I tell myself it's for myself, muh health and stuff, but really it's about getting women.
Thing is the moment I start dating someone my brain goes on fire and start convincing myself that she's not good for me, start seeing flaws in her appearance, personality, start thinking she's a prostitute, then cut all contact and never see her again.
Most of the time I give zero fricks about being in a relationship, only want occasional sex.
I hate being around people.
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Because its fun!
don't fricking lie, you don't lift
it's only fun when you finish, the sense of accomplishment
You don't like imagining your body breaking apart internally only to heal up stronger afterwards? Its all a matter of perspective
>It's fun! 😀
>LIAR! >:(
The absolute state.
sports are fun, because they are games. Lifting is repetitive shit, unless you make it part of a game.
You've to be a boring moron to find lifting fun on its own.
Me too. Something cathartic about picking up heavy things and it getting easier over time.
Mama didn't raise a liar.
yeah i started lifting for women but it’s been 3 years and still a virgin so i convinced myself its for health reasons.
based and truthpilled
>Something cathartic about picking up heavy things and it getting easier over time
It's called "sense of accomplishment". It's why people live, they wanna feel like they're moving somewhere, most people derive their sense of accomplishment from the speed at which they "make money"
Yeah, fair. I also wanna be swole as frick when I get married soon, so been working out obsessively for that.
Good luck my dude, I can't imagine frickin getting married and stuck with a hole all my life tbh
you describing the process of gym progress is supposed to change my perspective?
being fat and weak is disgusting
Lifting out of spite for fatfricks is pretty based, ngl
too see my body age gracefully ect
>I hate being around people
Stopped reading there
>I stopped reading at the end of the post
Yeah?
I don't really know anymore, I've lost my motivation for quite some time. I guess it was somewhere along the lines of looking decent and getting women or so. Ever since I've been doing it on sheer discipline alone and because it is the only thing in my life that gives me a semblance of purpose and happiness.
>it is the only thing in my life that gives me a semblance of purpose and happiness
can relate, I feel like lifting is the only thing that's keeping me from diving head first into depression
Because i'm fatphobic and generally scared of seeing myself as a fat frick, also i like slim women and by not being a fat frick helps with getting them
"""high""" t fat frick architects need not apply
girls with daddy issues like fat fricks
They are also mental, i'm all for a good frick but i dont want the additional stuff to deal with
I am lifting to brrrak u weak punk b***hrs easy I also lift end you 45s slam on your head you got beef I end beef
Ok
Lets be real, leanmaxxing and leaning into the pretty boy look is the most likely to get girls.
Bulking up to bench 3 plates is not gonna help you.
Lift for yurself bro
My experience is most women (specially young) get first attracted by good face, then, between her choices, she goes for the one who projects most strength (or the illusion of strength, self confidence).
Probably an ancient mechanism to determine the best chance for her to survive.
Personally, I wouldn't date a b***h who tries to manipulate constantly and doesn't even listen to your dreams or ideas. It's a sure way into depression and alcohol abuse.
My back is all fricked up because I’m old and have scoliosis so I’m trying to lose weight and strengthen my legs, back, butt and abs enough that I can hopefully do cardio without pain someday. I also don’t care about getting huge muscles at all I just don’t want to look as much like shit as I get older, maybe fix my posture and get more shredded.
>cardio hurts
even cycling?
Yep. Elliptical, cycling, stair master, rowing, jump rope, etc, and I’m not being a little b***h the pain just gets worse the more I do I can’t power through it over weeks it just gets worse but weirdly weight training produces no pain as long I use good form and keep the weight light. So I’m stuck weight training even though I don’t give a shot about getting big muscles, I just want to get enough to be able to maybe use the stair master regularly.
what about high rep low weight? That's also cardio
Basically that’s what I’ve been doing and so far so good as long as I use perfect form, I do mostly squats and deadlifts. I’m hoping to someday get strong enough that I can overcome this bullshit. Also going on an extreme diet. It’s definitely not a vanity thing for me. I’m just trying to hold it all together. I guess this kind of crap happens to a lot of older people. I’m ok, I’m just glad I can do something without pain.
>Also going on an extreme diet.
what diet?
Do yoga. That's cardio
Lol, he can't even do steady state cardio without hurting and you want him to do yoga? are you nuts?
Explain how steady state cardio is unacceptable due to pain, meanwhile weight training is pain free but yoga is worse than both together. Actually kys
I’ve actually done yoga and it’s not as bad as cardio but I still feel pain usually. I have absolutely no idea why but weight training doesn’t cause me pain, it’s the weirdest shit. I hate this stupid back problem it’s insanely annoying. I have scoliosis. Sucks balls.
How fat?
Think about it for a second, brainlet. He has to move his body way more, which makes it more likely to hit certain positions that are painful
for the pump
it’s outrageous
it literally is a boner for your entire body
I never thought of it that way and now I hate it. Frick you.
frick roiders
I tried lifting a couple of times on a gym, and I always quitted. but after tying out one more time in my house, I liked it. I like going to failure and seeing my body getting a juicy pump. I like the fact that it gets me closer and closer to be a safavid warrior each single day.
It helps me tap into my carnal masculinity. Something about a heavy squat or a heavy deadlift, grunting to finish that last rep feels like I'm conquering something. Asserting dominance over iron and steel.
I'd be lying if I said its not for women, but its also to have better quality options in all aspects of my life. Women, social life, career, whatever that looks like. Youre almost invisible if youre fat or underweight
It's good that you're honest, but I can't help but hate aesthetics obsessed people with all my heart and would rather live in perpetual poverty than cattering to their tastes.
In what sense? I don't think most people are aesthetics obsessed. Its a natural reaction to dislike ugly people. Kinda sucks but whatever
Because i jerk off to myself in mirror
Because your body is a direct reflection of your identity.
If someone is fat or, to a lesser degree, skinny then I don't care about any of their opinions, because they clearly don't even care about themselves.
I only consider opinions from people who are physically fit.