the idea that i could easily get pussy on tinder within a week of matching by posting 1 face pic, 1 body pic, 1 line in my bio that's designed to be joky and loose at the same time, place my age right under 30 regardless of how old i am.
so long as i am actually what i look like in the photo i have on there, i will get laid within 1 week every time with a random person i have never met before, they will always be attractive, and they will always want to see me again because i'll make them cum without fail.
that's what keeps me motivated to keep going to the gym.
The love of my life left me and I live a hollow existence where the only shred of value I provide is my vapid 9-5 lifting is the only sliver of hope I have left
Yes. Im not completely bald but balding. I've been insecure about it for a long time. Women, particularly black and slightly older women still find me attractive but it has severely dented my confidence
I have money so will do transplant at some point. Just waiting to see if verteporfin works out. Balding will be completely solved if it does
Why does a little kid get cancer and die while others don't? There is no concept of justice served by higher forces, it's all nonexistent. If there's a god, it's either indifferent or outright evil. I'd like to think there is none, because the alternatives are worse.
I just enjoy going there, simple as. I like the gym environment, I like the feeling of pushing my muscles to failure, I like the feel of almost passing out after a hard set.
A slight improvement in looks and better ability in day-to-day life is a plus as well.
I haven’t bothered going to the gym in three months because I am 5’6. Even after lifting nothing in my life has changed, everyone thinks I am a loser, I have no gf and I am an incel. I will never have friends or a gf because I am 5’6
Mental health
I have emotional regulation problems. I took two days off the gym and yesterday when my wife got into it with me over who should stay home with the kid and who should go to the shops I hit myself in he head with a coffee cup, gave myself a concussion and lost my balance. She was going to call an ambulance to take me to the psych ward but I'm not psychotic or have a mood disorder. What can they do? She called my mother and they had a long talk. I'm now staying with my mother and only have select times when I can see my son. Where not divorced and she wants me to get better so we can be a family. I have no job and no friends. I just finished a nursing course but I can't find work even though I picked that degree because of how badly nurses are needed. I truly must come across as a spastic. I probably have autism and my issues have gotten worse after we had a kid. I'm in a park trying to relax. I'll go to the gym after food as settled. I didn't eat much yesterday after it all happened. I'm posting this here cause I'm a gay moron with no one else to talk to. I used to chew on lead sinkers when I was like 6 cause dad was a fisherman and had heaps. Maybe that's why I'm a so dumb.
Holy shit that's a lot to dump. I think you might want a qualified pro to unpack all that stuff. Or your mom. Jfc, nursing is not for the unstable, nonreliant, and faint of heart.
My impression of a dumb Italian plumber be like: >Maybe that's why I'm a so dumb
I have a son with Cerebral Palsy, he counts on me to lift him every day. He's getting bigger bros. I go gym to push the day that I can no longer lift him into the distance.
This is something I have noticed nobody likes the gym or working out they are uglt unhappy slaves torturing themselves and doing drugs (steroids) to try and look attractive to women but none are.
Unfortunately there is not a real fix for an ugly face or short height or baldness outside of surgeries that most people cannot afford.
Being 10-15% bodyfat with some muscle is the best most people can hope for. Even then your muscle is entirely genetics (even drug use is genetic and contigent upon how you respond to the drugs). The size and shape of muscles and their insertions and muscle bellies you cannot really change or modify.
Really I think this video has a lot of good advice for young men:
?si=nkhz3EsT1Fj1NNBO
Even with money and muscles again its to compensate for a lack of attractiveness ie Andrew Tate.
Women will only use these guys for money or status and not love them.
True love is based on loving how someone looks. At least initially.
Only problem is back in the day most women were not fat single entitled moms who had trains ran on them by black guys and did not expect a handsome rich hung tall millionaire.
Hypergamy, feminism, socialism and the internet as well as male horniness and simps ruined it for the rest of us.
Fortunately none of this is sustainable and is more like how dating worked in pre historic times. But the West is collapsing. And hopefully it does before we are all slaves forced to eat bugs and watch VR porn.
Women are unsurprisingly child like in the mind and instead of protecting them we gave in to all their demands and now most men and women are equally unhappy and single.
