Wife says everyone is big except for me

My wife who is overweight and drinks all day and has a terrible diet etc and refuses to ever exercise is always pointing out random big black dudes and guys with fatceps and saying "he's big isn't he fucking hell" "see he looks big and muscular", she always says black guys and white guys who look like wrestlers or strongmen are big but she has never said i look big.

I am constantly getting called big by other women even her friends yet my wife has never once said "wow you're looking muscular now".

This affects my confidence. How to force her to notice my progress? Left is what i look like bulked, right after cut.

  1. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Divofce

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      I can’t leave her. She’ll take everything in the divorce.

      She hates you divorce her

      We have 2 kids it's the reason i don't divorce. Don't want to leave my kids with her because she let herself go after the second one and drinks all day and neglects them.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        Bring it up to her it's the best way to go. Tell her you to feel like she's pointing out other guys while ignoring your progress to make you insecure/jealous. She will probably deny it and say you're being too sensitive. If she has developed issues recently ask her what's bothering her, and why has her life declined. She sounds depressed to me.

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          >Bring it up to her it's the best way to go. Tell her you to feel like she's pointing out other guys while ignoring your progress to make you insecure/jealous.
          Worst advice ever you'll just look like a gay and she will lose more respect for you
          It's over OP, you say you have kids but this woman also sounds like she will drive you to suicide. Maybe Islamic style beatings when the kids aren't around? Idk but something needs to happen

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        forget about your family and start with other woman, forget about your children who got her subhuman genes

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          This, those children will inevitably become fatties, divorce her and try and corner a cardio bunny when she's alone and convince her to do sexing with you

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          those children are wasted. You're best off leaving the fat sow and finding a submissive, traditional girlfriend of your race (or an equivalent race) and breeding her.

          It's over.

          https://i.imgur.com/rydbn2Q.png

          >I don't divorce because of my kids!
          The kids:

          Leaving kids to be raised by a shitty single mom is how IST users get made
          Yet another way that incels and homosexuals are the same: they can't reproduce, they can only infect others

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            No it fucking isn't, my parents divorced but my father maintained a presence in my life. I could visit and call him whenever I wanted etc

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        those children are wasted. You're best off leaving the fat sow and finding a submissive, traditional girlfriend of your race (or an equivalent race) and breeding her.

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          >(or an equivalent race)
          there is no equivalent race.

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            >there is no equivalent race.
            There is if you not white.

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            asian women are equivalent to whites
            asian men are equivalent to arabs, latino etc.
            abbos are equivalent to morons

            • 1 week ago
              Anonymous

              asians are not equivalent to whites. japs maybe, but most japs probably don't like that comparison. all the rest can fuck off back home.

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          You're unironically a subhuman incel

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            >wanting what every man has had up until 50 years ago is wrong, for some reason

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        if it's a really shitty parent relationship, it's not necessarily good for the kids either

        and btw, she almost cetainly doesn't mean the shit she says, she is just being toxic to you for different reasons

        assuming anything you told us is fucking true...

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        It's over.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        >I don't divorce because of my kids!
        The kids:

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        If you really gave a shit about your kids you'd whip your wife into shape

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          Way too bigbrain for this board.
          You need to be on /adv/, 4chan or IST

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        You're a fucking beta male. Leave that bitch man you don't want your kids to mirror your beta behavior

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        Get a decent lawyer and you'll get custody if you can prove in court she's an alcoholic, assuming you're clean.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        >she let herself go after the second one and drinks all day and neglects them.
        And you did nothing to correct this behavior of hers, and you showed your kids not how to stand up for themselves against shitty people, but how to quietly take the abuse. Damn anon, this level of weakness is disappointing, your kids have shitty parents.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        >drinks all day and neglects them
        Start collecting evidence including recorded testimony from the kids. She is selfish, and will destroy them if she can't bring you down. Do your kids a favour and get them away from her. If you don't put a stop to this by leaving with the kids they will hate you when they grow up, of they haven't already drowned themselves in drink and/or drugs to cope.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      She has noticed and is afraid so she wants you to feel just as worthless as she is so you don’t leave her for another prettier woman.

      /thread

      Totally this. Unfortunately your wife is a living breathing demotivational entity who is insecure of herself and your health strength and muscular physique. She knows your fit and desirable to other women, and is projecting her insecurities on you. IGNORE AND SCREEN OUT HER PSYCHOLOGICAL MANIPULATION. This is femoid control tactics on steroids. SHE IS THE UNHEALTHY PROBLEM ON EVERY LEVEL. TUNE HER NEGATIVITY OUT. MISERY LOVES COMPANY AND SHE WANTS TO CONTROL YOU. Try to help her. Hopefully your marriage is otherwise fine as well as your children. YOU'RE NOT THE PROBLEM!

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      unironically this. you'll still see your kids, you might even get majority custody. why waste your life being miserable with some waster cow

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      covfefe

  2. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    She has noticed and is afraid so she wants you to feel just as worthless as she is so you don’t leave her for another prettier woman.

