You just know she's ugly as frick like anyone on that website - but particularly the slimy, bespectacled "women" that tend to lurke there. Can guarantee you she looks like a female Peter Griffin and has all the charm of a disgrace. Deserves the Coomera husband tbh
>not attracted to her >has sex 3+ times a week with 2 small kids + on meds
he's plenty attracted to her, onlyfans is a b***h thing to buy but he's absolutely into his wife
b***h is moronic and doesn't understand male libido. Kanye was married to Kim Kardashian and was still a massive coomer, porn addicts will be porn addicts.
>We have sex a few times a week.
She's either lying or he's got a legit porn addiction. Most guys don't really watch porn or fap if they're having sex every other day.
If they've been married 12 years, I'm leaning towards that being a lie. Probably only have sex once every 2 weeks on a good month.
Everyone is different. But most men enjoy sex the most during the conquest & adventure phase. When they first reached that summit and got their dick in there, and when there is spice and discovery in the bedroom. You can never reach that summit for the first time again, so that's off the table. All that's left is bringing in new aspects of fun to the bedroom to keep it interesting.
So, depending on how strong that labido is and how willing the woman is to put in some effort to keep the sex alive, ... yeah. She has to stay in shape and introduce new ideas herself to keep him engaged.
A man's lifelong labido is *usually* just like his sex. Fast to the finish line, and fast asleep. While a man's labido drops off with age (and earlier than you'd think), a woman's seems to keep going strong until she's like 60 or something ridiculous. Which puts the burden on her to chase after what she wants because the guy is going to lose motivation -- especially if it's been the same woman for a decade+.
>While a man's labido drops off with age (and earlier than you'd think), a woman's seems to keep going strong until she's like 60 or something ridiculous
I don´t believe it, that´s literally the opposite of what I´ve heard
What you've heard is bullshit. Like how men are more prone to cheating and are less romantic. We now know women are much more likely to cheat, and their idea of romance is actually just being on the receiving end of it. The web has exposed that women are prostitutes well past menopause.
>wake up >make espresso >take yohimbine >write in my journal and sip espresso while waiting for yohimbine to saturate >jog for 20-40 minutes >eat and shower
Favorite way to start the day, honestly. I hated running when I was younger, but for some reason I'm really enjoying it now.
Sucks that it's winter now, and it's 20F and dark when I get up, so I'm running a bit less often.
Exercise is extreeeeeeeeeeeemely good for your mental health. A lot of these people popping SSRIs every morning could get a much better result by just walking for 30 minutes. IST is one of the few places I can say that and have most readers know what I'm talking about. You feel uplifted, energized, and motivated all day.
1.) Looking through your husband/wife's phone isn't taboo. Whoever started that idea needs to be curbstomped. It's a huge red flag if your spouse's phone is locked and you don't know the password.
2.) No, you don't sexually excite him anymore. It's not ED, no matter what he says to spare your feelings. No drug is going to fix it. He's been fricking you for 12 years. Get over it. It's perfectly normal. Stop being emo and start getting creative.
3.) Slap his shit and mock him relentlessly for paying for porn. He deserves it. But not because he hurt your feelings. Because he's wasting money on onlyfans prostitutes when porn is free everywhere else.
>It's a huge red flag if your spouse's phone is locked and you don't know the password.
Sure, but so is going through your spouse´s phone behind their back. It reeks of insecurities, control issues and distrust. I know the password on my gfs phone and she knows mine. But I respect her privacy, so I don´t look through her messages. And if I ever saw her do it with my phone I´d be pretty alarmed about the state of our relationship.
Nah. What we're talking about is the levels of trust and invasiveness. Digging through your girlfriend's phone every day is one thing. Your wife not allowing you to have her password is another. There is a middle ground there.
This woman in OP's picture, for example. If she saw something interesting and checked it out, that's fine. It's not like she's deep-diving into his messages trying to find something interesting. The interesting thing was already there. And since they share finances, it's absolutely her business. If she asks him about, he has no right to get pissy and turn it around on her "Well, why are you looking through my phone?!" That shit is misdirection and evasiveness.
She should not apologize or feel guilt for it. It's her business, even if it's not his phone.
>wake up
>do cardio for 40 minutes
>get back pain after a few days
>months ruined and progress lost
It's that simple.
>34 year old woman (who is probably also fat since she's on reddit) wonders why her husband is not attracted to her
when will someone tell her?
When she gets off of reddit. Do you think anyone on that app will tell her this truth?
