What's the best way to ensure you get a girlfriend who doesn't later become chubby/obese? I'm 28 and most dudes I know in longterm relationships their b***hes have substantially expanded in size.
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What's the best way to ensure you get a girlfriend who doesn't later become chubby/obese?
Make it clear from the outset that you find fat women physically repulsive
She’s a fitness enthusiast and has been at it for years. Never fall for someone’s potential. Only invest in what they show you. IST‘s mistake is thinking they can get the chubby girl who’s into them to lose weight.
she does activities like rock climbing or hiking uphill
anything that fights gravity honestly
this is the best advice, find a girl that's active and enjoys being active.
>by chance reconnect with ex after a decade
>her body weight has doubled and she got exhausted walking up the stairs for stadium seats at a show
Bros I wouldn't even care that much about the weight but how can you have such little endurance? It hurts me to see her like that. Neither of us were really fit before but we could go out and do shit without worrying about it becoming a medical situation. How does it happen
>how does that happen?
one lazy day after another
Also I've had success with women who like to rollerskate or rollerblade. It requires a degree of coordination that filters out many undesirable physical issues that may not be apparent until later in life.
Maybe you start by re-examining your own standards? Obviously obesity is never acceptable, but for most women it is physically impossible to not gain a little weight and get “chubby” after marriage. As women age their metabolism slows down and their bodies will store fat if they eat a normal healthy diet. It’s perfectly natural and not unhealthy.
So instead of forcing your girl to have an eating disorder, work on being loving and compassionate and then you will earn the right to have a good long-term partner.
b8. Mildly underweight people live longer and are healthier btw.
gaining fifteen pounds during/after pregnancy is fine, the problem is women growing complacent with their bodies and not at least putting the effort into looking better
Hey buddy, since you wanna give advice, how about you google the things you're typing.
No, seriously. Open up another tab in your fricking browser and type "What age does metabolism slow down for women". It's not that fricking hard.
After you sift through all the websites saying the OPPOSITE of what you're saying on fricking IST, I want you to go to a gun range and say you want to shoot some guns, and when they give you the gun I want you to blow your own fricking brains out.
roastie c**t flaps detected
>Woman talking about love and compassion
Holding your woman to the same standard as you hold yourself in non negotiable. Keep coping you utter fricking roastoid, nobody will love you with that attitude.
>What's the best way to ensure you get a girlfriend who doesn't later become chubby/obese?
find a girl that loves working out
>What's the best way to ensure you get a girlfriend who doesn't later become chubby/obese?
Just look at her mom. I'm 100% serious. If her mom is fat, she will almost guaranteed be fat as well. If her mom is skinny, she will most likely be skinny.
This right here. Look at their mother. If momma is a sow, do not plow.
he cute
Soggy 🙂
also look at her dad and find pictures of him when he was younger to see when he lost his hair. a mature hairline in the 20s or 30s is okay, but dont marry if the dad got to nw3 early.
First off If, you should marry someone that respects themselves, if you did not and your wife is getting fat then tell her she needs to start working out and lose weight. If necessary you will go to the gym with her. It is really not complicated.
>t. My wife would never get fat but if she did I would tell her to move her ass. Same as she would to me if I got heavy.
As someone who dated multiple women who within 2 years became a whale, let me give you some sage advice:
1) even if they are skinny, if they don't exercise and eat right, they will go whale mode once you wife them up. They just starve themselves until they find a man, then the pounds come on. So make sure they are into exercise and eating healthy. And cooking healthy.
2) tell them up front if they put on a bunch of weight you won't stand for it and will leave. Easy
Same with everything else. You should know who your partner is before tying the knot, including their long-term adiposity, eating habits, etc. Don't rush in.
Are you saying op pic is obese?
First of all, don't go for a woman who doesn't do some kind of exercises several times a week.
And if she starts to get overweight you just start looking at other fit women when you're out and make it very obvious you're doing it. She'll get the memo soon enough.
Marry an Asian
You need to be into the thin mousey petite women. Going after "thiccc" women will always end in them getting fat.
This is the real advice.
All those "thicc women" will eventually be cellulite ridden hags with folds and stretch marks.
But cellulite looks good on 40+ women IF they maintain it in control without becoming lardasses.
> mfw my ex loved working out
> she became very fit with crazy abs, tight tighs, etc
> we broke up
Feel like I'm doomed to frick chubby prostitutes now. Hell at least I'm starting to work out again and I was the one bringing her out of shitty eating habits
don't give up, you'll find that woman soon.
Reminds me of me
>Get girlfriend
>She's chubby but cute
>Get her into ISTness
>She starts rocking abs and tight af body in general
>Boobies gone but goddamn i turned her from a 5/10 to 8/10 at least
>"I want to become a personal fitness coach I think"
>Her life literally becomes about being IST
>She breaks up
Never again
All that work just for nothing (I still see her at my gym sometimes, she's still smoking hot and works as PT)
Probably my biggest fear, gf comes fit and throws you away like nothing after all the time and effort you put into her.
Girls who get hardcore into fitness are never content with sticking with one wiener. They were all motivated by the prospect of getting lots of novel experiences with different Chads.
date them in their 30s, they usually explode mid 20s
Met my wife when we both where in good shape. She even told me on several occasions that she knew I'd probably leave her if she got fat. It was probably true but she understood. Ten years later getting divorced for other reasons anyway. She never got fat.