    /thread

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      I can’t leave her. She’ll take everything in the divorce.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        It seems she doesn't want you to leave her so maybe you can push your luck and get her to lose weight?

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        Murder suicide is always an option

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        Start building up evidence that she is a negligent alcoholic
        Literally document everything she does, through security cams, message's, social media & keep tabs

        You'll soon have enough factual & damnable proof that she deserves nothing from a divorce and will be a danger to your children

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        >She’ll take everything in the divorce.
        You are retarded and deserve her leaving you without anything.
        I will never understand why people don't get prenups, marriage is a coin toss only a legitimate retard would leave things to luck, and only a subhuman would leave things to a woman.

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          >I will never understand why people don't get prenups, marriage is a coin toss only a legitimate retard would leave things to luck, and only a subhuman would leave things to a woman.
          If you walk into a marriage needing a pre-nup you already lost. Just like all the anons in this thread who are telling OP to get a divorce already lost.
          Your lives would be a lot easier if you would learn to control the women in your life, for a bunch of soggy knees who think women are inferior beings you sure let them outsmart you and they aren't even aware they're doing it.
          The fate of Western civilization is in your hands and you're letting it slip away.

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            >for a bunch of soggy knees who think women are inferior beings you sure let them outsmart you and they aren't even aware they're doing it.
            some people just wanna go home and not play 4d chess with thier so's or humiliate them/control them. They just wanna co-exist in harmony but for most women thats not enough. They are deeply insecure and inferior and they know it so controlling or humiliating a man is what gives them feeling of power/control and adrenaline.

            You are either a sociopath moron or some midwit trying to act smart. There is no honor 'outsmarting' and backstabbing someone you say you love and sleep in bed with.
            I got rekt by women and I will never trust or respect a smelly cunt hoe ever again.

            If you have wealth and go into a marriage without prenup you are an idiot. If she has wealth and you dont then marry her ass.
            People often do a 180degree turn and become a different person almost overnight. Sometimes it happens after living together 5 years. Also giving birth is a giant stress on body and sometimes it gived literal brain damage to women and they become a different person. You cant prepare for that... Prenup when she is a poor cunt. Normal marriage when she is rich due to her parents because I know not a single self made woman out there...

            • 1 week ago
              Anonymous

              >I got rekt by women and I will never trust or respect a smelly cunt hoe ever again.
              The only part of your post that actually says anything. Why would you not learn from this experience? You idiots go to the gym the first time, pull a muscle because you don't know form, and say, well shit I'm not doing that again, that's a loser's game.
              Here's the thing if you learn to improve yourself and you learn how to interact with women you don't have to think about it. It's not 4D chess it's evolution. The thousands of generations of men who produced you didn't have to think about it, they just did it. The cavemen running around with their cavemen brides did it and they had monkey brains with no high-level understanding of anything. Women shit-test you because of evolution and you overcome those because of evolution.
              But the truth is you and the other losers in this thread don't want to learn. You're afraid and your single moms raised you to think like women so it's easier to make excuses and pretend your generation is the absolute first ever who had these issues with women. The truth is it's easier for you in the short term to do nothing and blame everyone else, especially women, for your shortcomings. In the end though you can't beat natural selection and your millennia-long bloodline dies out. Evolution wins again.

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                moron you are one self pretentious stupid cunt. I know legit halfwit dudes being very good with women because for them its a game that they enjoy - They love the control they have over people and they never resting, never happy only when they an mess with other people.

                Most dudes are not like that. Most dudes are lazy and just wanna go home and relax and not give a fuck about anything.

                You are one insufferable idiot cunt.

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                >Most dudes are not like that. Most dudes are lazy
                He says on IST of all boards. I think you might be lost my friend.

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                >He says on IST of all boards.
                What the fuck does that even mean? You really assume most posters are fit here or working out? 80% of this board is dyel, skinny, skinnyfat or morbidly obese giving up thier new found motivation after 3 months.

                Lazy doesnt just mean fat couchpotato. Most smart people are lazy but that doesnt mean they dont have hobbies, exercise regularly or not productive.
                Im def too lazy to constantly control a needy, deranged, hormones controlled person that is stuck at the intellect level of a 17year old.

                You sound like a 18 year old plebbitor fucktard.

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                >Im def too lazy to constantly control a needy, deranged, hormones controlled person that is stuck at the intellect level of a 17year old.
                Like I said, evolution wins again.

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                >He says on IST of all boards. I think you might be lost my friend.
                >t. does SS because everything else is "too much volume"

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                Fuck outta dumb simp, women shouldn't play these dumb games in the first place, don't let them off the hook u pussy whipped gay. If a girl tries to start drama, you tell her to stfu. Women need men, men don't need women

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                >Women need men, men don't need women
                sounds pretty gay to me anon

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            going into a marriage without a prenup is like driving without a seatbelt because you're a good driver. things outside of your control can happen that causes things to fail.

