I am married and I don’t exercise at all. She doesn’t give blowjobs—I don’t get fit. Simple as. Eventually we will grow into 2 ham planets who have 38 seconds of sex once every 2 months until we are tired. She won’t orgasm for 6 years. I will keep eating until I hate myself, then we will eventually because nasty miserable fat worthless c**ts who will get divorced and she’ll milk me dry financially until the kids are out of the house in 2040.
I am married and I don’t exercise at all. She doesn’t give blowjobs—I don’t get fit. Simple as. Eventually we will grow into 2 ham planets who have 38 seconds of sex once every 2 months until we are tired. She won’t orgasm for 6 years. I will keep eating until I hate myself, then we will eventually because nasty miserable fat worthless c**ts who will get divorced and she’ll milk me dry financially until the kids are out of the house in 2040.
probably not unless its a hobby you both share and enjoy together. i've been with a girl for a year and a half now and i basically have stopped lifting entirely. we still stay really fit but she is way more interested in climbing, hikes, cycling, trail running etc., and frankly so am I. its way more fun than the gym, it just doesn't get you the same aesthetic.
it wasn't night and day though. you'll probably just see yourself lifting less and less until you're only going to the gym once a week and asking yourself what's even the point of still trying.
i dont wanna be shitty but lifting is barely a hobby. its a necessary means to an end in a brutal dating world. once you get what you need out of it you should find other shit to do...seriously bros.
stay fit but dont waste your time lifting weights unless you really, really love it.
I somewhat agree but I still think men should be active and if they've sort of reach in end in lifting then they should do a combat sport as a new challenge that is fun and helps with mental health/anxiety
I stopped lifting once I got a gf. The ironic part is I wasn't even lifting for aesthetics, I was a powershitter.
Really the problem was my gf was a chubby slampiggy with enormous breasts that lived a very sedentary life. Her lifestyle and pursuit for pleasure outweighed bettering myself and I ended up gaining 100lbs in the course of 5 years of dating her.
I don't participate in /fph/ threads if that's what you're getting at.
I know why people get fat because I got fat. And I know it's difficult to stop being fat because I was in that position. I don't agree with coping and saying that being fat is OK. I never thought my weight gain was OK. But I was too addicted to pizza and taco bell to stop.
To clarify, I know how relationships with lazy girls can encourage weight gain. My point is after 10-20lbs, how much can you really blame their bad habits rubbing off on you?
Lifting and getting girls have some overlap but they're not one and the same as you seem to imply. If one lifts to get a girl, he will stop when he gets one, which will be never. If one lifts to develop himself he will stop when he's fully developed, which is never. So the answer is yes.
Goals have shifted- was very progress focused before. >Gaining strength, eating right, moving up consistently bulking, hard cutting etc.
Now it is more lifestyle oriented. >Keeping strength/size focused. Recomp as opposed to heavy bulk or cut.
I've been golfing more so fitness focused on that, hiking, water sports etc.. + more flexibility. I guess it has evolved into more variety of activities.
I am a near 30 year old kissless virgin who will most probably die a kissless virgin. I lift because I like to lift, as simple as that. I will lift till my death.
I'd lift weights even if I was the only person on the planet
I kept lifting through 3, each dumped me. The most recent, I stopped after 8 months of dating. The remaining 3.5 years I didn’t lift, and then she dumped me anyway. Moral of the story; don’t stop lifting. It took a year and a half to make up the 3.5 years lost
Idk how weak-willed some of you homosexuals are but I actually worked even harder at the gym and my boxing sessions back when I had a girl to go back to especially since I would feel immensely good after a hard session when she would hold and kiss me....I miss her. After we split the rage boost made break through barriers and even experience a sort of evolution in my boxing, break up gains are real and you will benefit from them
Its a timesink. Even a half hour a day routine is a huge investment culmulatively, and most people who actually lift are putting in more time than that (I'm around seventy-five minutes five days a week fwiw). I would love to put that time and energy to better use.
As opposed to what? What could you possibly do in that time that would benefit you in so many ways that lifting and exercising does? Better use how? Wageslaving? Learning random facts?
