probably work in STEM. Am I wrong? It's not hard to take educated guesses from your posts and how you write. You assume I'm 19-23 because I wrote courses when really I'm at university in Europe where it's normal to be mid and late twenties when studying. We don't have the same moronic approach to education as in the US. Why do you say you have a degree and a fulltime job like it's some accomplishment? How many midwits have you known while getting your degree, and now as you work? It's not an accomplishment it's the bare minimum to being alive today. But sure, fine, if you're proud of it good for you, however what do you do outside of work and going to the gym? Ohh right right, too busy, yeah, or something like that. lol.
Can't go wrong with a 6-pack.
sparkling water for me barkeep
>Freelancing was taken off and then the economy took a shit and those two banks collapsed
>Still trying to find time to find new clients while dealing with my dayjob
>Waking up at 5am to work two hours, work my job, feel like shit and come back to work 2-3 hours then sleep
>OLD app is blowing up but can't make time to date girls and the ones who do accept a coffee date on the weekends ghost
>Was so stressed in March I started getting headaches and my visual snow got worse, going to go see a neurologist and terrified that I'll have to get a brain MRI and something could be wrong- even if I do feel better now
BUT
>Finally signed back up for the gym and working out with real weights and hitting up the sauna
>Got a bike and zooming around in the crisp spring air on god's green earth
If there's one thing I could do this year, it's to fix my mindset. I get so depressed about hitting my late 20s and not having a woman or a house, that I should give up being a freelancer and go get a shittier job where I'd have to be on-call but something is like a gun at my back keeping me from giving up. Sometimes I can see the beauty in it but I get attacked by doubt so often.
Going to work to go on more hikes and just keep building my momentum, I can't give up until I lose the wageslave shackles and make this shit work, remember, We're ALL gonna make it bros.
>I can't give up until I lose the wageslave shackles and make this shit work, remember, We're ALL gonna make it bros.
Just a reminder that work will never make you happy, and if you can take an easier job that allows you more free time to pursue interests and girls and friends then you should do that.
Is there any reason to do strength sports if you are natural? Honestly it feels kinda pointless, although I do enjoy the process I am not sure it is worth waking up with joint pain or small aches and pains all over the body and being tired from heavy workouts.
And sometimes it feels like it just makes no sense, sure I could hop of gear and really try but honestly just doing that because of other people is also cringe. So I guess I will stay in limbo, the weird lifetime natty dude who lifts more than most huge roidheads in the gym. But in the end as soon as I put on a hoodie I might as well be just a random guy who never stepped into the gym.
ex begs me to come back together. i want her but its not a right move. thoughs brahs? wgmi
Who broke up and why and did she frick others in the meantime
Broke up with her. Don’t know if she fricked others. It’s been 5 months since we broke up but the last time she contacted me was a month ago but now she is back in town she spams me all day
HELP homosexualS
You're not giving enough info in this nor the other post, you're moronic and should kys frick off begging for help when you can't explain what the frick is going on
Back in October its was my birthday and she suprised me and came to my town (she is doing phd) we had a great time, then she left and she went back home and one night she was gonna invite a friendly couple from her uni, and 5 mins before they come she tells me about a guy who is about to come too (a weird lanket who was hitting on her) then i flipped and blocked her. One month before this she was going to an event with snow or some shit and her mobile was out for 1 hour and she admitted she went to see the event with some colluages including male ones. Also a guy from our country went there for phd and she dm'ed him if he needs any help and i told her to break it off. that was a month before i blocked.
Now she is back begging. meanwhile she was spamming me in my inbox on how heartless i am and shit and trying to guilt trip me and that i threw the relationship in the air.
>the event with some colluages including male ones
Why would it matter if she went with guy coworkers lol, are you dumb.
The phd guy thing sounds like you being moronic too.
The weird thing could be the lanklet hitting on her and maybe she likes the attention, but that's a big if, she could have been waiting to tell you because she was worried about your reaction.
Honestly overall you sound like a jealous type and she's better off without you
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also I wasn't answering and last night she wouldn't hang up and she told me that she insistsed because i didn't have her blocked.
She told me that she can't get over me. I told her to move on and stop making a turn to the past. She told me that she is not taking turns in the past because she haven't even moved on
She was repeating some shit she was literally sending me emails about. That i was bad and controlling for not letting her go out with her friends
or telling her to cut all her male friends and she told me that she did and that i didn't appreciate her efforts
She was in my car and she told me she didn't believe that i don't want her and i told her that i don't.
She asked for a hug and i declined and told her to leave. She got out of the car crying and she went to her car. My heart broke at that time and im wrecked since then
What the frick do i bros. Im cursed enough to love this woman and smart enough not to commit to her at this stage. I practiced nofap since november and went on a date and tested some other woman
but no girl is like her bros. nobody matches her energy her looks her love she had on me but she is... kinda crazy.
What do i do? Im not the same guy i was when i was with her. I can't take a break and i think im in a manic episode. im 50on without rest in the gym and i drink like 5-6 espresso shots per day. Also i don't have 'oneitis or some shit' because im 30 and had even longer LTRs before her kek
Help bros.