            • 1 week ago
              Anonymous

              If anything that is truly outside your control causes your marriage to fail then you aren't ready to get married in the first place.

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            >bro you’re just not macho and alpha enough to get women to do whatever you say
            Enjoy your eventual cucking, retard. Men infinitely better than you in every way have been divorced and fucked by the legal system.

            • 1 week ago
              Anonymous

              Better ≠ alpha ≠ macho
              >Men infinitely better than you in every way have been divorced and fucked by the legal system.
              Men infinitely worse than us in every way have happy marriages with women who couldn't imagine life without them.
              Stop doomposting to cover up your cowardice and start figuring out what you need to do to accomplish the task at hand.

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                >all these words to say nothing
                Sure, retard. Enjoy your eventual divorce if you’re not just larping. At least the other brainlets are pushing for prenups. If they’re lucky, that might even save them a few dollars.

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                Good, this civilization is worthless and produces worthless retards like you that think they can overpower the judicial system. All the legal power in a marriage is in the hands of the woman. It doesn't matter what you do, it's all play pretend, you are not in control, she lets you be in control. On a whim she can decide to divorce or report you to the police for something you did in the confidence of privacy and your life will be over. Men with guns will come and take away everything you have because a woman said so. Fuck this civilization, it is no longer viable.

                gee i wonder who could be behind these posts

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                Very very true

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah the fault is always on the man eh? You fucking western white pussy whipped gays, what a garbage mentality for a "man" to have, Jesus christ, literally white males think like this

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            Good, this civilization is worthless and produces worthless retards like you that think they can overpower the judicial system. All the legal power in a marriage is in the hands of the woman. It doesn't matter what you do, it's all play pretend, you are not in control, she lets you be in control. On a whim she can decide to divorce or report you to the police for something you did in the confidence of privacy and your life will be over. Men with guns will come and take away everything you have because a woman said so. Fuck this civilization, it is no longer viable.

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          >thinking a prenup means anything
          they just have to say you raped them and boom the prenup is meaningless. no they dont have to have proof either.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        Speak to a lawyer fist.

        Hell you can always rebuild assets but you can't have your prime back.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        moron, you shouldn't have married her in the first place. Your choices now are:

        - Make her cheat on you and rip her off in court
        - lose half your shit
        - murder her in minecraft

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        Then just kill her. As long as you plan it you'll get away.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        Pay some dude to fuck her and then "catch" them in the act. This way she will take nothing. I know a guy who did that.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        kill her and then have a nice day

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        Gather evidence that she is a disgusting drunk fat whore and take her fat drunk ugly ass to court when she tries to take everything and your children.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        then shes just cucking you bro

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        She already owns you. Sad. Grow up.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        Just leave bro. You can rebuild. Currently rebuilding myself and it was way worth it. You’ll never get your prime years back and if it’s this bad now it’s going to happen sooner or later. Might as well be now.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        >She’ll take everything in the divorce.
        So sell your shit for Monero and then hold onto the monero at least until the divorce is final and assets are split by the court. If you keep your mouth shut, nobody will know you have Monero. At least sell your shit for cash, buy bitcoin with it, and trade the bitcoin for monero at an exchange.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      this OP typical manipulative behaviour.

      Divorce her or start pointing out women that are in good shape and say damn look at her shape she definitely trains for a body like that.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        >start pointing out women that are in good shape and say damn look at her shape she definitely trains for a body like that.
        OP do this. she'll make a fuss about it but she'll eventually self reflect.

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah I think that with a combination of

          Bring it up to her it's the best way to go. Tell her you to feel like she's pointing out other guys while ignoring your progress to make you insecure/jealous. She will probably deny it and say you're being too sensitive. If she has developed issues recently ask her what's bothering her, and why has her life declined. She sounds depressed to me.

          would work best. It's what I would probably do.

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          Expecting a woman to self reflect? Have you ever spoken to a woman anon?

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        >start pointing out women that are in good shape and say damn look at her shape she definitely trains for a body like that
        BASED BASED BASED

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Exactly this. And add long as she gets through to you (which she does), she's going to remain fat.

      You (and her) need to realize that you could have much better women than her. Only then will she change.

      My wife keeps telling me I'm getting "too thin" now that I'm cutting and my abs start showing. All of her friends and every woman who sees me topless lust after me, I know what she's trying to do.
      Oddly enough, when I laugh at her for her remarks and tell her how other women don't tend to think that way, she goes for a run the same day.
      Women, bros. Never believe a word they say. You know what's right.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah that's what she does too when i cut down she says "you need to eat you're getting skinny man" that's literally exactly what she says too while cutting.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        btw OP Im in the same boat. Two kids, don't want a divorce. Although I have to admit that my wife seems to be putting more effort into herself and me. Still, that didn't mean she can't turn herself around when being handled correctly.