I'm married. I don't exercise or diet for women. I do it for myself because I'd kill myself if I ever ballooned up into a lardass again. It's hard enough living with depression without being massively obese again. I'd rather be dead. If ever there comes a point where I can't exercise at all, I will stop eating more than a bare minimum to sustain myself. I'd rather be a living skeleton than fat every again. Frick fat people. They're selfish and the infect everybody around them. They ruin their kids lives before they even have a chance.
i lifted for a year before i got into my first relationship. i continued lifting because i felt like if I didn't attain an aesthetic physique, all that effort I put into fitness would be wasted. also I wanted to get hotter to incentivize my gf to start lifting too and build her booty
>99th percentile body >Vascular 18"+ arms and abs >Not even that short at 6 feet
>Only girls that put any effort at all into conversation on tinder are mildly obese
This world is a joke. I didn't have my hopes up for a 10/10 Stacey but I at least hoped I could get a girl that is *only* chubby at best and doesn't already have Chad's kids.
>99th percentile body >above average face >6'2 >finished CS bachelors about to start masters >bunch of hobbies including sports and artistic ones >lots of friends >date a 7/10 with meh body for a month >from one day to the next treats me like some loser and acts completely disinterested >doesn't even acknowledge anything when I ask her about it and doesn't have the balls to tell me it's over just goes cold
There is something fundamentally wrong with modern society. Every above average woman has the opportunity to instantly meet a 7+/10 man at the click of a button. Nobody is special to them. It's not even about sex. These women treat emotional connections like a fricking pair of shoes they switch every few weeks. Even worse women support each other in this. They feel absolutely 0 guilt about treating others this way. The ironic thing is all of these women have horrible mental issues and usually are in therapy and take drugs to deal with it. I wonder why...
I lift because I enjoy getting stronger and structure of routine helps form discipline in other areas of my life. You are weaker willed loser if you’d stop lifting after getting a girlfriend.
>Met in the gym >Both did lifting >Got together >Lifted together >She stopped lifting, switched to rock climbing >I still lift, didn't like rock climbing >Grew apart >Broke up
I'll be lifting until I'm bed ridden for life
I need some advice >move to a new country >feel alone so download Bumble >go crazy with a bunch of cuties >finally get bored and settle with a french qt >fast forward 1.7 years later >want to go back to frick random girls again
I love her but the lust consumes me
>ill you still lift when (if) you get a gf?
I will continue running since I do that at 6 am and it helps me be more relaxed,I do not know if I would ave the time to also continue training with weights
digits and op gets anal cancer
oh he dead
>checked
>keked
>OP, REKT
Trips don't lie
based scriptanon ruining the days of homosexual OPs today
have fun in chemo op
OP btfod
witnessed
Checked. Better have a doctor check your butthole (OP)
Op btfo
HAHA! You've got anal cancer now, OP.
I am married and I don’t exercise at all. She doesn’t give blowjobs—I don’t get fit. Simple as. Eventually we will grow into 2 ham planets who have 38 seconds of sex once every 2 months until we are tired. She won’t orgasm for 6 years. I will keep eating until I hate myself, then we will eventually because nasty miserable fat worthless c**ts who will get divorced and she’ll milk me dry financially until the kids are out of the house in 2040.
what the frick anon
Many such cases
Imagine letting something external stop you from being the best you can be
probably not unless its a hobby you both share and enjoy together. i've been with a girl for a year and a half now and i basically have stopped lifting entirely. we still stay really fit but she is way more interested in climbing, hikes, cycling, trail running etc., and frankly so am I. its way more fun than the gym, it just doesn't get you the same aesthetic.
it wasn't night and day though. you'll probably just see yourself lifting less and less until you're only going to the gym once a week and asking yourself what's even the point of still trying.
>probably not unless its a hobby you both share
implying one can't have their own hobbies in a relationship
i dont wanna be shitty but lifting is barely a hobby. its a necessary means to an end in a brutal dating world. once you get what you need out of it you should find other shit to do...seriously bros.
stay fit but dont waste your time lifting weights unless you really, really love it.
I somewhat agree but I still think men should be active and if they've sort of reach in end in lifting then they should do a combat sport as a new challenge that is fun and helps with mental health/anxiety
>random cardio shit with le gf is more fun than the constant challenge of the gym
you were a DYEL in denial all along
so what, im happy.
I stopped lifting once I got a gf. The ironic part is I wasn't even lifting for aesthetics, I was a powershitter.
Really the problem was my gf was a chubby slampiggy with enormous breasts that lived a very sedentary life. Her lifestyle and pursuit for pleasure outweighed bettering myself and I ended up gaining 100lbs in the course of 5 years of dating her.
Imagine having the gall to point the finger at anyone else when you gain 100lbs
I don't participate in /fph/ threads if that's what you're getting at.
I know why people get fat because I got fat. And I know it's difficult to stop being fat because I was in that position. I don't agree with coping and saying that being fat is OK. I never thought my weight gain was OK. But I was too addicted to pizza and taco bell to stop.
