Yes. Its 100% the truth. Your metabolism stays almost the same until you are like 80 years old. People just get lazy when they turn 30 and start driving everywhere
What you do is encourage them to go the gym, and say little passive aggresive things like "you should wear something a little more flattering" or "you shouldn't wear that shirt, you should cover up more in that part of the body" or say something like "here is your summer clothes do you wanna try them on to make sure they still fit"
Their self esteem will plummet drastically, after their self esteem is super low, you get them black out drunk, and start getting mires and talking to other women at a bar, not flirting with them, just saying hello and being freindly, your wife will then go primal and because she has nothing to work with she'll give you the best blowjob of your life, and start doing all the depraved sexual acts she would never do if she had high self esteem and was skinny.
This is what I did, in the past 8 months my wife has done >anal >threesome with her fat friend >facial >Lets me tittyfuck her on the reg >handcuffed her to the bed and spanked her and had my way with her
The only thing is you have to deal with the fact that her pussy is usually hairy when she is in this state of mind, not to mention the big old flappy belly but I just learned to imagine Margot Robbie
Women gain on average 10-20lbs per baby and they're only 95-150 depending on height anyway so if they have 3 kids it can really balloon them up and they make the excuse of "I'm not done having kids why cut to get big again", which I guess kinda makes sense
>"There's my little babycakes. Yes, they were saying mean things about your kind online again. Of Course I defended you! Does your little man-thing get a reward? A peak between the roles perhaps?"
women mentally manipulate us all the time. WAH WAH WAH when we do it back you have white knight gays like yourself.
How about this? Fuck you I want anal and threesomes.
That much passive aggresiveness and manipulation is cringe. Just tell her to her face that she is getting fat, and that she should come to the gym with you
lmao you obviously aren't married, this doesn't work
Wait you werent just getting all of that anyway? Only threesomes are notable there, ive done the rest with every girl ive ever had
I grew up when licking people's anus holes and getting your face cummed on wasn't a normal thing little zoomie
>women mentally manipulate us all the time. WAH WAH WAH when we do it back you have white knight gays like yourself. > >How about this? Fuck you I want anal and threesomes.
How about this, when I'm dating a girl and she's not sex compatible with me, we end it and I find another girl, instead of playing shitty games just to get a crumb of ass.
this, i really don't care about manipulating women but the fact he has to for what should be normal in a relationship already says enough
also doesn't fix the problem of her being fat lol
That much passive aggresiveness and manipulation is cringe. Just tell her to her face that she is getting fat, and that she should come to the gym with you
I'm guessing you've never gotten a chick to start exercising before because this is the exact opposite way of how to do it >externally motivated (wants to make you happy) >no internal motivation (wants to look/feel better) because otherwise she'd already be working out >doesn't enjoy it, it's painful and/or boring >starts to resent you for making her feel pain and/or boredom all the time >eventually gives up on the sisyphean task of staying fit and returns to her fat self, except now she's also angry
how does one make a fat woman fit? I'v tried many times to course correct a womans destiny, yet they always become fat in the end.
And as you said, trying to do anything is just going to be a waste of time and breed resentment on their part.
My gf got into powerlifting because her sister was posting her lifts on instagram. I didn't really kick it off although I've encouraged her to stay committed whenever she's too tired/busy to do it by herself. Overnight, strength training went from "this weird thing that my boyfriend is really into" to "this thing that I do because I need to mog my sister, maybe my boyfriend had a point after all"
Getting the actual spark of "I need to get in shape" is much harder, although if she wants to run or something I'd probably just do that with her instead of trying to get her onto your strength program straightaway. She enjoys spending time with you so find something that she enjoys doing that also contributes to getting her in shape, whatever that may be. In general, she has to want it, and once she wants it your job is to make her continue to want it.
You mean this one?
Yeah this one, thanks anon
1 month ago
Anonymous
>My gf got into powerlifting because her sister was posting her lifts on instagram. I didn't really kick it off although I've encouraged her to stay committed whenever she's too tired/busy to do it by herself. Overnight, strength training went from "this weird thing that my boyfriend is really into" to "this thing that I do because I need to mog my sister, maybe my boyfriend had a point after all" >jelousy of other women
thats the only thing that motivates women it seems.
1 month ago
Anonymous
Yes. But to be fair my gf is close to pulling 405 and her sister is still struggling with lmao3pl8 so past a certain point I think she just started chasing the dopamine. I throw a party every time I add a full plate to one of my big 4 lifts and I told her I'd do the same for her, so maybe that helps
1 month ago
Anonymous
in my case they never get past the fat and unhfunit part. So they never taste being athletic and how nice it is.
No, no matter what my approach was it never works. They either succeed regardless of what I do, or they fail regardless of what I do. I'ts entirely up to them, I can make only an minor change of how enjoyable that journey is, but I cannot choose a destination for them.
>sad bitch attitude
Surprise surprise
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You control what you're willing to put up with in a relationship, fat wife included
ye ye, everybody talks big behind the safety of the internet but in real life everybody gets real quiet for some fucking reason and doesn't talk shit, gee I wonder what the difference is.
1 month ago
Anonymous
Your gf knows whether you have follow through or not. My wife knows that I'll leave her if she gets fat because we're responsible for modeling a healthy lifestyle for our kids. She has a similar expectation for me. Frame it in terms of looking at your future if you want to soften the blow, but if you've shown your word to mean nothing in the past, game over
1 month ago
Anonymous
>Your gf knows whether you have follow through or not.
Yes and? >My wife knows that I'll leave her if she gets fat because we're responsible for modeling a healthy lifestyle for our kids.
Okay and? I have left plenty of fat g.fs and even a fat wife. > Frame it in terms of looking at your future if you want to soften the blow
We are talking about women, future doesn't exist for them, they are decadent beasts that live in the now. > Frame it in terms of looking at your future if you want to soften the blow
moron what fucking difference does it make, they fuck up and get fat, I leave.
Do you think this knowledge carries over to the future women I meet? NO, they will be exactly the same blank slate as the previous one. They will get gradually fatter and fatter as time goes on and the I will leave them too.
Women are fucking retarded.
1 month ago
Anonymous
>Run run run.
Enjoy your crumbling foundation
1 month ago
Anonymous
>women are fat, heheh its your fault, they know you aren't going to leav them >I leave them >WTF NOOO incel how can you do this, you can't just leave a fat queen
1 month ago
Anonymous
If a woman doesn't fall in line when you make your priorities clear, she doesn't respect you which means you failed. Everything else is cope
1 month ago
Anonymous
yeah, sure, why not.
