Trying to stop beating my meat, how do I deal with being insanely horny.

How do I resist the urge to masturbate when I get extremely horny? Two nights ago I spent like 2 hours having a massive boner when I was trying to sleep and I eventually gave in and nutted in like 10 seconds. I am constantly fantasizing about feet. I also feel extremely horny after a gym session especially when I see a girl with a fat ass at the gym. Do I have to actually get a girl to get over this? Should I start approaching girls again? I want to isolate myself and not deal with bitches who are just gonna end up ghosting me anyway but I also don’t want to be a coomer.

  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    If you masturbate you will no longer feel the urge to masturbate. Just do it like i do it: standing up and without watching porn. This will prepare you for real sex if you ever feel like going for a hooker.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I’d honestly feel happy if I can keep it at once a week

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Beating your neat is naturak. If you don't touch your dick you will want to touch the dicks of other men.
        Are you a gay?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >If you masturbate you will no longer feel the urge to masturbate.

      This does not work for me. Once I get a taste of jerking off again I'm back on it. Doing it on my days off and any free time i get and shit. I feel much better no fapping.

      I relapsed a week ago, then yesterday. I'm back on. This shit sucks I want the horny to just go away sometimes.

      Also fuck the coombait on this board, seriously.

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    The point of semen retention is to be channeling that sexual energy. Force yourself into doing shit like deep cleaning your place, studying or engaging in a certain hobby or skill you want to practice. Lying in bed for hours frustrates a person whether or not they're horny, so just get out of bed and do something else (preferably not with screens) until you are tired enough for bed.
    The other part is that your mind will wander toward sexual thoughts. You shouldn't be running away from them because that will create weird feedback loops in your thinking and likely fuck you up worse. Instead, become mindful in thinking about what triggers have brought on the thinking (e.g., are you more horny around your typical bed time when you normally jerked off, or are you noticing more sexual thoughts during times of boredom). Acknowledge your thoughts and make the decision to focus on something else. This isn't "avoiding" thinking about that shit, it's choosing to act more in accordance with whatever values you have that led you to go for semen retention.

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    There is documentation of nymphaea alba, European White Water Lily, being used by monks to kill libido but only occasionally and not in large doses

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    why are you afraid of ejaculating
    if you get a gf ur just gonna coom on her regularly so its the same difference

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I just feels like it drains my energy if I bust nuts on myself all the time. If someone is consistently cooming on their gf then they must be something right. I’m just a failure when it comes to girls and I am way more happy not even trying to get bitches, yet I am horny.

      I guess I will just be a coomer, fuck it. Then I will care even less about bitches.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        if ur an autist like me you can't be happy chasing girls
        you should just coom and lift and eventually ur physique will be good enough that some chick that you actually enjoy interacting with will hit on you (assuming ur in college or something with a lot of girls around)

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah I have been gymcel maxing and coom maxing lately and I am somehow happier than when I was on tinder and approaching girls and going on dates that went no where and constantly getting ghosted.

          I got 0 girls in my day to day social interaction, don’t go to college and I work with a bunch of men. Almost All my friends are up their girlfriends ass and never wanna hang with me so I just ghosted them all, not trying to do any more favors for them. I just want to get a decent physique and then step maybe step into in the social world again. I have really been being consistent in the gym and am starting to see gains. I want prople to know I lift the second they look at me, that will give more validation than any bitch will ever give me.

          Sorry for my rambling

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I bought a sex doll because I got tired of jumping through hoops on dating apps to get ghosted by fat pigs or caked up wannabe onlyfans whores

            it's all so tiresome

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              I gave up when I saw out of shape retards bag very attractive bitches. Literally all you have to get a girlfriend is be a normie. If you are an autist like me it is hard mode.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                I had sex with a prostitute and it was a humiliating and miserable experience
                I can't imagine taking some chick home and then feeling like that while I try to keep her from immediately leaving
                there's no saving us anon

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Do I have to actually get a girl to get over this?

    Yes, you dumb ass.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I can’t get any. I get too excited and end up saying one or two retarded things around a girl and then they get turned off and they ghost me. Why are women so unforgiving?

      I did get a girl who let me suck her toes and gave me footjobs but she ended up saying how she had a boyfriend and didn’t want to see me anymore and I ended up blocking her lmao.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    1. Prayer.
    2. Realise that pain is transformative. Use the pain to transform into the person you want to be, which is a person who prays.

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Go out and get rejected by women you genuinely like. Eventually your libido drops as you realize truly you are Zoidberg.

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Don't resist, when I feel horny, I usually start thinking about the cause of hornyness, the mechanisms how it works, why do these certain thoughts make me horny, whats is it in them that activates my brain and so on. Maybe there is something else that would work for you, but just resisting it will drain your mental energy, it's better to put the focus on somethin else. I can even watch porn and not get horny for some time, but definitely don't watch it, it's too potent and fucks up your dopamine levels.

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I got covid and theres beeen 8 month since I had a boner with any libido
    I feel like a monk
    I hope by libido comes back

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