Nothing. I sit at home and hide in fear. I'm so fricking anxious. Job market is fricked and I can barely get any interviews at tech companies. They dragging us back into the office. I'm still a virgin at 26.
>Job market is fricked
Get real. This is the best job market for employees I've ever seen in my life. We used to have to fight each other for shitty jobs and now they take anyone because no one's there to do the work.
>They dragging us back into the office
Tbh you sound like you need to be. Unironically, remote work is harmful for a lot of people, speaking from experience
>I sit at home and hide in fear
Same. And whenever I have to leave my house I basically actively avoid everyone, literally crossing the street the moment I see anyone I remotely recognize coming my way just to avoid any possible interaction.
New job but I don’t care, still a loser, still no gf, still Incel, still socially awkward and can’t make friends, haven’t even been to gym in two weeks. How to stop being Incel? I’m 20
I haven't acheived anything this year. Thanks for the prompt to really think about that OP.
I'm happy, I have a good life >Perfect GF >Adequate job and income >Generally positive life habits and environment
But those all happened before this year.
Goals: >Quit drinking >Scale business >190lb (at 205 now)
>positive
got a good job, ordered the engagement ring, replenished a small part of my savings account, but still a long way to go, built my cardio up to easy 5k >negative
got fatter, started drinking more, started to feel something is missing
Fitness wise nothing yet. Relationship wise, my fiance fell out of love and broke off the engagement less than a month before the wedding. So I moved into a 1 bedroom apartment from our 2 bedroom and feel free. So that's nice. Getting back to the gym is next after I get settled and ikea furniture is finished.
In the last 12 months:
- Fixed my shit diet
- Started lifting and reached intermediate level on all the big lifts within six months
- Ran a half marathon
- Dropped my body fat percentage from ~20% to 12-13%
Also:
- Got married
- Bumped household income from $550k to $650k, expecting to get promoted again at the end of the year
- Paid off my brother’s student loans in full
- Got one year closer to retirement. Expecting to pull the trigger in ~20 months
>Bought a house at 31 in socal >Found out I'm having a boy - he's due in november! >Been practicing muay thai since october and been ranking up along the way. Lots of sparring and mental chess. Best investment I've ever made.
Congrats on the half marathon! and the BF drop.
650k? jesus christ anon. Sales?
https://i.imgur.com/RUFFFh4.jpg
Lost 95 pounds, without losing much muscle. Still a long way to go, but keeping at it.
Congrats buddy - keep going!
I broke up with my bpd gf
Thank god bro - it is not worth it. That crazy pussy will getcha
Hell yeah - big moves. You guys buying any property outside of the US/your country? My wife and I are looking into another place outside the US. We want something different.
Nope. We’re not big believers in real estate investing at today’s prices, and from a vacation perspective we’re in no hurry to have a second home. There’s still so much of the world to see.
Plus we want to retire at 34/31 which means we don’t want the added expense of maintaining a property we only visit for a few weeks per year.
Makes sense. Great retirement goals right there! Congrats man.
>I sit at home and hide in fear
Same. And whenever I have to leave my house I basically actively avoid everyone, literally crossing the street the moment I see anyone I remotely recognize coming my way just to avoid any possible interaction.
I just lift weights, eat and post here.
Jesus man, take some mushrooms and reevaluate your life. Also, you should check out the book, The body keeps the score. It's on trauma.
I thought about kms for a long time. What helped me was traveling thailand for two months. The first month i explored the country eatig great foods and hooking up with the thai women. I even banged a troony cuz she was hot as frick. The sex great I didn't care. After that I spent some time with the buddhist monasteries and really zenned out / meditated on my life.
Before you take your life, take a one way trip to a country you've always wanted to visit.
I want to anon, I have some money saved but I'm a type 1 diabetic so idk what it would be like to get supplies & shit over there if I'm there for an extended period of time. Appreciate the advice though.
Hmm, can't you bring enough supplies over there with you? I'm sure there'll bne places to get diabetic supplies. It's quite common, no? Idk, just want to encourage you to get out of your natural environment and see the world. What about Japan? It's frickin sweet over there too.
Potentially but it would be a royal pain in the ass to lug around enough supplies for a few months, especially if I'm backpacking around a bit. Japan would be interesting for sure, I'll look into it 🙂
Yesterday I did an escape room with my parents, sister, and brother in law.
I did my best and contributed. Everyone was happy with our performance as a team.
: )
Wins >Up about 5 pounds on the year from 135 => 140 >NW is now above $700k and passive income is now >$2,000/month >On track to make $320k+ this year from wages and bonuses >Cleaned out a bunch of stuff from my house; consolidating to create a better environment for my body, work and my mind >Making progress getting over my social anxiety - visited a few doctors that I had been putting off due to anxiousness and fear
Fails >Only up about 5 pounds, been sick a lot this year and diet hasn't been as on point as it should >Lifting has been spotty; injuries, being sick - my strength has been down slightly or maybe flat at best >Despite hitting some financial milestones I am still barely able to afford buying a house or moving. I may need to revisit my area and relocate if things don't change
I lost 2kgs in a very controlled diet meant for me to loose weight very slowly while I ride my noobie gains.