You just know she's ugly as frick like anyone on that website - but particularly the slimy, bespectacled "women" that tend to lurke there. Can guarantee you she looks like a female Peter Griffin and has all the charm of a disgrace. Deserves the Coomera husband tbh
>not attracted to her
>has sex 3+ times a week with 2 small kids + on meds
he's plenty attracted to her, onlyfans is a b***h thing to buy but he's absolutely into his wife
Why would anyone pay for porn?
b***h is moronic and doesn't understand male libido. Kanye was married to Kim Kardashian and was still a massive coomer, porn addicts will be porn addicts.
>We have sex a few times a week.
She's either lying or he's got a legit porn addiction. Most guys don't really watch porn or fap if they're having sex every other day.
If they've been married 12 years, I'm leaning towards that being a lie. Probably only have sex once every 2 weeks on a good month.
Speak for yourself moron
I love when people present their moronic made up opinions as fact.
Everyone is different. But most men enjoy sex the most during the conquest & adventure phase. When they first reached that summit and got their dick in there, and when there is spice and discovery in the bedroom. You can never reach that summit for the first time again, so that's off the table. All that's left is bringing in new aspects of fun to the bedroom to keep it interesting.
So, depending on how strong that labido is and how willing the woman is to put in some effort to keep the sex alive, ... yeah. She has to stay in shape and introduce new ideas herself to keep him engaged.
A man's lifelong labido is *usually* just like his sex. Fast to the finish line, and fast asleep. While a man's labido drops off with age (and earlier than you'd think), a woman's seems to keep going strong until she's like 60 or something ridiculous. Which puts the burden on her to chase after what she wants because the guy is going to lose motivation -- especially if it's been the same woman for a decade+.
>While a man's labido drops off with age (and earlier than you'd think), a woman's seems to keep going strong until she's like 60 or something ridiculous
I don´t believe it, that´s literally the opposite of what I´ve heard
What you've heard is bullshit. Like how men are more prone to cheating and are less romantic. We now know women are much more likely to cheat, and their idea of romance is actually just being on the receiving end of it. The web has exposed that women are prostitutes well past menopause.
>most guys don't fap if they're getting sex every other day
unless you're over 50 or something you need to get your test checked anon
>I know men watch porn, it´s no big deal
>but the fact that my husband watches porn makes me question our marriage
what?
is coffee good for you?
yeah man you wanna aim for 8 hours sleep a night
>Wake up
>Do cardio for 40 minutes
>shit
>eat breakfast
>get out of bed
>wake up
>make espresso
>take yohimbine
>write in my journal and sip espresso while waiting for yohimbine to saturate
>jog for 20-40 minutes
>eat and shower
Favorite way to start the day, honestly. I hated running when I was younger, but for some reason I'm really enjoying it now.
Sucks that it's winter now, and it's 20F and dark when I get up, so I'm running a bit less often.
Exercise is extreeeeeeeeeeeemely good for your mental health. A lot of these people popping SSRIs every morning could get a much better result by just walking for 30 minutes. IST is one of the few places I can say that and have most readers know what I'm talking about. You feel uplifted, energized, and motivated all day.
1.) Looking through your husband/wife's phone isn't taboo. Whoever started that idea needs to be curbstomped. It's a huge red flag if your spouse's phone is locked and you don't know the password.
2.) No, you don't sexually excite him anymore. It's not ED, no matter what he says to spare your feelings. No drug is going to fix it. He's been fricking you for 12 years. Get over it. It's perfectly normal. Stop being emo and start getting creative.
3.) Slap his shit and mock him relentlessly for paying for porn. He deserves it. But not because he hurt your feelings. Because he's wasting money on onlyfans prostitutes when porn is free everywhere else.
>It's a huge red flag if your spouse's phone is locked and you don't know the password.
Sure, but so is going through your spouse´s phone behind their back. It reeks of insecurities, control issues and distrust. I know the password on my gfs phone and she knows mine. But I respect her privacy, so I don´t look through her messages. And if I ever saw her do it with my phone I´d be pretty alarmed about the state of our relationship.
Nah. What we're talking about is the levels of trust and invasiveness. Digging through your girlfriend's phone every day is one thing. Your wife not allowing you to have her password is another. There is a middle ground there.
This woman in OP's picture, for example. If she saw something interesting and checked it out, that's fine. It's not like she's deep-diving into his messages trying to find something interesting. The interesting thing was already there. And since they share finances, it's absolutely her business. If she asks him about, he has no right to get pissy and turn it around on her "Well, why are you looking through my phone?!" That shit is misdirection and evasiveness.
She should not apologize or feel guilt for it. It's her business, even if it's not his phone.