The whole "you just gotta find a woman that loves you for who you are" spiel is so detached from reality, it's sad. No, if you're ugly you have to compensate hard and women will love you for being extraordinary at best, if you manage to get there. For some it's a physique, for someone else it's money, whatever it is, you will never be loved if you're not special. That is the burden of being a man. Women are completely soulless and calculating, but that's who we're stuck with.
>For some it's a physique, for someone else it's money, whatever it is, you will never be loved if you're not special.
The problem is even those things are cope
>money
Assume a hot 21 year old girl marries a 40+ dude who looks like most guys at that age. You are telling me she is not gonna cheat on him with someone younger and more handsome or find someone younger and more handsome physically?
In these scenarios imagine being the woman: you are 21 and peak attractiveness and you marry an average or worse 40-80 year old woman solely for her money and hot 20-30 year old women hit on you.
What is gonna happen eventually?
>physique
Again women look at steroid junkies as we see women with breast implants larger than DD and obvious botox and lip and ass surgeries. Most men are not into such a fake looking woman who usually looks worse than before due to this.
The point also you gotta be a multimillionaire or better to rely on money alone to get laid and I would argue the women around you then are users and prostitutes. And physique wise most will not be able to get to a level where height or face would not matter especially given women mock short buff guys in better shape than I will ever be.
You will be loved by anyone romantically or sexually based on looks. You could argue personality and mental health matters but there are too many women with crazy dark triad losers for that to matter too much.
Likewise with money a lot of women have better education and jobs then men.
That also pushes the ceiling to be a betabuxx to a level most guys cannot reach.
You can do all the drugs and slave routines and slave diet like every other mentally ill bodybuilder but your genetics determine the results otherwise literally anyone could win Mr Olympia if they just took drugs and ate clean and lifted lol
How many women have posters of Dorian Yates or Jay Cutler on their wall as teenaged girls or whatever vs Brad Pitt?
Women rights were a mistake.
Women are meant to be mothers and wives and men are meant to be providers and fathers. Our seperation from nature and social engineering by J-ish Bolksheviks is what happened. As part of the chosen peoples 2000 year plan for world domination which they have realized at this point.
1 month ago
Anonymous
First of all, most men never even try to get to the Mr Olympia level. We have no way of knowing how many men could get there. Genetics dictate a baseline and the overall threshold, but they don't dictate the result, it's not a prophecy, merely a bonus.
If you're short and ugly, it's over no matter what you do, but if you're average, you can do whatever you want, reasonably.
1 month ago
Anonymous
I agree for the most part but I believe in biological genetic pre determinism and I think basically most people should accept this as most people are genetic garbage nowadays compared to ancient times.
1 month ago
Anonymous
Also why would you want to be a Mr Olympia looking like most of them do at such a short height for most of them as well. Lee Priest is only 5 ft 4.
I cannot consider him genetically gifted compared to say Dolph Lundgren who probably never need roids or intense workouts to be handsome and fit.
Although he has aged rapidly so maybe he did roid and lift idk for certain
Progress and health.
I know I'm developing/maintaining resistance/tendons even if I'm not growing bigger or lifting heavier.
I know I'm enjoying life more by having a regular workout schedule, the effects on sleep alone are apparent enough.
I've had over two decades to see what sedentary life is like, and it took me less than a year of IST to see there was something better.
Aesthetics kicked in after a while and it set the whole thing into overdrive.
My wife took a pic of me a couple years ago at the beach. I honestly didn’t think I looked bad, but when I saw the pic the realization set in that I was become into my overweight unhealthy father. I was disgusted and haven’t stopped hitting the gym since.
At 35 I’m more fit and aesthetic than I’ve ever been and I’m not going to stop. The pic haunts me to this day.
the idea that i could easily get pussy on tinder within a week of matching by posting 1 face pic, 1 body pic, 1 line in my bio that's designed to be joky and loose at the same time, place my age right under 30 regardless of how old i am.
so long as i am actually what i look like in the photo i have on there, i will get laid within 1 week every time with a random person i have never met before, they will always be attractive, and they will always want to see me again because i'll make them cum without fail.
that's what keeps me motivated to keep going to the gym.
The love of my life left me and I live a hollow existence where the only shred of value I provide is my vapid 9-5 lifting is the only sliver of hope I have left
>The love of my life left me
for a black man?
Consider roping
do bald people really live like this?
yep
t. bald
yes, but I've started lifting many years before getting bald (creatine just accelerated it).