Women are not human beings anyway, everything they do boils down to the man "leading' them.
Sure, why not.
1 month ago
Anonymous
>cope more
1 month ago
Anonymous
Are you actually stupid? You outline the decision, she makes the choice. Which part of that implies she's not human
1 month ago
Anonymous
>Which part of that implies she's not human
are fat, heheh its your fault, they know you aren't going to leav them >I leave them >WTF NOOO incel how can you do this, you can't just leave a fat queen >If a woman doesn't fall in line when you make your priorities clear, she doesn't respect you which means you failed
coming back to the fact that it's somehow a mans job to psyop woman into not being a fat whale once again.
What a joke.
1 month ago
Anonymous
You're showing zero responsibility over picking a shit woman who either never respected you or learned not to, but hey, enjoy your revolving door of fat women. I'm sure it'll get better if you change nothing
1 month ago
Anonymous
>You're showing zero responsibility over picking a shit woman
As I said, women have no agency, no free will. It's the man that picks, that makes changes. The woman exists and responds to impulses.
Long term is not a thing that applies to women
Wow this guy is a real fucking loser
Oh you’re trash and you date trash.
Now I understand your problem
>cope
ye that was expected
1 month ago
Anonymous
If you smell shit everywhere you go, you might be shit
1 month ago
Anonymous
How can a human be shit?
Shit comes from the ass
1 month ago
Anonymous
>uh men, did oyu know it's your fault that omwn get fat?
1 month ago
Anonymous
I'm not the one who has to live your sad life. Cope if you want to
1 month ago
Anonymous
>'Long term is not a thing that applies to women'
Uh. Ok. Sorry your mum sucked ass anon.
1 month ago
Anonymous
>women have no agency, no free will.
Im sure this applies to 100% of women and is not in any way an exaggeration.
I am also sure that 100% of men who are purportedly the vanguards of agency are 100% of the time reasonable actors who take complete responsibility and aren’t otherwise retards.
No, you stupid moron. Most people, men included, are NPCs who live from impulse to impulse with little regard for the future - foresight is a superpower to most.
1 month ago
Anonymous
Never said all men are rational forward thinkers. So why make that claim for me? I'l tell you why, it's because it makes it easier to attack.
The reality is that it's vastly easier to find intelligent rational men than it is for women.
Say 80% of men are "retards", then in womens case its 99.99% are retards.
Clearly form this you can see not all men and not all women are either intelligent or retarded. But thats fucking obvious given how distribution works.
I'm complaining about the fact that women are proportionally far more retarded than men.
I can find men who are worth of respect and take responsibility, agency upon themselves.
You can work with them towards some common goal and have consistently good results.
With women, not so.
1 month ago
Anonymous
>You can work with them towards some common goal and have consistently good results. With women, not so.
I love how confidently you present your opinion as fact.
1 month ago
Anonymous
>I love how confidently you present your opinion as fact.
Heh, I like how you confidently claim that to be a fact and not your opinion.
1 month ago
Anonymous
>women have no agency >ok prove it >heh you cant prove what i said isn’t fact
The christcuck special
1 month ago
Anonymous
took the slampig pill recently. i think i may be a convert. would never wife but fun to take for a spin no doubt.
you are probably used to getting dregs because youre low tier yourself. i only fuck responsible women.
based
skipped leg day.
1 month ago
Anonymous
>you are probably used to getting dregs because youre low tier yourself. i only fuck responsible women. >i only fuck responsible women. >took the slampig pill recently. i think i may be a convert.
fuck off retard
1 month ago
Anonymous
she may be a slampig but she makes more money than i do and lets me do whatever i want lol. you are literally a fucking retard without a leg to stand on.
1 month ago
Anonymous
Oh you’re trash and you date trash.
Now I understand your problem
1 month ago
Anonymous
Sometimes you just can't do anything. Avoid people who seem like they're okay with complacency. Men and women. Avoid becoming such a person yourself. Complacency is stasis. Stasis is apathy.
1 month ago
Anonymous
What I learned is that I cannot change the nature of woman.
When I enter their life, the things they are already doing is the things they will likely keep doing and the things they haven't picked up, are things they are likely not going to pick up.
If I want to avoid getting a fat wife, I need to find a woman who has been active and doing fitness of some kind her whole life and enjoys it.
All other options are temporary and will eventually degrade into fatty.
1 month ago
Anonymous
When you marry you’re supposed to marry your best friend, the person who you can say everything straight as it is. If you date and get married to someone who you always need to walk on eggshells you’ve made the wrong choice to begin with. It’s not unsalvageable but it will be difficult for you both to come to terms you’re now a single entity rather than two roommates living together.
Unfortunately a lot of people settle, and many prefer solitude or independence even after they marry and it’s fine if both want it that way but it’s also where a lot of complaints like yours stem from, I can’t relate to it because spouse and I while we may still have disagreements we feel we have to be honest with each other without dancing around dumb shit like hurt feelings if it’s something meant for the best or coming from good intentions. The truth hurts but deceit and white lies is worse.
You cannot change the nature of anyone man or woman, it’s why you look for someone like you, with similar interests and life goals. You fucking retard.
1 month ago
Anonymous
>You cannot change the nature of anyone man or woman, it’s why you look for someone like you, with similar interests and life goals. You fucking retard.
And if such a person doesn't exist?
1 month ago
Anonymous
You are not as unique as you made yourself believe m8, while my spouse is not a carbon copy of myself, our personalities matched surprisingly well right from the get go, it did not made us inmune to arguments and disagreements but there is an empathy that only you can develop for someone who you love, you don’t hurt them because it feels like you’re hurting yourself. If you have to pretend an entire personality to gather the interest of someone they are not the one.
1 month ago
Anonymous
>You are not as unique as you made yourself believe m8
You know practically nothing about me mate, you are displaying some great ignorance here. >you don’t hurt them because it feels like you’re hurting yourself.
Congratulations of not being a psychopath, this is how people generally feel about others, especially those close to them, I don't know why you mention it as some special revelation that happens once in a life time. > If you have to pretend an entire personality to gather the interest of someone they are not the one.
What are you talking about? Who said anything about pretending? Wha? I suggest you quote the passage of text and post that lead you to talk about this.
1 month ago
Anonymous
>you’re supposed to marry your best friend
and that's always who they appear to be when you're balls deep in the honeymoon phase of the relationship--the lust is high, the passion is high, and the conversation is great...hell they're great simply because they are who they are...and then the honeymoon phase wears off. All of the sudden little things start to become annoying...you think to yourself "I remember her looking alot younger and prettier before"...the conversation no longer comes as easy as it used to.