        Read "The Way Of The Superior Man". It's often looked down upon a bit for being a cornerstone of redpill literature, but it's honestly full of important truths. It certainly opened my eyes and improved my marriage tenfold.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah the manipulative alcoholic certainly won't use all that as ammunition to divorce anon & take his children/home/assets

        Are you retarded bro?

        Women are fucking selfishly cunning and by doing what you suggested, you may as well hand her the keys to everything

        reddit spacing, have a nice day

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          Reddit spacing?

          It's a line break you fucking retard

          Go fuck your mother you double moron

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            phone posting peasanty subhumans dont understand whats its like at 1440p or 4k reading your shit in a small tab

            still crying about reddit spacing in 2022 is a morony moron thing to do. Last time I got range banned from that trash site it was 2017.

            • 1 week ago
              Anonymous

              Zoom in you reddit cocksucking shit muncher

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      This is correct. Unconscious or not, she is putting you down so you don't leave. Confront her about your expectations; you appreciate her not pointing out other men all the time, and you expect her to take care of herself and pull her weight around the house.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Absolutely this.
      Shes basically negging you and keeping your self-esteem low so you don't leave.

      BE CAREFUL THOUGH ANON!
      Women who feel threatened by this can and most likely will facilitate their own downfall if they feel like you're out of their league by cheating on you with someone worse.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      My wife does this aswell im about ti divorce her myself

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      >/threading your own post
      This is moron activity

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      True but you can't / thread your own post

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      This. Take it slow, prepare everything, make it so you will lose minimal in a divorce. Sell everything you possess, all your savings, and hide them somewhere where she will never be able to figure out.

      Why would you stay with a person like that is beyond me? And you say she even drinks? Fuck that!

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah. I think this is the case. It's also that she's feeling worthless, and not because you're a dick, but because she knows her fat ass goo body looks like trash. It might be time to have a heart to heart with her about this.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Even the smartest woman will do this shit. It's true. They have no control over their own manipulative tendencies.
      I don't think that's evil, but you as a man MUST dominate them and their emotional bullshit. You must be calm, collected, unmovable. They'll shit their pants, but if you let them, they'll shit yours too.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      He speaks the truth, OP. She doesn’t want you ti peave her for a better looking woman. You should start pointing out other more attractive bitches and see how she likes it. Either she starts taking strides to look better or she’ll screech at you. Either way it will be awesome.

      Honestly just leave her. You’re better off without her

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Women hands for once typed the truth

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Insist she change her ways or hit the road.

      /thread

  3. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Your body is great idk bro that marriage is over sorry

  4. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    your wife is a fat cunt psyopping you 24/7 because she's a bloated and lazy pig who doesn't deserve a single cock in her life ever again

  5. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    I can be your new wife

  6. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Okay OP. First of all, nice body, great gains, very fit. She has noticed but doesnt want to admit it like the other anon said. Plan is simple, whenever you are with your wife start flirting with females of equal fit as you and your wife WILL change or leave. If she leaves find a new fit gf.

    Note: this will most likely trigger a serious eating disorder and constant bitching and nagging.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Sounds like shes already bitching and nagging so an eating disorder might make her loose the energy needed to bitch and nag, this is a net positive.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      I agree with this anon.

      Aggressively flirt with females right in front of your wife. Make some female friends from the gym and talk about them around her. Don't make it obvious that you're doing it to make her jealous, just casually mention it.

      I do this shit to my girlfriend on purpose, because I love it when she gets pouty and jealous, and it's just a waterworks down there when I shift my attention to her and let her know she's my baby.

  7. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    She hates you divorce her

  8. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    your wife needs corrective rape therapy. my services are available, dm for details

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      You really want to rape a ham planet?

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        i will put my dick in anything with a pulse

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        he will do it so you don't have to

  9. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Convert to islam beat with phonebook so no marks are left 80s cop style
    First you have to find a phonebook
    I suggest a time machine
    Then use the time machine to go back and never get married after a good yellowpages walloping

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      >Bring it up to her it's the best way to go. Tell her you to feel like she's pointing out other guys while ignoring your progress to make you insecure/jealous.
      Worst advice ever you'll just look like a gay and she will lose more respect for you
      It's over OP, you say you have kids but this woman also sounds like she will drive you to suicide. Maybe Islamic style beatings when the kids aren't around? Idk but something needs to happen

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      >Convert to islam beat with phonebook so no marks are left 80s cop style
      >First you have to find a phonebook
      >I suggest a time machine
      >Then use the time machine to go back and never get married after a good yellowpages walloping

  10. 1 week ago
    Anonymous
    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      stigma

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        stigma balls

  11. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    fuck all of her friends

  12. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    oh shit moron, why are you with her

  13. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Holy shit dude just divorce her
    She sounded like an actual fucking child

  14. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    y is she ur wife, anon?