I started hitting the gym 6x a week and I'm now doing cardio frequently, 40m 3 sessions a week.
I finished my accutane treatment, learned skincare too along the way.
I still look like shit tho. I will never make it.
Finished nursing school with honors passed the state exam. Sold my house for a good profit. Fixing up the wife’s family farm and going to move into the farm house by the end of the year. Lost 20 pounds and getting fitter. Can finally last in bed longer than 2 minutes. Wife wants to have sex every other day. Figured out how cause my wife to squirt. (She is a traditional pure woman and wouldn’t fall for the “Meh porn pee everywhere” meme.) feels good man
Got my first girlfriend ever, came in her mouth, came balls deep in her pussy, broke up, started fricking girls on a regular basis, met some new friends, got a new job that pays twice as much as before.
Slowly getting into shape, too.
>2pl8 bench >BF down from 26 to 22, weight from 87ish to 79 (kgs) >reached 50k in stocks gold and coins >renewed my job contract >finally scrambled a new friend group full of old acquaintances in this new city I found myself in, slowly phasing out edgy dudes
I really, really like this one girl from this group but it doesnt feel like she's into me as much, but she is always flirty, I made some moves, we'll see, but if I can land that relationship this will literally be the best year in my life
hope anons who are doing good can keep doing good and those who had a rocky start can turn things around, we still have half the year left - and a whole summer too!
Nothing. I sit at home and hide in fear. I'm so fricking anxious. Job market is fricked and I can barely get any interviews at tech companies. They dragging us back into the office. I'm still a virgin at 26.
Why are you on this board instead of doing something about it?
>Job market is fricked
Get real. This is the best job market for employees I've ever seen in my life. We used to have to fight each other for shitty jobs and now they take anyone because no one's there to do the work.
>They dragging us back into the office
Tbh you sound like you need to be. Unironically, remote work is harmful for a lot of people, speaking from experience
Yep got terminated for eome bullshit yesterday, on the stores 15th anniversary no less.
At least I passed my classes, lost a shit ton of weight, and took gf on vacation though, so I guess it's alright???
Hell ya! You will find another job, keep that grind!
God bless
sneed
>I sit at home and hide in fear
Same. And whenever I have to leave my house I basically actively avoid everyone, literally crossing the street the moment I see anyone I remotely recognize coming my way just to avoid any possible interaction.
I just lift weights, eat and post here.
fricked your mom
New job but I don’t care, still a loser, still no gf, still Incel, still socially awkward and can’t make friends, haven’t even been to gym in two weeks. How to stop being Incel? I’m 20
Got my BMI from overweight to normal
>Graduated with honors
>Got into grad school
>Held a girl's hand
>Kissed a girl
>Grabbed a girl's boobie
>Hit bodyweight OHP and snatch
>Sub 17:30 5k.
Im happy with myself and im improving everyday at the new things i try
Started working out again, got under 20% BF, talked with a lot of people, fixed up a beauty of a powersaw.
I haven't acheived anything this year. Thanks for the prompt to really think about that OP.
I'm happy, I have a good life
>Perfect GF
>Adequate job and income
>Generally positive life habits and environment
But those all happened before this year.
Goals:
>Quit drinking
>Scale business
>190lb (at 205 now)
>positive
got a good job, ordered the engagement ring, replenished a small part of my savings account, but still a long way to go, built my cardio up to easy 5k
>negative
got fatter, started drinking more, started to feel something is missing
it is what it is
Ended a 4 year relationship, moved out of parents house. 21 y/o
Fitness wise nothing yet. Relationship wise, my fiance fell out of love and broke off the engagement less than a month before the wedding. So I moved into a 1 bedroom apartment from our 2 bedroom and feel free. So that's nice. Getting back to the gym is next after I get settled and ikea furniture is finished.
And she's back home living with her moronic mother.
Lost 95 pounds, without losing much muscle. Still a long way to go, but keeping at it.
crush, homie
and then keep crushin
I got rejected by a 17 year old girl that I thought was in her mid 20's.
In the last 12 months:
- Fixed my shit diet
- Started lifting and reached intermediate level on all the big lifts within six months
- Ran a half marathon
- Dropped my body fat percentage from ~20% to 12-13%
Also:
- Got married
- Bumped household income from $550k to $650k, expecting to get promoted again at the end of the year
- Paid off my brother’s student loans in full
- Got one year closer to retirement. Expecting to pull the trigger in ~20 months
Pretty good year I guess
Nice
Quit drinking
>Bought a house at 31 in socal
>Found out I'm having a boy - he's due in november!
>Been practicing muay thai since october and been ranking up along the way. Lots of sparring and mental chess. Best investment I've ever made.