1 month ago
Anonymous
>i realize you are fucking with my head and I refuse to play your game >apathy is death >all illusions attack, get beaten easily >now what did you learn
Wow such writing, KotOR 1 was way better.
I never had to. The girls I dated had BMI between 16-18 so I never had to worry about that
Based chad
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Yeah well women LOVE to manipulate us to get what they want, they don't think logical like us. So why not use their strong suit against them? They'll understand better that way.
Ah yes, the based chad who is too scared to explicitly say what he wants. Stop overthinking like you're scared of your gf/wife, and just tell her to lose weight.
women mentally manipulate us all the time. WAH WAH WAH when we do it back you have white knight gays like yourself.
How about this? Fuck you I want anal and threesomes.
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lmao you obviously aren't married, this doesn't work
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I grew up when licking people's anus holes and getting your face cummed on wasn't a normal thing little zoomie
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she won't. If she does I will beat her ass
>lmao you obviously aren't married, this doesn't work
True
>True
I mean, I am not married but still if you have to do that much work to get your wife to work out and stay healthy/good looking, that sounds like it was a mistake to choose her
>it can really balloon them up and they make the excuse of "I'm not done having kids why cut to get big again", which I guess kinda makes sense
Yeah, bro, I'm just going to get tired tomorrow, so why sleep today. Makes sense.
My teeth will just get dirty anyway so why wash them.... etc
the fact that you needed to go through this mental manipulation just to have normal sex life with your fucking wife is really cringe
That much passive aggresiveness and manipulation is cringe. Just tell her to her face that she is getting fat, and that she should come to the gym with you
god I wish she leaves your abusive ass
Yeah well women LOVE to manipulate us to get what they want, they don't think logical like us. So why not use their strong suit against them? They'll understand better that way.
This is very excessive and will likely be too much for any woman with over 85 IQ. Subtlety is the key when trying to get your woman to lose weight. Small things like holding back on compliments when you know she wants them (or only complimenting things that have nothing to do with her body like hair, makeup, etc.) Have her catch you glancing (but not staring) at fit women when you're out in public, talk about fitness related things to her all the time even though shes not interested in it, eat cleaner than you normally would when you go out to dinner and set an example. These are all things that work, passive aggressive comments tend to do the opposite. If you do all the above and she continues to gain, she cares more about that then keeping you and you should move on and find someone with more compatible long term goals.
the fact that you needed to go through this mental manipulation just to have normal sex life with your fucking wife is really cringe
That much passive aggresiveness and manipulation is cringe. Just tell her to her face that she is getting fat, and that she should come to the gym with you
These people don't understand how women work. You can't just tell them the truth and give them ultimatums like that, they're going to grow to resent you and replace you with a lower maintenance man or get a cat. She has to feel like its her decision to get in shape.
>She has to feel like its her decision to get in shape.
Yes this. My wife was looking good, but after I spent 5 days a week in the gym for 2 years, she was "inspired" to up her game via workout. She didn't like the fact that I was becoming more attractive, "relative" to her. Its kind of competitive, love to see it.
Let me give you some personal insight on the matter.
I've been with my wife for 10 years now. We met in high school, and I got her pregnant.
She is and always has been a lazy person and a shit cook. I wouldn't even mind eating shit food if she at least made it on time. But she rarely did.
We'd get into screaming arguments constantly about how lazy and worthless she was. I felt like an asshole for it, but goddamn she was a real piece of work. The only reason I dealt with all this was for the kids, and also because the sex is great.
But one night, I got fed up. Not only did she get drunk, neglect the kids, and made me top Ramen for dinner, but she decided to give me attitude too. She was being real fucking bitchy. So I told my grandparents to keep an eye on the kids and told my wife we were going to go out and have dinner together. I drove maybe 3 blocks to a quiet area (we live in Oregon, it's not hard to find a quiet field) and I got out of the car, went around like I was going to open her door for her and let her out, and I just beat the shit out of her while she was still seatbelted. After a few punches, I asked her if she wanted to go back to her parents. She started screaming and yelling and said yes, so I beat the shit out of her again. Then I asked her what she wanted to do. She finally got smart and said she wanted to go home. So I took her home and dared her to start trouble. I even handed her my cellphone and dialed her mom's number on the drive home. I made her talk to her mom, while daring her to fucking say something.
Before that incident, I had never laid a hand on her. But I had always threatened it. I told her "one of these days, if you don't straighten up, I'm going to lay hands on you."
All my meals have been on time, and she just recently tried to make a meatloaf. It was mediocre, but I was just thrilled that she tried.
Let me give you some personal insight on the matter.
I've been with my wife for 10 years now. We met in high school, and I got her pregnant.
She is and always has been a lazy person and a shit cook. I wouldn't even mind eating shit food if she at least made it on time. But she rarely did.
We'd get into screaming arguments constantly about how lazy and worthless she was. I felt like an asshole for it, but goddamn she was a real piece of work. The only reason I dealt with all this was for the kids, and also because the sex is great.
But one night, I got fed up. Not only did she get drunk, neglect the kids, and made me top Ramen for dinner, but she decided to give me attitude too. She was being real fucking bitchy. So I told my grandparents to keep an eye on the kids and told my wife we were going to go out and have dinner together. I drove maybe 3 blocks to a quiet area (we live in Oregon, it's not hard to find a quiet field) and I got out of the car, went around like I was going to open her door for her and let her out, and I just beat the shit out of her while she was still seatbelted. After a few punches, I asked her if she wanted to go back to her parents. She started screaming and yelling and said yes, so I beat the shit out of her again. Then I asked her what she wanted to do. She finally got smart and said she wanted to go home. So I took her home and dared her to start trouble. I even handed her my cellphone and dialed her mom's number on the drive home. I made her talk to her mom, while daring her to fucking say something.
Before that incident, I had never laid a hand on her. But I had always threatened it. I told her "one of these days, if you don't straighten up, I'm going to lay hands on you."
All my meals have been on time, and she just recently tried to make a meatloaf. It was mediocre, but I was just thrilled that she tried.
your joints wear out making exercise more painful and less immediately appealing. Typically movement and activity improve joint pain though. However, exercise at the same intensity level as when you were 20 might be harder
look up ozempic and thyroid cancer you basedjak spoonfed gay
Lardass detected
No study no link no logic
If there was one why would thousands of doctors be giving it out and risking a lawsuit?
Either they don't care x (doubt)
Or they don't know and somehow you do
Which is it
Ozempic is prob fine but your reasoning is wrong. If it’s fda approved this basically removes their liability. Look no further than the opioid epidemic.