  15. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Watch porn with hot 18 year old chicks with perfect bodies in front of her when she starts talking and start pulling on your dick
    Piss all over the toilet seat
    Take yuge dumps and never flush
    Break her stuff
    Change the locks when she’s gone
    Hide her car keys before work
    Throw out all her food and put a pad lock on the fridge
    Pick your nose and put it in her hair
    Come on man! Think!

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Do all this OP, drive her to suicide and you won't have to worry anymore

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        I was kidding don’t do that

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah the manipulative alcoholic certainly won't use all that as ammunition to divorce anon & take his children/home/assets

      Are you retarded bro?

      Women are fucking selfishly cunning and by doing what you suggested, you may as well hand her the keys to everything

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        also taking a shitpost seriously, kys twice

  16. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    get rid of her she sounds like a retarded cunt, no point keeping somebody like that around

  17. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    OP really asked this shithole for relationship advice KEK

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      You'd be surprised at how many guys here go through the exact same stuff as OP does.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        People are retarded now
        None of this shit would fly in the 50s and we both know it

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          People in the 50s didn't have these problems in the first place.

          Most guys with this sort of problem are 100% Nice Guys© but don't know it. And that's a relatively young phenomenon. You can cure yourself from it, but you have to realize this first and then put in the work.

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            >Nice Guys
            synonym for spineless

            • 1 week ago
              Anonymous

              That's one aspect. Afraid to stand up to their wives (which in turn they hate).

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          Who gives a shit about the 50s? You're living now, not then, retarded incel gay.

  18. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    On a serious note this isn’t a true story and OP is jester posting but it so tell your wife you love her so much that you’ll lock her in the basement until she’s not fat anymore wait wait wait I mean tell her you know she’s saying this because she’s scared you’ll leave and that you want her to be healthy because you love her and that means losing weight because being overweight will cause her health problems and you can’t stand her killing herself slowly with her food addiction and ask her why she’s so sad that she needs to eat to excess

  19. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Simple. Just do the same thing in reverse. When you see a thin or attractive woman, just stare at her blatantly in front of your wife. There's no need to voice any comments because your wife will know that her comments are getting to you and that you are just trying to get revenge. Just stare. Your wife will be deeply affected by you giving your attention to other prettier woman. It might even motivate her to lose some weight.

    Additionally, you can start hanging out with an attractive/thin female acquaintance more often. This will drive your wife crazy.

    Also, you should start documenting her neglect and alcoholism so you can hopefully get better chances in family court if divorce does happen.

  20. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Leave her you retard

  21. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    not gonna finish reading your blog gay i stopped after i realized youre hopeless

  22. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    With my wife it was easy, at first she would say things like you can't lose any more wieght you'll be skinny blah blah the norm, at the time 25%bf but eventually at around 20% she started to really notice and made a effort, if you out right try to train them they take it as preaching and really don't like it, the best way to do it is in increments, I started with letting her eat my prep meals, I sold them to her on efficiency, she does 12 hour shifts, i said look just pop the lid of 3 minutes in the micro wave and you have Hispanicey mince and rice no cooking or dishes, so through her laziness she started to eat a prep meals 450-500 cals which drastically dropped her overall daily calories, which kick started the wieght loss into overdrive, then I pointed it out what had happend and she was happy about it, I said imagine if you did that with all your meals?
    Now she eats 2 prep meals and has dropped 1.5 stone, this week end I'm going to buy a ez bar "so I can train arms every other night" really it's for her so she can add wieght to her squats, women are cunning anon, you need to out smart her, but you are not alone here it's VERY common.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      >appealing to womens' laziness
      Pretty good, works very well in my experience.

  23. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    >wife
    lmaooo you really saved that bitch after she sucked and fucked dozens of guys? couldn't be me

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      >bj from that fucking toad
      damn no wonder the dude is dead inside. women are the devil.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      If my Mrs put a chart up like that I'd fucking burn it on top of a pile of her shit then make her clean up the mess

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        To be fair I'd do pretty much anything to not get nagged for a whole week

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          dude just do what I do, ignore her or better laugh at her nagging.
          it's basically free entertainment, she will eventually wear herself off
          don't tell me you take women seriously anon?

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          Broham

          You need to tell her to watch her tone, of she flips out then you tell her she's acting like a child. Then you ignore her.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      >the man's dead eyes
      >the woman's psychotic sanpaku eyes
      how much more tiresome can it get?

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        He 100% deserves the state of his marriage, he allowed it to happen.

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          I'm not saying he doesn't deserve it, his life is a prison of his own making, it's just fucking sad that this broad is the one he chose to give the keys to.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous
    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      I know I'm supposed to pity that guy, but the top two look like pretty good deals

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Honestly this bitches system it pretty easy to exploit.
      >put toilet seat down
      I already do this habitually so that would be no nagging ever.
      >12 pack of beer
      I don't understand this one, just go and buy your second favourite beer with your own money, surely that's concession enough to where if she did complain it would constitute nagging which is against the rules.
      >change 6 dipers for a naked dance
      Who would want this, bad value.
      >clean throw up
      Babies vomit like twice after every meal and it's not disgusting, cleaning it is fine and this would easily result in a BJ every second day.