Congrats on the half marathon! and the BF drop.
650k? jesus christ anon. Sales?
Congrats buddy - keep going!
Thank god bro - it is not worth it. That crazy pussy will getcha
$650k is household, we both have high incomes
finance and corporate strategy consulting
Hell yeah - big moves. You guys buying any property outside of the US/your country? My wife and I are looking into another place outside the US. We want something different.
Nope. We’re not big believers in real estate investing at today’s prices, and from a vacation perspective we’re in no hurry to have a second home. There’s still so much of the world to see.
Plus we want to retire at 34/31 which means we don’t want the added expense of maintaining a property we only visit for a few weeks per year.
Makes sense. Great retirement goals right there! Congrats man.
Jesus man, take some mushrooms and reevaluate your life. Also, you should check out the book, The body keeps the score. It's on trauma.
Thanks kings, loneliness and tfw no gf are back but better than being in hell
I broke up with my bpd gf
I have resisted the urge to kill myself every single day so far this year
I thought about kms for a long time. What helped me was traveling thailand for two months. The first month i explored the country eatig great foods and hooking up with the thai women. I even banged a troony cuz she was hot as frick. The sex great I didn't care. After that I spent some time with the buddhist monasteries and really zenned out / meditated on my life.
Before you take your life, take a one way trip to a country you've always wanted to visit.
I want to anon, I have some money saved but I'm a type 1 diabetic so idk what it would be like to get supplies & shit over there if I'm there for an extended period of time. Appreciate the advice though.
Hmm, can't you bring enough supplies over there with you? I'm sure there'll bne places to get diabetic supplies. It's quite common, no? Idk, just want to encourage you to get out of your natural environment and see the world. What about Japan? It's frickin sweet over there too.
Potentially but it would be a royal pain in the ass to lug around enough supplies for a few months, especially if I'm backpacking around a bit. Japan would be interesting for sure, I'll look into it 🙂
ive been fricking a lot of hoes. doubled my body count the last couple months after my breakup. and i got a professional certification
Moved to a new city, got my first apartment, started a new career, lost 80lbs, starting going to the gym regularly
Yesterday I did an escape room with my parents, sister, and brother in law.
I did my best and contributed. Everyone was happy with our performance as a team.
: )
And what have YOU achieved recently?
Wins
>Up about 5 pounds on the year from 135 => 140
>NW is now above $700k and passive income is now >$2,000/month
>On track to make $320k+ this year from wages and bonuses
>Cleaned out a bunch of stuff from my house; consolidating to create a better environment for my body, work and my mind
>Making progress getting over my social anxiety - visited a few doctors that I had been putting off due to anxiousness and fear
Fails
>Only up about 5 pounds, been sick a lot this year and diet hasn't been as on point as it should
>Lifting has been spotty; injuries, being sick - my strength has been down slightly or maybe flat at best
>Despite hitting some financial milestones I am still barely able to afford buying a house or moving. I may need to revisit my area and relocate if things don't change
I lost 2kgs in a very controlled diet meant for me to loose weight very slowly while I ride my noobie gains.
I started hitting the gym 6x a week and I'm now doing cardio frequently, 40m 3 sessions a week.
I finished my accutane treatment, learned skincare too along the way.
I still look like shit tho. I will never make it.
normally I don't feel the urge to rape, but that chick in white is the exception
I got a raise and went on a date with a nice blonde girl who is still texting me regularly. And that was just in the past 2 weeks!
WAGMI bros
down 15 lbs. 30 to go
>new job
>more mass
>new skills on the piano
>started university
Graduated uni and got my first full time salary a couple weeks ago, going to marry and impregnate my gf in the next 1-2 years
Finished nursing school with honors passed the state exam. Sold my house for a good profit. Fixing up the wife’s family farm and going to move into the farm house by the end of the year. Lost 20 pounds and getting fitter. Can finally last in bed longer than 2 minutes. Wife wants to have sex every other day. Figured out how cause my wife to squirt. (She is a traditional pure woman and wouldn’t fall for the “Meh porn pee everywhere” meme.) feels good man
Did my 10 mile run in 1hr26min.
Can do 1pl8 for working sets now.
Can bike 36mi in 2hrs.
Nothing
Got my first girlfriend ever, came in her mouth, came balls deep in her pussy, broke up, started fricking girls on a regular basis, met some new friends, got a new job that pays twice as much as before.
Slowly getting into shape, too.
>2pl8 bench
>BF down from 26 to 22, weight from 87ish to 79 (kgs)
>reached 50k in stocks gold and coins
>renewed my job contract
>finally scrambled a new friend group full of old acquaintances in this new city I found myself in, slowly phasing out edgy dudes
I really, really like this one girl from this group but it doesnt feel like she's into me as much, but she is always flirty, I made some moves, we'll see, but if I can land that relationship this will literally be the best year in my life
hope anons who are doing good can keep doing good and those who had a rocky start can turn things around, we still have half the year left - and a whole summer too!