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It is FDA approved for the treatment of diabetes. Prescribing it for weight loss is off-label use and therefore not covered by your argument.
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No study no link no logic
If there was one why would thousands of doctors be giving it out and risking a lawsuit?
Either they don't care x (doubt)
Or they don't know and somehow you do
Which is it
Doing a web search takes just a few seconds, garden gnome enabler gay. As for why doctors continue to prescribe it, most don't even know cause their bosses don't tell them. The ones that do know are making too much money to care, and on the very tiny chance a patient has millions of dollars to spend in court, they can simply feign ignorance.
Go get your 5th booster and keep wearing your face nappy retard
I'll give her a specific number that's far above where she currently is once I notice weight gain and say that when she reaches that I'm leaving her to fuck the mentally ill femboy with daddy issues at the gym.
Have fun with the sociopathic son. >t. Half nip who was never really accepted into society, but at least doesn't post black dicks onto 4chins like some other JIDF goon hapa
After I got fit my wife lost 30lbs (from 145 to 115) because she she felt she had to look "good" for me. Unfortunately she's now flat as a board. Years of architecture are ruined.
I’ve been calling mine “fat chick” and “tit cow” casually for a while at first it motivated her but she has now pretty much just embraced it and gotten fatter probably start sticking one of those pig noses on her soon
Get on a cam and throatfuck wife while paying a tight teen to play with her pussy while my wife sucks my thick cock until I cut to the skinny cam girl in her throat
My wife is fat but with a pretty flat belly. She have huge tits from having our kid and naturally wide hips. I don’t give any shits as long as I keep fucking her fat ass tits every day.
Kek leading by example won’t help if they simply don’t care about the goal. Some people just like to eat and be fat, even if they are aware of the long term health risks etc.
You control what you're willing to put up with in a relationship, fat wife included
>You control what you're willing to put up with in a relationship
I’m sure many fit men leave a fat wife when they’re no longer attracted and have other options. A man should always be fit.
Kek leading by example won’t help if they simply don’t care about the goal. Some people just like to eat and be fat, even if they are aware of the long term health risks etc.
>long term health risks
u mean not looking good? literally no one works out for health unless they have some serious condition. why is it so hard for gym rats to accept this?
The older you get the more fitness is about health. Once you hit middle age it’s probably mostly about health. Health and looks go hand in hand though.
Still wondering myself, I think I would only leave if it became drastically bad. She's very aware that I highly value fitness and health, she's basically skinnyfat but thin. Her mom isn't a whale either thankfully, which is an important indicator. She was doing Pilates up until she got pregnant, after the first trimester she's hoping to pick it up again. She doesn't like lifting, I've tried to get her into it multiple times. Still though any activity is good. I just wish she would put on some muscle. She's aware that I will not accept a landwhale for a wife.
>marry girl I met in college >She loses weight and is more petite now than ever >I got fat but back to fit because I don't want a heart attack at 45 >all my friends have fiances/wives/gfs that got fat
I see the way they like to talk to her just a bit too much and their eyes/grin linger a bit too long when talking to her. And then they turn to their partners and are....not as enthusiastic. She's awkward and oblivious, but I definitely don't mind showing her off. I hit the lottery bros >all the larp mencels in this thread
kek
Been there but with a gf in the past. Just going to make it clear early on that I don’t find fatties attractive. I’ll do my best to remain attractive and she needs to do the same. Baby weight is obviously an exception and I’ll need to take a greater role as a father to let her exercise.
With all that said, if they aren’t stay healthy for themselves then the risk of this happening is high.
The "...women hit hardest" article has to be one of the most hack topics in journalism. My personal favorite from this genre is the women hit hardest by men fighting in war subset. Being so out of touch with reality always elicits a chuckle.
Try to support her in fixing it, sometimes people get a little overweight. I've gotten a little too pudgy on a bulk before, but it was a short-term thing. I actually already had this happen with an ex-girlfriend, and eventually things ended. I tell my new girlfriend to please stay in shape like I plan to do, or I will not be interested at all in sex. This was what happened with my ex (that is, not being interested in sex and resolving to take care of myself rather than do the deed). I hope to marry my current girlfriend, and if she were to develop a weight problem and it becomes chronic, then I will undoubtedly not be interested in sex, and will leave. >but anon, divorces are expensive!
I need very little to be happy. If she feels she needs money to be happy and to consoom, which of course she would if she's fat since being fat is an issue of overconsumption anyway, then just let her have it. I'll be happily doing a trail run every Saturday morning enjoying the beautiful nature this world has to offer. Don't worry too much about your money anons, and always be prepared to lose it. Then your load will be light
kek at all of you losers having fat wives. You got an unfit woman because you never outgrew your ugly highschooler phase and that was the only thing you could settle with. You knew she wasnt gonna change and none of your shitty attempts will work.
Just find a woman that is already into fitnes and quit these retarded mental games.zgdzh p
>What will you do when your wife gets fat?
Leave.
Told girlfriend ive been with for 6 months now that if she gets fat, lies or cheat I'm gone. Luckily she likes doing physical activities is skinny and eat like a mouse. always more than happy to share me her meals.
Dump her. I've told all gfs I ever had thatvif they get fat, I'm fucking leaving. They were surprisingly understanding. I think women know that fatties are disgusting as shit.
i'm never getting married. all 5 of my long term relationships have been a massive chore and weren't worth it. i can't be attracted to a girl if she bitches at me. a girl can't be attracted to me if i put up with her bitching at me. i don't feel like constantly keeping a girl in check (makes my boner die). I don't feel like putting in the effort. i don't want anyone telling me what to do, ever. i don't care about sex that much. it's not worth it. >dude you just haven't met the right woman
no shit retard but it's not WORTH looking for the right woman if you can easily run into the wrong woman who seems like the right woman in every way until they pull their bullshit which comes out of nowhere and fucks up that entire sector of your life and has you fucked up.
it's not worth it. I'll sleep with them but i'm not marrying them. i might even knock one up and pay child support so i have a kid, but i'm not getting married and cohabitating with a woman, ever.
Not care because I'm not some spastic incel who believes in memes like "the wall" and realises that everyone has to face a decline in their physical and mental being at some point
Is it true that metabolism doesn't slow down THAT much but people get too lazy
Yes. Its 100% the truth. Your metabolism stays almost the same until you are like 80 years old. People just get lazy when they turn 30 and start driving everywhere
>turn 30 and start driving everywhere
Speak for yourself, carbrain.
>it’s all about calories out
No you dipshit it’s about calories in. They eat too many calories. Simple as.