      Also if my wife made this chart and brought it to me I would roundhouse kick her in the back.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Very strange how you can tell just by someone's eyes that they're a psycho.

  24. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    >My wife who is overweight and drinks all day and has a terrible diet etc and refuses to ever exercise is always pointing out random big black dudes and guys with fatceps
    >This affects my confidence. How to force her to notice my progress? Left is what i look like bulked, right after cut.
    I hope this is larp.
    If not its over my friend. I had a gf like that. She called me frog whenever I got big while she looked like a fat saggy hag and smelled like yeast infection. Nagging wives are as old story as human existence.

    Women age worse. They get ugly fast. When they have low confidence they cling onto you by destroying yours.
    Divorce ASAP.

  25. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    My wife made a joke about getting a boyfriend once but then I berated her until she cried
    Like most women, her threshold for crying isnt that high. Gotta see tears or her ears arent working.
    Shes never said anything like that since

  26. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    >being married in 2022
    your biggest mistake

  27. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Getting married scares the shit out of me because women are fucking crazy.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Men need to have higher standards
      Marriage is a wonderful experience if you dont pick the first girl who will touch your cock

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        >Marriage is a wonderful experience if you dont pick the first girl who will touch your cock
        cope. love is for the young and stupid. most people suck, especially most women. finding a good girl and having a good, happy marriage is less than 10%

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          >10%
          thats 1 in 10 women, so his advice is sound dont marry the first girl. but somehow idiots think marriage is the winning condition and want to get there with the first cunt you meet to scream "i made it i won" but you lost hard

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            >>10%
            >thats 1 in 10 women
            Fucking hell you're good at math, how did you work that out?

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            oh wow my dude, so you think those price winning girls are not taken soon?? other more experienced, richer dudes find them and lay on them. you can go fishing you might get lucky but the numbers are not in your favour. You think if you get together with 10 girls 1 will be like that? NO. Most of the single girls are single for a reason. Some are very good at manipulation or presenting a different character for a while, you might realize it way too late.

            As I said, its a game of luck.

            • 1 week ago
              Anonymous

              >it's just luck bro don't try to improve you're doomed
              thanks for your input schlomo

  28. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    reddit tier fake story

  29. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    A girl I was dating started doing this and I picked her chubby ass up and fucked her standing up the next time we went out and she stopped.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      this comment made me realise maybe OPs wife is being bratty or something/ tryna get op to "prove" hes big too etc by dicking her down into submission or smth idk

  30. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    divorce that whale, retard

  31. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Get a girlfriend. Your wife can just be your children's mother

  32. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    kill her

  33. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    >is always pointing out random big black dudes and guys with fatceps and saying "he's big isn't he fucking hell"

    tbh if that was my girlfriend I'd instantly leave her for saying this.

  34. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    >always pointing out random big black dudes
    you should do the joe pesci thing in goodfellas

  35. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Women, especially gfs and wives, will ALWAYS put you down, it doesn't matetr how big you are, how cut your abs are, how long your dick is, how high your IQ is, how much money you make, how tall you are. None of it matters. She will try to pick a fight with you anyway, every day.

    That is how women are all over the world, hence, every culture has the same jokes about them, from stone age tribes in Africa to high tech cyberpunks in Japan.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Just redirect the passive aggressive manipulative comments or behavior back to her in similar fashion. She'll know that you're not a fool and understands her cunning.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        >Just redirect the passive aggressive manipulative comments or behavior back to her in similar fashion. She'll know that you're not a fool and understands her cunning.
        Are Americans really this femme? Crazy.

        No, I won't act like a woman, in fact, I find it pretty impossible to. Instead, I break their ribs if they overdo it. Works pretty good and is much more fun.

        I'm not a zoomer though, maybe it's that.

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          >I break their ribs
          moron

  36. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    She's nagging you (turning you down to make you seek her approval).

    She might not be aware of doing it. People do this unconsciously. I did it in the past and was not aware of it. Just take this with a grain of salt. If you really love her tell her how you feel about it and if after that she keeps doing it and you keep making you feel like shit then it's not an healthy relationship and you must leave her for the sake of your mental health (and gains because cortisol affects them).

    Remember women come and go but your body sticks with you. Do what's best for yourself.

  37. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    If you can’t divorce, Just ignore her and cheat and enjoy your own life. You look great and could definitely get a few FWB. Fuck women like your wife. She doesn’t deserve you.

