>lift everyday
>not shredded but pretty muscular
>still feel like shit and struggle talking to people
Why am I this autistic
Why am I still an insecure pussy
>lift everyday
>not shredded but pretty muscular
>still feel like shit and struggle talking to people
Why am I this autistic
Probably lack of pussy and too many video games but fit isn’t ready to hear the harsh reality
Quit videogames 2 years ago (lost interest cause of covid)
Yea I’m autistic so talking to women is a struggle
Also live in shithole city that’s winter half of the year so hard to go out aside from clubs
>living in a city
This is your problem.
How tall are you?
5’9 manlet
Yea man so many treeshes it’s insane
Same here bro. I even have several women hit on me but I lust for a specific type. Even if I had one of those at my gym I‘m too autistic. 27y old KHV who always had attention from women but too mentally destroyed. Guess what happens when you grow up in an alcoholic household.
I always wonder how could I even have sex, or even simple things like making out. Probably even too autistic for that.
It takes practice cause I’ve had a couple girlfriends throughout my life
But I fucked w this one treesh not too long ago and she shot my confidence w bitches but fuck it we ball
>Treesh
Is this black or british slang
ny slang
He means Tzeentch
Nurgle fleshlight when
go get a customer facing job and make a point to strike up conversations with them. every interaction counts as 1 rep even small shit like "how's your day been so far?". its a numbers game and a comfort game. you probably felt awkward and uncomfortable on your first compound lift attempts, right? recognize its the same mechanism at work - discomfort from trying things out is the soil of your growth
You learned how to be a pussy due to your upbringing. You probably had parents and teachers that failed you.
It looks like you have built a decent physique, probably through a consistent routine. Build your social skills the same way.
Monday: Strike up a conversation with 5 strangers.
Tuesday: Flirt with 2 women
etc
This. Acquiring a good physique obviously won't also teach you calculus, write poetry, etc. But it will teach you discipline that you should definitely apply to other areas of life. So you add that to developing social skills (or whatever skill) and keep moving
I'm 6'2 and still feel the same too. So I wouldn't contribute it all to height.
I don't know, man. Maybe this is just how we are. I'm not even searching for friends/girlfriends anymore. I gave up on all of that after turning 24
Same but i'm not muscular and I don't lift
dude, women are just as autistic as we are. why are you even afraid of normies, by being on IST you probably are above average in inteligence. if you go thru an embarassing moment, just shake it off and play it like it was funny, because those things actually are funny. you are more fit than 90% of this board and 99.99999% of normies, start acting like it
you know most fatfucks, deformed humans don't leave their house? By going out in the wild you are by default saying you are better than everyone else. This means if you go out you are competing with the best of the best. therefore the top 20%. You don't go out and see whales with blue hair rolling around like sonic nor do you see trannies lol
>You don't go out and see whales with blue hair rolling around like sonic nor do you see trannies
just give it time
struggling to become a PUA here i feel your pain OP
i met a few girls and dated/fucked from dating apps but trying to talk to random girls IRL makes my brain freeze
i will keep trying and so should you
living in the city has the benefit of having many young girls to test things on, use it to your advantage
WAGMI
Because your belief was wrong from the start. You believed (like most here) after going to the gym you will gain super confidence and get pussy on tap.
It's a literal incel looks maxxer tier mindset.
Like only shredded guys can talk to people, and non-gym people should go around with their head facing the floor? Lmfao. Incel.
Gym and a good body is just a starting point to being the best you can. The primary focus should be health. But then after that you still have to work on social skills.
Only 6'4" Chad Thundercock does not need to do that, but then, nor does he need to be shredded or set foot in a gym.
Change your mindset. You're working no your body, now work on your mind.
Just like you do not change overnight from small to big in a gym, social skills need the same work. It means striking up basic convos with strangers, just a minute or two, when you're comfy and can do small talk, it leads to longer convos and actually talking to women you like and getting numbers.
It semi worked for me though. But, I didn't just go to the gym I took classes so that I'd be forced to interact and befriend others while working out.
Sure it will give you a good boost, a confidence base. But OP expected to work out, and then have some magical ability to talk to anyone, be a super confident alpha, and I assume, have women fall to their feet at his every word.
That's why some guys that chase that, work on the wrong areas. "Oh I still don't feel amazing, maybe just an extra 7lbs or an extra 10lbs on my lifts..."
And i goes on forever.
Work on yourself, body and mind, get hobbies, enjoy life. The consequences of that are often you then can talk to people and attract them.
The same as those that chase fame and never achieve it, versus those that have some talent and fame comes as a consequence to that.
Because you've accomplished nothing. Bodybuilders are the biggest and most useless gays in the planet. Existing in a state of more muscle mass doesn't make you better than anybody no matter how hard you pose like a gay in the gym.
Your body looks good, my man. I imagine it took time to get to this point. It's the same thing with mentality. It takes time to build confidence. It's hard but you get better at it every time, just like lifting. Don't give up, anon.
talking to women who like you already = press A to win
talking to women who don't like you or don't trust you = picrel
Why wouldn't you be? Do you think hypertrophy training also builds your self esteem? Deal with that shit directly NOW and you'll be happy you did. Don't waste another week.
when they invent artificial wombs you fill finally relax, when you realize you dont need woman to have a child.
but maybe you are such a sperg you will still be chasing women and simping.
you suck at socializing like me, I lost alot of weight, got in shape, feel confident about the way I look now and get chicks checking me out or trying to start conversations with me but still can't hold a conversation and avoid it, only solution is to practice, study, and learn how to do it like it's a game.
Trauma
Go see an emdr therapist
Just be autistic and force others to deal with it.
It's super funny.
Then you have to get bigger
The bigger your mental illness the bigger your body needs to be
I recommend training legs, sprinting and upper body compunds. Everything as heavy as possible of course