Already there,
What you do is encourage them to go the gym, and say little passive aggresive things like "you should wear something a little more flattering" or "you shouldn't wear that shirt, you should cover up more in that part of the body" or say something like "here is your summer clothes do you wanna try them on to make sure they still fit"
Their self esteem will plummet drastically, after their self esteem is super low, you get them black out drunk, and start getting mires and talking to other women at a bar, not flirting with them, just saying hello and being freindly, your wife will then go primal and because she has nothing to work with she'll give you the best blowjob of your life, and start doing all the depraved sexual acts she would never do if she had high self esteem and was skinny.
This is what I did, in the past 8 months my wife has done
>anal
>threesome with her fat friend
>facial
>Lets me tittyfuck her on the reg
>handcuffed her to the bed and spanked her and had my way with her
The only thing is you have to deal with the fact that her pussy is usually hairy when she is in this state of mind, not to mention the big old flappy belly but I just learned to imagine Margot Robbie
Women gain on average 10-20lbs per baby and they're only 95-150 depending on height anyway so if they have 3 kids it can really balloon them up and they make the excuse of "I'm not done having kids why cut to get big again", which I guess kinda makes sense
the fact that you needed to go through this mental manipulation just to have normal sex life with your fucking wife is really cringe
>"There's my little babycakes. Yes, they were saying mean things about your kind online again. Of Course I defended you! Does your little man-thing get a reward? A peak between the roles perhaps?"
women mentally manipulate us all the time. WAH WAH WAH when we do it back you have white knight gays like yourself.
How about this? Fuck you I want anal and threesomes.
lmao you obviously aren't married, this doesn't work
I grew up when licking people's anus holes and getting your face cummed on wasn't a normal thing little zoomie
she won't. If she does I will beat her ass
>women mentally manipulate us all the time. WAH WAH WAH when we do it back you have white knight gays like yourself.
>
>How about this? Fuck you I want anal and threesomes.
How about this, when I'm dating a girl and she's not sex compatible with me, we end it and I find another girl, instead of playing shitty games just to get a crumb of ass.
this, i really don't care about manipulating women but the fact he has to for what should be normal in a relationship already says enough
also doesn't fix the problem of her being fat lol
That much passive aggresiveness and manipulation is cringe. Just tell her to her face that she is getting fat, and that she should come to the gym with you
I'm guessing you've never gotten a chick to start exercising before because this is the exact opposite way of how to do it
>externally motivated (wants to make you happy)
>no internal motivation (wants to look/feel better) because otherwise she'd already be working out
>doesn't enjoy it, it's painful and/or boring
>starts to resent you for making her feel pain and/or boredom all the time
>eventually gives up on the sisyphean task of staying fit and returns to her fat self, except now she's also angry
how does one make a fat woman fit? I'v tried many times to course correct a womans destiny, yet they always become fat in the end.
And as you said, trying to do anything is just going to be a waste of time and breed resentment on their part.
My gf got into powerlifting because her sister was posting her lifts on instagram. I didn't really kick it off although I've encouraged her to stay committed whenever she's too tired/busy to do it by herself. Overnight, strength training went from "this weird thing that my boyfriend is really into" to "this thing that I do because I need to mog my sister, maybe my boyfriend had a point after all"
Getting the actual spark of "I need to get in shape" is much harder, although if she wants to run or something I'd probably just do that with her instead of trying to get her onto your strength program straightaway. She enjoys spending time with you so find something that she enjoys doing that also contributes to getting her in shape, whatever that may be. In general, she has to want it, and once she wants it your job is to make her continue to want it.
Yeah this one, thanks anon
>My gf got into powerlifting because her sister was posting her lifts on instagram. I didn't really kick it off although I've encouraged her to stay committed whenever she's too tired/busy to do it by herself. Overnight, strength training went from "this weird thing that my boyfriend is really into" to "this thing that I do because I need to mog my sister, maybe my boyfriend had a point after all"
>jelousy of other women
thats the only thing that motivates women it seems.
Yes. But to be fair my gf is close to pulling 405 and her sister is still struggling with lmao3pl8 so past a certain point I think she just started chasing the dopamine. I throw a party every time I add a full plate to one of my big 4 lifts and I told her I'd do the same for her, so maybe that helps
in my case they never get past the fat and unhfunit part. So they never taste being athletic and how nice it is.
No, no matter what my approach was it never works. They either succeed regardless of what I do, or they fail regardless of what I do. I'ts entirely up to them, I can make only an minor change of how enjoyable that journey is, but I cannot choose a destination for them.
ye ye, everybody talks big behind the safety of the internet but in real life everybody gets real quiet for some fucking reason and doesn't talk shit, gee I wonder what the difference is.
Your gf knows whether you have follow through or not. My wife knows that I'll leave her if she gets fat because we're responsible for modeling a healthy lifestyle for our kids. She has a similar expectation for me. Frame it in terms of looking at your future if you want to soften the blow, but if you've shown your word to mean nothing in the past, game over
>Your gf knows whether you have follow through or not.
Yes and?
>My wife knows that I'll leave her if she gets fat because we're responsible for modeling a healthy lifestyle for our kids.
Okay and? I have left plenty of fat g.fs and even a fat wife.
> Frame it in terms of looking at your future if you want to soften the blow
We are talking about women, future doesn't exist for them, they are decadent beasts that live in the now.
> Frame it in terms of looking at your future if you want to soften the blow
moron what fucking difference does it make, they fuck up and get fat, I leave.
Do you think this knowledge carries over to the future women I meet? NO, they will be exactly the same blank slate as the previous one. They will get gradually fatter and fatter as time goes on and the I will leave them too.
Women are fucking retarded.
>Run run run.
Enjoy your crumbling foundation
>women are fat, heheh its your fault, they know you aren't going to leav them
>I leave them
>WTF NOOO incel how can you do this, you can't just leave a fat queen
If a woman doesn't fall in line when you make your priorities clear, she doesn't respect you which means you failed. Everything else is cope
>cope more
Are you actually stupid? You outline the decision, she makes the choice. Which part of that implies she's not human
>Which part of that implies she's not human
are fat, heheh its your fault, they know you aren't going to leav them
>I leave them
>WTF NOOO incel how can you do this, you can't just leave a fat queen
>If a woman doesn't fall in line when you make your priorities clear, she doesn't respect you which means you failed
coming back to the fact that it's somehow a mans job to psyop woman into not being a fat whale once again.
What a joke.
You're showing zero responsibility over picking a shit woman who either never respected you or learned not to, but hey, enjoy your revolving door of fat women. I'm sure it'll get better if you change nothing
>You're showing zero responsibility over picking a shit woman
As I said, women have no agency, no free will. It's the man that picks, that makes changes. The woman exists and responds to impulses.
