When did you first realize you were unfit/unattractive?

Was it just a self awareness moment? Was it an embarrassing situation with a girl?

  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I never had this realization. I had plenty of sex in highschool and have had many relationships with women. I have plenty of matches on tinder too.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Me too also I make 500k annually and have a 12 inch penor

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Several years ago, when I first saw the side of my head in a mirror while trying on clothes in a changing room with lots of mirrors. That was the first time I actively noticed I look like a fucking subhuman. And then, perhaps three years ago, I have finally gained the gift and punishment of self-awareness. Ever since then I feel pain whenever I look into the mirror and lately it’s gotten to the point where I am afraid of going outside because of my absurd looks. Unfortunately I am also quite short with an obscenely slim, narrow, thin body that simply refuses to grow no matter what I do. So I can’t even fall back on physical strength to compensate for my ugliness because I am literally the weakest person older than 12 that anyone will likely ever meet. I’ve given up at this point though I still try to work out as often as I can because it makes my body and mind feel better.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      eat more

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Looks has never been my problem. Even though I'm severely balding now I still get teens mirin.

    My personality is what makes me unattractive. In HS I was a clingy, whiny bitch. I've stopped that with women, but I still get nervous and irritable in general, and I'm too tired all the time to really fix my life.

    >t. Absentee single mother, force-fed SSRIs from 8-15, chronic nosleep.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Still haven't realized that.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i’ve always been a 5’8 dyel with acne and not a strong jaw (been working out for a month now and feeling solid tho).

    Despite this I just manipulated the fuck out of women my whole life and I got laid.

    Sure, I don’t look good enough to fuck a new girl every day. But I have dated women for years which gave me sex daily.

    And when I’m single usually one of my ex girlfriends will be down to fuck every once in a while which is good enough.

    I also keep a homemade porn collection of various pictures and videos i’ve taken over the years and that keeps me going through dry spells.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >manipulated the fuck out of women my whole life and I got laid.

      Any tips to share? I'm working on a 7/10 latina with a thicc ass currently.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Girl called me handsome :))

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I realised when I created accounts on dating apps and the only bitches I pulled for months were fat (too fat to fuck) and ugly.
    People IRL tell me I'm handsome, look good, smell nice, etc. But when I went on dating apps, I realised just how fucking brutal the competition is.
    For average joes like me the only way to score is to go out into town and talk to people.

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Mine was the opposite. I just never really noticed my looks and just figured people were being nice when they said I was attractive, but then I realized that people don't actually say these things to unattractive people. Nice to know kek

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    my older sister has been telling me i'm fatty ugly and shorty for like everyday since i've hit puberty till the moment she moved out, and decades latter, i'm still convinced it's the case

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Duh, that's what older sisters are for. I still bully my brothers to hell and back and we're grown ass adults

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        well, i guess that's normal after all to hate each others guts as siblings, i was a nuisance after all for her

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i’ve never been called ugly. just had low self-esteem. it wasn’t until later in life when i took care of my looks that i reached self-awareness thanks to women complimenting me all the time

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I used to be fit at the start of my 6 year relationship but gained 40lbs of weight gradually
    Never dawned on me how much I gained until I was going through old progress pictures and my fiance gasped at how fit I was even though I was a complete dyel, looking back people used to treat me better when I was fitter
    We made a deal to work out together for a year until our wedding

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I think im ugly as fuck but i've had a few cougars hit on me.

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Alice Glass is good shit

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i was kinda skinny fat average guy but i feel foggy everyday because of porn and fuck up sleeping schedule, i was also got rejected by a girl i really like, that make me feel like shit for few months (yes i'm a virgin), the final blow is when i realize i couldn't do a fucking pull up, while other guys can do it so easily, that's when i realize that i have step up and do something with my fuck up life, i used to hate weightlifting because i thought it was waste of time, now even though i was just training for 1 month, i can the positive result, for the first time i know that make the right choice. First month of training was a success for me, i gained 1.5kgs of pure muscle, when my bf down from 16.4% to 14.5%, my mood is better, i can do 1 pull up now

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    When I was a chubby young teen that didn't took care of himself, I was walking home and saw two older girls walking towards me from afar, after they passed me one whispered to the other "A shame, he looked good from afar". Since then I've become fit, dated women, and received compliments, but this first comment on my apperance still stuck with me, not because it was insulting, but because I took it as a lamentation on my wasted apperance, in an oddly comforting way it was the first time I realized that maybe I could look good.

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Opposite, I realized I was handsome when I secured a qt 3.14 tradwife while I was in high school. Getting ready to start having kids and buy a house over the next year or two.

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Relentless bullying through my school life, and absolute isolation through my college life. Somehow, post college I made a few buddies where we hang out and play vidya, but I'm still a virgin at 25. I'm happier now than I ever was, paying my own bills and having a job made me not care about others opinions, and I look more intimidating, so no one fucks with me now. I still want a girlfriend, and maybe, if I manage to find a good girl, marry and have a family, but that's highly unlikely and I'm kind of ok with that.

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    When I developed trichotillomania at age 12 and became an angry fat manlet with no eyebrows.

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