Has the gym made anyone else too intimidating to attract women? I'm 6'3, 220lbs lifting 7 years, thick beard and thick hair and I've never been approached by a female in my life. Am I too intimidating? What do I do?
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>I've never been approached by a female
you're supposed to approach them.
This
It's insane how much of this board thinks the point of getting IST is so they get to be the woman and be approached. Nearly all the stories shared here of extremely forward women involve a 5/10 or under, a fat woman, or an older woman.
I've been approached by women dozens of times
just need to have an attractive face
>beard
Giving mixed signals, they think you're a homosexual
Kek! Also this, beards currently are a sign of being a söy "ally" of "marginalized" groups.
>Am I too intimidating?
you are ugly but if it helps you cope..
>I'm 6'3, 220lbs lifting 7 years, thick beard and thick hair
So you're fat and ugly.
>I've never been approached by a female in my life
lmao I'm 5'7 and skinny and get approached by women all the time. Keep up the lifting tho bro
Jeez the manlet insecurity reeks here anon. Pulling 3/10 mutts isn’t something to brag about.
>Pulling 3/10 mutts isn’t something to brag about.
Still better than what OP manages.
older ladies have something for boyish manlets
100 kg at 190 cm is not fat, wtf. This place is sounding more and more like an ED forum.
It's 10kg overweight and knowing IST, it's not fat free mass.
Work on self presentation. Body language, grooming, fashion, attitude. Express more warmth and kindness, protectiveness. Get a dog. Women love big strong men that are kind, lovely, compassionate with their dogs.
''intimidating'' is a female codeword for ''autistic and akward''.
I feel you bro
I'm 6'5, 240 lbs with a stare, people actively avoid me and take detours when I take a walk in the evening and I never get asked for directions or something like that. You can't ever cold approach but many women really crave the look. The trick is to show up to gatherings with someone you know or a buddy that is an extrovert. As soon as a female overcomes her first impression/ intimidation, she'll usually start to signal openess to flirting with you.
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If you want women cut down to 185 and trim the beard to stubble.
185 at 6'3 is way too skinny
around 205 is better
>I've never been approached by a female in my life
This only happens if you're Chad
i have been approached by 4 cute girls and I am not chad.
Either they're not actually cute or you're straight up lying on an anonymous board
I am above average but not a lot. maybe the drug-user "vibe" attracted them. I dont understand women
>maybe the drug-user "vibe" attracted them
>I dont understand
maybe they do drugs?
>be woman
>take mdma
>finally have the balls to interact with men
>get off mdma because it fricks me up
>return to natural woman state
>i have social anxiety and adhd
thats the cycle
no anon. these were stereotypical "good girls". Alcohol and Netflix at worst.
maybe they just want to make dad mad then
so it might be, or just want conflict
I've been approached 4 or 5 times and if my face was posted here people would say I'm a sub-5.
lol
you probably ugly but let me tell you that 99% of time nobody gets approached by women because they are pussies
only pretty boy chads have that and even then the approach is timid
what to do?
approach the women as you are supposed
BEING FIT IS NOT AN EXCUSE TO NOT APPROACH WOMEN
IT MERELY INCREASES THE LIKELIHOOD OF THEM LIKING YOUR BODY
that's why I'm leanmaxxing. Never going above 14%.
I'm 5'11 95kg, 16% bf and i think I need to cut down to 88kg before I drop this blocky thug look.
if you look like you described girls will mire and tend to be shy. they will drop hints for you to make the first move but that’s it. i also look a little intimidating and the only girls that approached me were mentally ill or prostitutes.
What hints?
There are no hints. Normies will always reply in this vague manner. It is a pilite way of saying "frick off homosexual". If a woman likes you she will come up to you. If a woman likes you there is NO way to misinterpret it.
it's very common for women to do shit like keep hanging out near you but avoiding eye contact hoping you make a move
ignore this
homosexual. it’s not as obvious for everyone. it also depends on how comfortable they are with you.
>compliments, most women will not compliment you if not interested.
>makes excuses to touch you or be near you
>shooting glances and smiling after eye contact
>open, friendly body language after you approach them
>tease them and gauge their reaction
>mirroring your movements/body language
>strong eye contact, helps build sexual tension
>if they are shy they will be smiling a lot and sometimes avoid eye contact
>playing with her hair and hands in her neck area
yes, there is conflicting advice but that’s just how it is. women are weird but fun. for some people this might be common sense. however, i’ve seen too many autistic stories where anon’s were oblivious and didn’t make a move. 90% of the time (im pulling this number out of my ass) you will have to make the first move. women will make it easy for you to approach if they like you. keep in mind every woman is different and sometimes you still get rejected. that’s part of the deal.
also seemingly genuine and unique compliments work wonders. don’t tell her she’s beautiful or hot they get told that all the time.
>i like your energy
>i like your eyebrows
>if they changed hairstyle/color comment on it
ugly lanket freak, you should hope to be reborn as 6 feet tall next time
You're an introvert? If yes that's the reason
talk with b***hes and get their gram homie
Women only approach men they find attractive. They don't like muscular bear-like men, they like skinny twinks who vape.