Long term is not a thing that applies to women
>cope
ye that was expected
If you smell shit everywhere you go, you might be shit
How can a human be shit?
Shit comes from the ass
>uh men, did oyu know it's your fault that omwn get fat?
I'm not the one who has to live your sad life. Cope if you want to
>'Long term is not a thing that applies to women'
Uh. Ok. Sorry your mum sucked ass anon.
>women have no agency, no free will.
Im sure this applies to 100% of women and is not in any way an exaggeration.
I am also sure that 100% of men who are purportedly the vanguards of agency are 100% of the time reasonable actors who take complete responsibility and aren’t otherwise retards.
No, you stupid moron. Most people, men included, are NPCs who live from impulse to impulse with little regard for the future - foresight is a superpower to most.
Never said all men are rational forward thinkers. So why make that claim for me? I'l tell you why, it's because it makes it easier to attack.
The reality is that it's vastly easier to find intelligent rational men than it is for women.
Say 80% of men are "retards", then in womens case its 99.99% are retards.
Clearly form this you can see not all men and not all women are either intelligent or retarded. But thats fucking obvious given how distribution works.
I'm complaining about the fact that women are proportionally far more retarded than men.
I can find men who are worth of respect and take responsibility, agency upon themselves.
You can work with them towards some common goal and have consistently good results.
With women, not so.
>You can work with them towards some common goal and have consistently good results. With women, not so.
I love how confidently you present your opinion as fact.
>I love how confidently you present your opinion as fact.
Heh, I like how you confidently claim that to be a fact and not your opinion.
>women have no agency
>ok prove it
>heh you cant prove what i said isn’t fact
The christcuck special
took the slampig pill recently. i think i may be a convert. would never wife but fun to take for a spin no doubt.
you are probably used to getting dregs because youre low tier yourself. i only fuck responsible women.
skipped leg day.
>you are probably used to getting dregs because youre low tier yourself. i only fuck responsible women.
>i only fuck responsible women.
>took the slampig pill recently. i think i may be a convert.
fuck off retard
she may be a slampig but she makes more money than i do and lets me do whatever i want lol. you are literally a fucking retard without a leg to stand on.
Oh you’re trash and you date trash.
Now I understand your problem
Sometimes you just can't do anything. Avoid people who seem like they're okay with complacency. Men and women. Avoid becoming such a person yourself. Complacency is stasis. Stasis is apathy.
What I learned is that I cannot change the nature of woman.
When I enter their life, the things they are already doing is the things they will likely keep doing and the things they haven't picked up, are things they are likely not going to pick up.
If I want to avoid getting a fat wife, I need to find a woman who has been active and doing fitness of some kind her whole life and enjoys it.
All other options are temporary and will eventually degrade into fatty.
When you marry you’re supposed to marry your best friend, the person who you can say everything straight as it is. If you date and get married to someone who you always need to walk on eggshells you’ve made the wrong choice to begin with. It’s not unsalvageable but it will be difficult for you both to come to terms you’re now a single entity rather than two roommates living together.
Unfortunately a lot of people settle, and many prefer solitude or independence even after they marry and it’s fine if both want it that way but it’s also where a lot of complaints like yours stem from, I can’t relate to it because spouse and I while we may still have disagreements we feel we have to be honest with each other without dancing around dumb shit like hurt feelings if it’s something meant for the best or coming from good intentions. The truth hurts but deceit and white lies is worse.
You cannot change the nature of anyone man or woman, it’s why you look for someone like you, with similar interests and life goals. You fucking retard.
>You cannot change the nature of anyone man or woman, it’s why you look for someone like you, with similar interests and life goals. You fucking retard.
And if such a person doesn't exist?
You are not as unique as you made yourself believe m8, while my spouse is not a carbon copy of myself, our personalities matched surprisingly well right from the get go, it did not made us inmune to arguments and disagreements but there is an empathy that only you can develop for someone who you love, you don’t hurt them because it feels like you’re hurting yourself. If you have to pretend an entire personality to gather the interest of someone they are not the one.
>You are not as unique as you made yourself believe m8
You know practically nothing about me mate, you are displaying some great ignorance here.
>you don’t hurt them because it feels like you’re hurting yourself.
Congratulations of not being a psychopath, this is how people generally feel about others, especially those close to them, I don't know why you mention it as some special revelation that happens once in a life time.
> If you have to pretend an entire personality to gather the interest of someone they are not the one.
What are you talking about? Who said anything about pretending? Wha? I suggest you quote the passage of text and post that lead you to talk about this.
>you’re supposed to marry your best friend
and that's always who they appear to be when you're balls deep in the honeymoon phase of the relationship--the lust is high, the passion is high, and the conversation is great...hell they're great simply because they are who they are...and then the honeymoon phase wears off. All of the sudden little things start to become annoying...you think to yourself "I remember her looking alot younger and prettier before"...the conversation no longer comes as easy as it used to.
>i realize you are fucking with my head and I refuse to play your game
>apathy is death
>all illusions attack, get beaten easily
>now what did you learn
Wow such writing, KotOR 1 was way better.
I never had to. The girls I dated had BMI between 16-18 so I never had to worry about that
Ah yes, the based chad who is too scared to explicitly say what he wants. Stop overthinking like you're scared of your gf/wife, and just tell her to lose weight.
>lmao you obviously aren't married, this doesn't work
True
>True
I mean, I am not married but still if you have to do that much work to get your wife to work out and stay healthy/good looking, that sounds like it was a mistake to choose her
Then don't give advice to things you don't know anything about, you dumb moron
I know everything
>it can really balloon them up and they make the excuse of "I'm not done having kids why cut to get big again", which I guess kinda makes sense
Yeah, bro, I'm just going to get tired tomorrow, so why sleep today. Makes sense.
My teeth will just get dirty anyway so why wash them.... etc
Wait you werent just getting all of that anyway? Only threesomes are notable there, ive done the rest with every girl ive ever had
god I wish she leaves your abusive ass
Based chad
Yeah well women LOVE to manipulate us to get what they want, they don't think logical like us. So why not use their strong suit against them? They'll understand better that way.
>” Yeah well women LOVE to manipulate us to get what they want”
Dudes justification for acting like a woman is that women act like women. Wild.