Still better than giving up.
im probably the only man on the planet who is legitimately not insecure about it
genuinely baffles me
Yes. Im not completely bald but balding. I've been insecure about it for a long time. Women, particularly black and slightly older women still find me attractive but it has severely dented my confidence
I have money so will do transplant at some point. Just waiting to see if verteporfin works out. Balding will be completely solved if it does
Ive lost all motivation for life. This close to suicide
Whenever I go to the pool I see fat guys so it motivates me to keep going.
Making normies feel bad about their life choices just with my appearance
Underrated. But we should uplift them as well
Wagmi
Nothing else to do
gym is the peak of my day
same lol
it's also the only thing keeping me from falling back into apathy and depression
Anxiety management
Any tips?
Decent physique is the only reason I get any pussy
I couldn't care less about being stronger than the average dyel
I enjoy weightlifting
This is so true. As a bald guy I get literally 0 pussy, gym is my only way to escape inceldom
us bald guys have to grind 10 times more than regular ones just to be on the same level.
god doesn't exist
Gods just testing you. Personally, I couldnt go through that myself, so I have to respect the grind
Why does a little kid get cancer and die while others don't? There is no concept of justice served by higher forces, it's all nonexistent. If there's a god, it's either indifferent or outright evil. I'd like to think there is none, because the alternatives are worse.
> Why does a little kid get cancer and die while others don't?
Sounds pretty indifferent to me
Been lifting for 15 years
I don’t want to lift, I have to.
E4
E3 I mean
I just enjoy going there, simple as. I like the gym environment, I like the feeling of pushing my muscles to failure, I like the feel of almost passing out after a hard set.
A slight improvement in looks and better ability in day-to-day life is a plus as well.
Is like therapy. While lifting I speak to my inner self and try to look for solutions to my convoluted life.
i'm still disgusted with myself for staying indoors for two straight weeks in 2020
the dreams of me looking in the mirror and seeing a skeleton are just as horrifying as having my teeth fall out, not being able to run or punch etc
the race war and our final victory
I haven’t bothered going to the gym in three months because I am 5’6. Even after lifting nothing in my life has changed, everyone thinks I am a loser, I have no gf and I am an incel. I will never have friends or a gf because I am 5’6
Mental health
I have emotional regulation problems. I took two days off the gym and yesterday when my wife got into it with me over who should stay home with the kid and who should go to the shops I hit myself in he head with a coffee cup, gave myself a concussion and lost my balance. She was going to call an ambulance to take me to the psych ward but I'm not psychotic or have a mood disorder. What can they do? She called my mother and they had a long talk. I'm now staying with my mother and only have select times when I can see my son. Where not divorced and she wants me to get better so we can be a family. I have no job and no friends. I just finished a nursing course but I can't find work even though I picked that degree because of how badly nurses are needed. I truly must come across as a spastic. I probably have autism and my issues have gotten worse after we had a kid. I'm in a park trying to relax. I'll go to the gym after food as settled. I didn't eat much yesterday after it all happened. I'm posting this here cause I'm a gay moron with no one else to talk to. I used to chew on lead sinkers when I was like 6 cause dad was a fisherman and had heaps. Maybe that's why I'm a so dumb.
Holy shit that's a lot to dump. I think you might want a qualified pro to unpack all that stuff. Or your mom. Jfc, nursing is not for the unstable, nonreliant, and faint of heart.
My impression of a dumb Italian plumber be like:
>Maybe that's why I'm a so dumb
I have a son with Cerebral Palsy, he counts on me to lift him every day. He's getting bigger bros. I go gym to push the day that I can no longer lift him into the distance.
This is something I have noticed nobody likes the gym or working out they are uglt unhappy slaves torturing themselves and doing drugs (steroids) to try and look attractive to women but none are.
What's the alternative?
Unfortunately there is not a real fix for an ugly face or short height or baldness outside of surgeries that most people cannot afford.
Being 10-15% bodyfat with some muscle is the best most people can hope for. Even then your muscle is entirely genetics (even drug use is genetic and contigent upon how you respond to the drugs). The size and shape of muscles and their insertions and muscle bellies you cannot really change or modify.
Really I think this video has a lot of good advice for young men:
?si=nkhz3EsT1Fj1NNBO
Even with money and muscles again its to compensate for a lack of attractiveness ie Andrew Tate.
Women will only use these guys for money or status and not love them.