  38. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    You look fucking siqq bro, your wife is a jealous bitch. Like the other poster said it's because she's insecure that you're going to leave her (she should be) so she's making you feel like shit

  39. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Leave, I get her point that you look frail in a certain way due to your narrow hips which give you an insane shoulder ratio. But id he's complaining like that constantly then she's not worth it. I'm shure you can get a lot better.

  40. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    maybe she wouldnt be such a bitch if you actually soent time with her instead of being a shitty little prick going to the gym everyday only focusing on your body

  41. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Welp.
    No choice but to bulk to unnatural levels

  42. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    It's because you look smol in clothes

  43. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Man up, sit her down and talk to her openly and honestly. Don't dance around the subject, be straightforward and get everything out there in the open. Talk it through with her, insist that you both stay in the room until you sort it out. Straight up tell her that it is a big deal to you if you can't find a solution to this problem. She might come up with excuses, but she also might raise some valid points regarding your behaviour and you need to be receptive and willing to compromise in some places as appropriate. You aren't perfect either, I'm sure you're leaving out details. Are you pulling your weight around the house and helping out with the kids as much as she is? Did she have a difficult pregnancy, is she suffering from post natal depression? You've got to work this shit out and the best way is to address it directly.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Lmao, imagine providing for some obese whore that does nothing but nag and belittle you and then asking yourself if you'redoing enough.
      There's no hope for men today, you come out of the box pussy whipped.
      WOMEN BRING NOTHING TO THE TABLE. MEN DONT NEED WOMEN, WOMEN NEED MEN. Especially in modernity, all they do is lift their legs up and coast through life.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        haha man we ought to just give up on women altogether, amirite? wouldn't it be crazy if some of us just pretended to be women haha that way we could still like have sex and stuff but we wouldn't have to deal with women haha

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      A woman or a very effeminated man wrote this post. Disregard.

  44. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    My wife says I look very muscular and sexy when I'm cut. Also says I look big and strong when i bulk. She always gives me compliments about stuff I care about. Also she hates immigrants and lgbt people.

    She is incredibly based and I love her

  45. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    fat people aren’t even human they’re brains are defective, why the fuck do you care about a fatoid’s opinion?

  46. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Divorce her, fuck the kids, they'll live. She'll turn the kids against you anyway and you won't ever get any recognition or satisfaction for putting up with her ruining the best years of your life.
    On the other hand you could also start passing her shit test, putting her in her place, telling her to shut the fuck up and giving her ultimatums.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      >Divorce her, fuck the kids, they'll live.

      they wont, i have a huge dick

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      >Divorce her, fuck the kids, they'll live.
      They'll grow up to be like:

      >thinking a prenup means anything
      they just have to say you raped them and boom the prenup is meaningless. no they dont have to have proof either.

      >all these words to say nothing
      Sure, retard. Enjoy your eventual divorce if you’re not just larping. At least the other brainlets are pushing for prenups. If they’re lucky, that might even save them a few dollars.

      Good, this civilization is worthless and produces worthless retards like you that think they can overpower the judicial system. All the legal power in a marriage is in the hands of the woman. It doesn't matter what you do, it's all play pretend, you are not in control, she lets you be in control. On a whim she can decide to divorce or report you to the police for something you did in the confidence of privacy and your life will be over. Men with guns will come and take away everything you have because a woman said so. Fuck this civilization, it is no longer viable.

      Lmao, imagine providing for some obese whore that does nothing but nag and belittle you and then asking yourself if you'redoing enough.
      There's no hope for men today, you come out of the box pussy whipped.
      WOMEN BRING NOTHING TO THE TABLE. MEN DONT NEED WOMEN, WOMEN NEED MEN. Especially in modernity, all they do is lift their legs up and coast through life.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        >they’ll grow up knowing there’s no reason to enter a life long legally and financially binding contract that does not benefit themselves in any way
        What a travesty.

  47. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    You ever think the gnomish people ever-present and lifelong obsession with defecation and feces comes from having their genitals mutilated and sucked off by a 60+ years old rabbit when they are barely one week old themselves, and their chemical capacity to feel pleasure from normal sexual stimulation 'delimited' and quite literally severed over, since not all of them indulge the transgression of sodomy? It's a thought that goes through my mind often

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      A 60 year old WHAT

  48. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    You should Fuck your wifes friends

  49. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Drop the selfish bitch she obviously doesn't appreciate you

  50. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    sounds like she's trying to neg you so you don't get any confidence to move on to someone who isn't a complete bitch

  51. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    So what if she takes your stuff, OP. Restarting from ground up can be good. How old are you? You still have much to live on and build your new life.

  52. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Is this a LARP? Why is your wife who is a fat cunt hitting on other men in front of you? Divorce her immediately and let her get railed by fat guys so they can look like 2 amoebas merging. You clearly can do better than her. Come on anon.

  53. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Beat her and lock her in a pit somewhere until she promises to treat you better

  54. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    lol so many angry young guys on here who have only ever date trash
    just become successful and find a quality woman instead of dating trash
    it’s not easy, but it’s not THAT hard either

  55. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    My question for you would be this:
    Why are you asking us for advice instead of talking to her about it?
    Stand up for yourself fucking gay.