This is very excessive and will likely be too much for any woman with over 85 IQ. Subtlety is the key when trying to get your woman to lose weight. Small things like holding back on compliments when you know she wants them (or only complimenting things that have nothing to do with her body like hair, makeup, etc.) Have her catch you glancing (but not staring) at fit women when you're out in public, talk about fitness related things to her all the time even though shes not interested in it, eat cleaner than you normally would when you go out to dinner and set an example. These are all things that work, passive aggressive comments tend to do the opposite. If you do all the above and she continues to gain, she cares more about that then keeping you and you should move on and find someone with more compatible long term goals.
These people don't understand how women work. You can't just tell them the truth and give them ultimatums like that, they're going to grow to resent you and replace you with a lower maintenance man or get a cat. She has to feel like its her decision to get in shape.
>She has to feel like its her decision to get in shape
This. Then goodbye sweet low self-esteem fatty depraved sex.
>She has to feel like its her decision to get in shape.
Yes this. My wife was looking good, but after I spent 5 days a week in the gym for 2 years, she was "inspired" to up her game via workout. She didn't like the fact that I was becoming more attractive, "relative" to her. Its kind of competitive, love to see it.
Let me give you some personal insight on the matter.
I've been with my wife for 10 years now. We met in high school, and I got her pregnant.
She is and always has been a lazy person and a shit cook. I wouldn't even mind eating shit food if she at least made it on time. But she rarely did.
We'd get into screaming arguments constantly about how lazy and worthless she was. I felt like an asshole for it, but goddamn she was a real piece of work. The only reason I dealt with all this was for the kids, and also because the sex is great.
But one night, I got fed up. Not only did she get drunk, neglect the kids, and made me top Ramen for dinner, but she decided to give me attitude too. She was being real fucking bitchy. So I told my grandparents to keep an eye on the kids and told my wife we were going to go out and have dinner together. I drove maybe 3 blocks to a quiet area (we live in Oregon, it's not hard to find a quiet field) and I got out of the car, went around like I was going to open her door for her and let her out, and I just beat the shit out of her while she was still seatbelted. After a few punches, I asked her if she wanted to go back to her parents. She started screaming and yelling and said yes, so I beat the shit out of her again. Then I asked her what she wanted to do. She finally got smart and said she wanted to go home. So I took her home and dared her to start trouble. I even handed her my cellphone and dialed her mom's number on the drive home. I made her talk to her mom, while daring her to fucking say something.
Before that incident, I had never laid a hand on her. But I had always threatened it. I told her "one of these days, if you don't straighten up, I'm going to lay hands on you."
All my meals have been on time, and she just recently tried to make a meatloaf. It was mediocre, but I was just thrilled that she tried.
Do with this information what you will.
based
women really are children and sometimes you have to beat them
Classic.
pasta matured like dry cured ham
Every time
>here is your summer clothes do you wanna try them on to make sure they still fit
Imagine saying that in a-matter-of-fact, monotone voice to your significant other
>you have to wait till your wife is fat old and depressed to do all the things you've always wanted to do
yeaaa no thanks
Bro that's emotional abuse
Never seen this one before, may be real lol
I remember this one
you married a girl that had never taken a facial from you? lmfao
this is what happens when you're womanbrained
that’s the saddest shit I’ve read here and I didn’t even read the full post
b a s e d
based manipulation enjoyer
>ma'am can you please stop taking pictures of your asshole? there are children present and we will have to ask you to leave.
my mom is 60 but she's very lean
all she does is eat healthy and ride a bike 2 hours a day
Your metabolic slowdown is accompanied by a decrease in appetite so yeah you shouldn't really gain so much weight.
Your metabolism is a product of your activity levels and the food you eat.
your joints wear out making exercise more painful and less immediately appealing. Typically movement and activity improve joint pain though. However, exercise at the same intensity level as when you were 20 might be harder
get a new one
>Dude take the cancer shot instead of just not eating
No thanks pharma-garden gnome
You try explaining that to a woman
I’ll wait…
What indicates to you that this is carcinogenic? Why not say it'll mess with your pancreas and it'll not go back to work or something more believable?
It literally causes thyroid cancer.
Citation needed
Lardass detected
enjoy your cancer kek
No study no link no logic
If there was one why would thousands of doctors be giving it out and risking a lawsuit?
Either they don't care x (doubt)
Or they don't know and somehow you do
Which is it
Ozempic is prob fine but your reasoning is wrong. If it’s fda approved this basically removes their liability. Look no further than the opioid epidemic.
It is FDA approved for the treatment of diabetes. Prescribing it for weight loss is off-label use and therefore not covered by your argument.
look up ozempic and thyroid cancer you basedjak spoonfed gay
Doing a web search takes just a few seconds, garden gnome enabler gay. As for why doctors continue to prescribe it, most don't even know cause their bosses don't tell them. The ones that do know are making too much money to care, and on the very tiny chance a patient has millions of dollars to spend in court, they can simply feign ignorance.
Go get your 5th booster and keep wearing your face nappy retard
The fact that this works proves that it isn’t about cico, diets or will power.
Ozempic or your picture?
Congratulate myself on a job well done
based
literally me
I'll give her a specific number that's far above where she currently is once I notice weight gain and say that when she reaches that I'm leaving her to fuck the mentally ill femboy with daddy issues at the gym.
based fag
>based
>fag
pick one
Thumbnail makes it look like boomer took his eyeballs out before bed and set them on the nightstand
Cannot unsee
My future wife will be asian, so I won't have this problem
Even asian women, especially the americanized ones, are getting fat since more of them are falling for the thicc meme.
Have fun with the sociopathic son.
>t. Half nip who was never really accepted into society, but at least doesn't post black dicks onto 4chins like some other JIDF goon hapa
Half of you can stay
After I got fit my wife lost 30lbs (from 145 to 115) because she she felt she had to look "good" for me. Unfortunately she's now flat as a board. Years of architecture are ruined.
Anyone got the webm of Hal from Malcolm in the Middle secretly architecting his wife?
You mean this one?
No I think it was a different one
Oh, sorry. Is it this one instead?
Kek sorry I didn’t realize there was actually another one, I was just being a dick 🙂
:v
>mixing mass gainer into salad
pretty based all things considered
the architect
Bulimia is not fitness.
Before I was 30 I could eat anything and not put on weight. These days I need to limit portions and eat mostly meat.
That's what sister-wives are for, as God intended.
What's the point of women in their 50's?
I’ve been calling mine “fat chick” and “tit cow” casually for a while at first it motivated her but she has now pretty much just embraced it and gotten fatter probably start sticking one of those pig noses on her soon
JOHN LENNON WAS RIGHT ABOUT WOMEN
Get on a cam and throatfuck wife while paying a tight teen to play with her pussy while my wife sucks my thick cock until I cut to the skinny cam girl in her throat
Get even more fit myself
My wife is fat but with a pretty flat belly. She have huge tits from having our kid and naturally wide hips. I don’t give any shits as long as I keep fucking her fat ass tits every day.