True love is based on loving how someone looks. At least initially.
Only problem is back in the day most women were not fat single entitled moms who had trains ran on them by black guys and did not expect a handsome rich hung tall millionaire.
Hypergamy, feminism, socialism and the internet as well as male horniness and simps ruined it for the rest of us.
Fortunately none of this is sustainable and is more like how dating worked in pre historic times. But the West is collapsing. And hopefully it does before we are all slaves forced to eat bugs and watch VR porn.
Women are unsurprisingly child like in the mind and instead of protecting them we gave in to all their demands and now most men and women are equally unhappy and single.
The whole "you just gotta find a woman that loves you for who you are" spiel is so detached from reality, it's sad. No, if you're ugly you have to compensate hard and women will love you for being extraordinary at best, if you manage to get there. For some it's a physique, for someone else it's money, whatever it is, you will never be loved if you're not special. That is the burden of being a man. Women are completely soulless and calculating, but that's who we're stuck with.
>For some it's a physique, for someone else it's money, whatever it is, you will never be loved if you're not special.
The problem is even those things are cope
>money
Assume a hot 21 year old girl marries a 40+ dude who looks like most guys at that age. You are telling me she is not gonna cheat on him with someone younger and more handsome or find someone younger and more handsome physically?
In these scenarios imagine being the woman: you are 21 and peak attractiveness and you marry an average or worse 40-80 year old woman solely for her money and hot 20-30 year old women hit on you.
What is gonna happen eventually?
>physique
Again women look at steroid junkies as we see women with breast implants larger than DD and obvious botox and lip and ass surgeries. Most men are not into such a fake looking woman who usually looks worse than before due to this.
The point also you gotta be a multimillionaire or better to rely on money alone to get laid and I would argue the women around you then are users and prostitutes. And physique wise most will not be able to get to a level where height or face would not matter especially given women mock short buff guys in better shape than I will ever be.
You will be loved by anyone romantically or sexually based on looks. You could argue personality and mental health matters but there are too many women with crazy dark triad losers for that to matter too much.
Likewise with money a lot of women have better education and jobs then men.
That also pushes the ceiling to be a betabuxx to a level most guys cannot reach.
Its really even worse now than it ever was.
Okay Rajeesh, we get it. Do not redeem
You can do all the drugs and slave routines and slave diet like every other mentally ill bodybuilder but your genetics determine the results otherwise literally anyone could win Mr Olympia if they just took drugs and ate clean and lifted lol
How many women have posters of Dorian Yates or Jay Cutler on their wall as teenaged girls or whatever vs Brad Pitt?
Women are meant to be mothers and wives and men are meant to be providers and fathers. Our seperation from nature and social engineering by J-ish Bolksheviks is what happened. As part of the chosen peoples 2000 year plan for world domination which they have realized at this point.
First of all, most men never even try to get to the Mr Olympia level. We have no way of knowing how many men could get there. Genetics dictate a baseline and the overall threshold, but they don't dictate the result, it's not a prophecy, merely a bonus.
If you're short and ugly, it's over no matter what you do, but if you're average, you can do whatever you want, reasonably.
I agree for the most part but I believe in biological genetic pre determinism and I think basically most people should accept this as most people are genetic garbage nowadays compared to ancient times.
Also why would you want to be a Mr Olympia looking like most of them do at such a short height for most of them as well. Lee Priest is only 5 ft 4.
I cannot consider him genetically gifted compared to say Dolph Lundgren who probably never need roids or intense workouts to be handsome and fit.
Although he has aged rapidly so maybe he did roid and lift idk for certain
Women rights were a mistake.
Progress and health.
I know I'm developing/maintaining resistance/tendons even if I'm not growing bigger or lifting heavier.
I know I'm enjoying life more by having a regular workout schedule, the effects on sleep alone are apparent enough.
I've had over two decades to see what sedentary life is like, and it took me less than a year of IST to see there was something better.
Aesthetics kicked in after a while and it set the whole thing into overdrive.
Because I cannot respect myself otherwise
My wife took a pic of me a couple years ago at the beach. I honestly didn’t think I looked bad, but when I saw the pic the realization set in that I was become into my overweight unhealthy father. I was disgusted and haven’t stopped hitting the gym since.
At 35 I’m more fit and aesthetic than I’ve ever been and I’m not going to stop. The pic haunts me to this day.