    I broke up with my last gf because she wouldn't leave me alone when I went out with my friends and made an entire drama about it, we're not 12 anymore, fuck off, so my attitude would be the same, but I don't have kids and didn't marry her either.

  56. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    I have a easy fix for u. Copy and paste this post and just send it 2 her if she truly loves u she'll understand and change to make u more comfortable

  57. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    >Wife doesn't quite work right
    >IST screams divorce

    Typical weak males

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      She's an alcoholic who is neglecting the children. Neglect is abuse

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      >wife is obese
      >wife is alchoholic
      >wife isn't doing her duty towards her children
      >wife is negging, nagging and looking after other men
      >just man up lole
      It's illegal. Women this far gone need beatings. This is what women's rights movements have achieved, a complete dissolution of the fabric that holds society together, the family unit. In many ways it is illegal to act like a man, or heavily shunned upon and punished socially. So as far as i see it, men should just adapt. Use women for sex, breed if you want to, dip when the honeymoon period is over. Relationship's are no longer viable.

  58. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    That sucks man you look great. Start reflecting whether this is worth salvaging or if she's the type to just be fat and lame forever. Sometimes people need a kick in the ass or time and they'll buck up but its not your job to stick around for it.

  59. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    basic controlling woman, most men fall for it, have a friend with a 10 inches dick and his wife says it should be at least 11 inches to please her, he blindly believes her and does everything for her to make up for the lack of lenght

  60. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    bump

  61. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    >My wife who is overweight and drinks all day and has a terrible diet etc and refuses to ever exercise
    divorce asap

  62. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    She is just playing with your insecurities because of their own insecurities, leave the fat birch and get a new one

  63. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Say to her this

    "Baby... ...... ....... Baby dont hurt me, dont hurt me, no more!"
    *Song starts playing in the background

  64. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    You can’t force her. She’s using Satan’s tricks to keep you subservient to her. Sacrifice your relationship to the Lord, leave her and love yourself

  65. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    >female friends don't ever give me compliments
    >don't like my pics on Instagram
    >I must just be ugly
    >make peace with it
    >out with them at a bar
    >they make reference to a "trashy girl" they spotted
    >they agree she is trying too hard and looks cocky and stuck up
    >I spot who they're talking about
    >pretty fit, attractive and knows it, dressed in form fitting clothing
    >say "I dunno, she looks good to me"
    >"really?! She looks so unapproachable and unfriendly"
    >"maybe, but I kinda like that"
    >they say maybe they should be more like that
    >they spend the rest of the night trying to convince me she's not worth my time
    >"she might look fit but she has fat arms"
    >"yeah she is NOT that hot"

    Maybe im not ugly. I have never seen the girls I know act this insecure, why would they even care who I have an eye for?

    Also OP, dump the bitch or get her told, she's being a cunt and trying to tank your self esteem by downplaying your physique and "claiming" other guys to give you the impression she has plentiful options and preferences.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Your friends are just complete bitches anon. Only awful women would randomly just talk shit about a complete stranger out of jealousy. They don't compliment you because they like tearing people down not bringing them up.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        That's literally all women. All they do is try and manipulate perceptions and emotions because women can't improve, they simply exist on a constantly degrading scale of value.

  66. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    blacked.com shill garden gnome post

  67. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Unironically start a business, and begin going on ‘business trips’ solely to sleep with other women. No matter how well you hide, she will subconsciously pic up on the fact that you are now chad. She will either divorce you or worship you, either way you win

  68. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Fake. What kind of fit man marries a fat woman.

  69. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    >200 replies to pathetic bait
    you're all such losers

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Really? I don’t feel like one

  70. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Strangle her and then shove a drumsticks down her throat and say she choked being a fat bitch.

  71. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    BARREL OF OIL NOW!

  72. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    If you're the guy on the right then wha the fuck are you doing together with a fat cow who negs you constantly?

  73. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Not only do you look big but you also got the perfect figure. Just hate fuck ur wife that is what everyone does when theyr angry

  74. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    >How to force her to notice my progress?
    Book an airbnb for a week and give her divorce papers, she'll snap back into place but you’ll have to be firm and tell her bluntly she's a fat cunt whose putting you down even though you're trying your hardest and she isn't trying at all and if she doesn't shape up and square up and bring something to the table she'll miss out because all your friends have been saying you should dump her for months now. Have strict no junk food in the house, you never clean, she takes cooking classes, she goes to an female only gym 5 times a week and can only skip 1 day every 3 weeks. Either that or pull out your savings into crypto and jump ship to a country of your choice and start again. Depending on what she looks like, got a pic?

  75. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    >always pointing out random big black dudes
    You married a coalburner

  76. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    >How to force her to notice my progress?
    Pic related

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