There's a reason - they finally realise they hit the wall and give up.
I lead by example.
I am getting fit and talk about tracking my workouts and calories.
My wife started asking questions about my calorie tracking app and decided (on her own) to start tracking her food.
Now she wants us to start rock climbing together.
This is how you keep your wife in shape.
shut the fuck up gay.
I'm very fit and all the women that were with me still got fat. "lead by example" my ass, that shit doesn't work.
Sounds like you don't know how to lead
yeah, sure, why not.
Women are not human beings anyway, everything they do boils down to the man "leading' them.
Sure, why not.
>sad bitch attitude
Surprise surprise
You control what you're willing to put up with in a relationship, fat wife included
>You control what you're willing to put up with in a relationship
I’m sure many fit men leave a fat wife when they’re no longer attracted and have other options. A man should always be fit.
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Wow this guy is a real fucking loser
Kek leading by example won’t help if they simply don’t care about the goal. Some people just like to eat and be fat, even if they are aware of the long term health risks etc.
>long term health risks
u mean not looking good? literally no one works out for health unless they have some serious condition. why is it so hard for gym rats to accept this?
The older you get the more fitness is about health. Once you hit middle age it’s probably mostly about health. Health and looks go hand in hand though.
>literally no one works out for health
Ah, to be young again.
REEEEE TARD
Sounds like you’re the problem
>your wife
Wtf would i want that?
Wife? I haven’t had sex since 2008 and haven’t had a date since 2012.
Just explore a new porn category in real life
I'm living the Leo lifestyle so I don't know
Still wondering myself, I think I would only leave if it became drastically bad. She's very aware that I highly value fitness and health, she's basically skinnyfat but thin. Her mom isn't a whale either thankfully, which is an important indicator. She was doing Pilates up until she got pregnant, after the first trimester she's hoping to pick it up again. She doesn't like lifting, I've tried to get her into it multiple times. Still though any activity is good. I just wish she would put on some muscle. She's aware that I will not accept a landwhale for a wife.
dump her and relegate myself to a life of celibacy and praising God
women in general don't lift weights so their natural metabolism hits the shitter once aging takes the little musculature they have left
Enjoy my new plump cum dump
>marry girl I met in college
>She loses weight and is more petite now than ever
>I got fat but back to fit because I don't want a heart attack at 45
>all my friends have fiances/wives/gfs that got fat
I see the way they like to talk to her just a bit too much and their eyes/grin linger a bit too long when talking to her. And then they turn to their partners and are....not as enthusiastic. She's awkward and oblivious, but I definitely don't mind showing her off. I hit the lottery bros
>all the larp mencels in this thread
kek
love her unconditionally, and also get fat
she starts eating less or i dump her. pre-nup ofc
Been there but with a gf in the past. Just going to make it clear early on that I don’t find fatties attractive. I’ll do my best to remain attractive and she needs to do the same. Baby weight is obviously an exception and I’ll need to take a greater role as a father to let her exercise.
With all that said, if they aren’t stay healthy for themselves then the risk of this happening is high.
cheat on her
women literally have one job
Cheat on her with someone fatter
im bald, so i probably have no options
I will do my fat wife... and just concentrate on her face instead of her bean bag body
The "...women hit hardest" article has to be one of the most hack topics in journalism. My personal favorite from this genre is the women hit hardest by men fighting in war subset. Being so out of touch with reality always elicits a chuckle.
Bully her until she gets into shape like I did to my mom.
Try to support her in fixing it, sometimes people get a little overweight. I've gotten a little too pudgy on a bulk before, but it was a short-term thing. I actually already had this happen with an ex-girlfriend, and eventually things ended. I tell my new girlfriend to please stay in shape like I plan to do, or I will not be interested at all in sex. This was what happened with my ex (that is, not being interested in sex and resolving to take care of myself rather than do the deed). I hope to marry my current girlfriend, and if she were to develop a weight problem and it becomes chronic, then I will undoubtedly not be interested in sex, and will leave.
>but anon, divorces are expensive!
I need very little to be happy. If she feels she needs money to be happy and to consoom, which of course she would if she's fat since being fat is an issue of overconsumption anyway, then just let her have it. I'll be happily doing a trail run every Saturday morning enjoying the beautiful nature this world has to offer. Don't worry too much about your money anons, and always be prepared to lose it. Then your load will be light
I will continue to love her as long as she takes good care of our children. I will, however, fuck young Asian girls on the side.
kek at all of you losers having fat wives. You got an unfit woman because you never outgrew your ugly highschooler phase and that was the only thing you could settle with. You knew she wasnt gonna change and none of your shitty attempts will work.
Just find a woman that is already into fitnes and quit these retarded mental games.zgdzh p
Give my wife to our son and fuck our daughter.
>What will you do when your wife gets fat?
Leave.
Told girlfriend ive been with for 6 months now that if she gets fat, lies or cheat I'm gone. Luckily she likes doing physical activities is skinny and eat like a mouse. always more than happy to share me her meals.
Dump her. I've told all gfs I ever had thatvif they get fat, I'm fucking leaving. They were surprisingly understanding. I think women know that fatties are disgusting as shit.
Heh. Mine isn’t even there yet and she’s pretty big. She’s gonna look like a tomato in five or six years
i'm never getting married. all 5 of my long term relationships have been a massive chore and weren't worth it. i can't be attracted to a girl if she bitches at me. a girl can't be attracted to me if i put up with her bitching at me. i don't feel like constantly keeping a girl in check (makes my boner die). I don't feel like putting in the effort. i don't want anyone telling me what to do, ever. i don't care about sex that much. it's not worth it.
>dude you just haven't met the right woman
no shit retard but it's not WORTH looking for the right woman if you can easily run into the wrong woman who seems like the right woman in every way until they pull their bullshit which comes out of nowhere and fucks up that entire sector of your life and has you fucked up.
it's not worth it. I'll sleep with them but i'm not marrying them. i might even knock one up and pay child support so i have a kid, but i'm not getting married and cohabitating with a woman, ever.
you are immature and narcisstic.
Not trying to get you to change. Just letting you know why
you sound malicious and narcissistic, not expecting you to care, just letting the other anon know you are a psycho
My fiance has been consistently squatting deadlifting lunging and running hill sprints for 4 years. The fat will distribute just fine.
Not care because I'm not some spastic incel who believes in memes like "the wall" and realises that everyone has to face a decline in their physical and mental being at some point