Do you actually have BPD or do you mean manic episode as a meme?
Anyway, yea you're the problem here not her. She's crazy about you, she hasn't cheated, and the scenarios with other guys you've mentioned have been nothing but you sperging out. You even fricking asked her to cut out her guy friends and she did it. She told you you were controlling and wouldn't let her go out with friends and I'm sure that's her telling the truth. You have fricking issues dude and I feel sorry for her not being able to leave your miserably jealous homosexual ass.
Simp
Sure thing, I'm sure the girls with no guy friends are completely normal and worth a serious relationship bro :^))
Old Fashion for me.
>friends all get together and take an uber to a restaurant
>I get out first, hold my hand out to usher a grill out of the SUV
>she puts her hand on my shoulder instead, and lets her hand linger there for longer than necessary
>squeezes before she lets go
That's right b***h
Post body
>Girlfriend of three years is bedridden due to injury
>As soon as she's out of the hospital I take a week of online lectures at uni to nurse her back to health
>As soon as she's back on her feet, she leaves me for another man
Couldn't even really use it as motivation because I've been bigger and stronger than that twink since I was 15 years old.
>1 month passes
>In that amount of time I lose the weight I'd been struggling with for the past year
>Make progress at the gym, running, boxing, and wrestling like never before
>Get some dating apps, fairly soon I have a little female attention
>In this time I've realized she needed me much more than I needed her
It was devastating, but besides the occasional waves of sadness, I feel like I've gotten my life back. So much good stuff has happened as a direct result of this breakup and my reaction to it that I can hardly share without doxxing myself. I swear to never let a female put me on a leash like that again. From now on, my relationships will be on my own terms.
Seems like all men need to go through some shit like that to realize you can never rely or care about anyone else more than yourself. Good for you, man, and frick her.
I think so. I neglected to mention that she did this shit on my birthday too, and had the nerve to call me the following week claiming I owed her money. Narcissistic b***hes will ruin your life if you let them.
I’m glad to be free.
hey bros im going to a party with some coworkers in a couple of hours, what do i bring? i don't want to show up empty handed but food and drinks are already covered
t. never been
Drinking with friends last night and had a great time but drank a little(a lot) too much and threw up
I wonder how many calories from alcohol and snacks I threw up, anyone have an idea?
I'm 2.5 months sober and as of today down 15 pounds. I'm starting to get a bad case of '>tfw no gf' but am staying resolute to not chase tail until at least June. All in all it feels good to be taking care of myself again instead of being a fat drunken slob.
Also I found out my ex has been miserable ever since she dumped me a year ago so that feels nice.
>ex went through my social media profile and liked every photo of me I have
I've been doing the no contact thing pretty successfully for almost a year and b***h got married recently. Frick.
>a year of no contact then she does that after she gets married
sounds like she's a real catch lol
Finally figured out a path and career I want to do. Been trying hard this year to fix my life and climb out of crippling depression. I’m doing good, anxiety is going away and moods are generally better/not feeling hopeless and lost and having suicidal thoughts.
I want to get whatever job, get into habit of routine again, then go back to school to get a bachelors.
However I’m fat bros. I’m 27 now. When I was 18-22 at college I was 160-180 at 6’2” and it pulled pussy effortlessly. I just ended a relationship a few months ago and I have no b***hes nor do I want to use tinder to meet any, even just hookups or FWB. If I’m going to be back at my old campus surrounded by 18-23 year olds, I want to capitalize on it and get a small rotation of FWB again. All my old ones have moved or gotten into serious relationships or I dated them and it didn’t work out. I’m 280lbs 6’2” and I understand I want be sub 200lbs when I start classes sometime this year, but I’d like to lose as much fat as I can in the next 6 months. If I could start at 230lbs I imagine it should be a quick jump down to 190ish where I can start getting pussy easily which is fine considering I’ll be in school for 3-5 years.
How can I speed run 50lbs?
Fast 2 days a week, walk an hour daily, no more than 2000 calories on days you eat. At your size you should lose about 3lbs a week for the first couple months doing this so about 24lbs first 2 months, and then around 10lbs a month for the next few. So 55 ish lbs in 6 months. You’ll be around 230. At that point, if you’re anything like me on low calories and it affects school just do a 500 deficit no more fasting and continue to walk. You’ll be around 200 in a couple semesters.
A (girl) friend from middle school invited me to a wedding as her plus one, nowadays we see each other like 1-2 times per year, so I found it a little bit random. Probably she just wants to hang out and I am thinking of a another fake scenario.
Either she has no other guy friends or she enjoys your company and would like to become better friends, or to see if you're worth anything as more than friends.
trying to lose weight and have good progress overall but it gets really hard especially in the last few weeks, ate around 2 pounds of beef, lamb and tallow for lunch so I walked 20km after I did weighted lunges, legs hurt but its natural, going to eat, take a shower, chill and watch dbz probably until I fall a sleep
Got my second boxing match next week fellas. I wanna win so badly just to prove I have become better and to make myself and others proud. Thinking of this fight is all ive been doing the last 3 weeks, just playing out bad and good situations. I wanna walk away with a win