To clarify, I know how relationships with lazy girls can encourage weight gain. My point is after 10-20lbs, how much can you really blame their bad habits rubbing off on you?
Either way, best of luck getting back in shape.
Lifting and getting girls have some overlap but they're not one and the same as you seem to imply. If one lifts to get a girl, he will stop when he gets one, which will be never. If one lifts to develop himself he will stop when he's fully developed, which is never. So the answer is yes.
I got my wife before I started lifting
Goals have shifted- was very progress focused before.
>Gaining strength, eating right, moving up consistently bulking, hard cutting etc.
Now it is more lifestyle oriented.
>Keeping strength/size focused. Recomp as opposed to heavy bulk or cut.
I've been golfing more so fitness focused on that, hiking, water sports etc.. + more flexibility. I guess it has evolved into more variety of activities.
I am a near 30 year old kissless virgin who will most probably die a kissless virgin. I lift because I like to lift, as simple as that. I will lift till my death.
I'd lift weights even if I was the only person on the planet
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I kept lifting through 3, each dumped me. The most recent, I stopped after 8 months of dating. The remaining 3.5 years I didn’t lift, and then she dumped me anyway. Moral of the story; don’t stop lifting. It took a year and a half to make up the 3.5 years lost
Imagine lifting for women
imagine lifting because you actually enjoy it
I hope so. Can't think much would stop me. I'd like to get her to join in on the fun (And stay good looking and healthy).
Incredibly pathetic thread.
yes of course
if i don't life then who am i?
my gf dumped me a couple months ago
now I want to start lifting just to spite her
Idk how weak-willed some of you homosexuals are but I actually worked even harder at the gym and my boxing sessions back when I had a girl to go back to especially since I would feel immensely good after a hard session when she would hold and kiss me....I miss her. After we split the rage boost made break through barriers and even experience a sort of evolution in my boxing, break up gains are real and you will benefit from them
Its a timesink. Even a half hour a day routine is a huge investment culmulatively, and most people who actually lift are putting in more time than that (I'm around seventy-five minutes five days a week fwiw). I would love to put that time and energy to better use.
Good news is lifting is at least cheap.
>ts a timesink
As opposed to what? What could you possibly do in that time that would benefit you in so many ways that lifting and exercising does? Better use how? Wageslaving? Learning random facts?
I think so, but I've never been in a relationship.
i will never stop working out, because that's the only way the voices go quiet .
Of course I will continue
I'm married. I don't exercise or diet for women. I do it for myself because I'd kill myself if I ever ballooned up into a lardass again. It's hard enough living with depression without being massively obese again. I'd rather be dead. If ever there comes a point where I can't exercise at all, I will stop eating more than a bare minimum to sustain myself. I'd rather be a living skeleton than fat every again. Frick fat people. They're selfish and the infect everybody around them. They ruin their kids lives before they even have a chance.
I go to the gym to get away from the gf
i lifted for a year before i got into my first relationship. i continued lifting because i felt like if I didn't attain an aesthetic physique, all that effort I put into fitness would be wasted. also I wanted to get hotter to incentivize my gf to start lifting too and build her booty
It won't happen. I do not speak to any female whom I'm not related to by 3 generations, or whom I'm not financially obligated to do so.
>99th percentile body
>Vascular 18"+ arms and abs
>Not even that short at 6 feet
>Only girls that put any effort at all into conversation on tinder are mildly obese
This world is a joke. I didn't have my hopes up for a 10/10 Stacey but I at least hoped I could get a girl that is *only* chubby at best and doesn't already have Chad's kids.
you forgot to personalitymaxx
what we're overlooking here is that anon is ugly
can't outlift face
>99th percentile body
>above average face
>6'2
>finished CS bachelors about to start masters
>bunch of hobbies including sports and artistic ones
>lots of friends
>date a 7/10 with meh body for a month
>from one day to the next treats me like some loser and acts completely disinterested
>doesn't even acknowledge anything when I ask her about it and doesn't have the balls to tell me it's over just goes cold
There is something fundamentally wrong with modern society. Every above average woman has the opportunity to instantly meet a 7+/10 man at the click of a button. Nobody is special to them. It's not even about sex. These women treat emotional connections like a fricking pair of shoes they switch every few weeks. Even worse women support each other in this. They feel absolutely 0 guilt about treating others this way. The ironic thing is all of these women have horrible mental issues and usually are in therapy and take drugs to deal with it. I wonder why...
I lift because I enjoy getting stronger and structure of routine helps form discipline in other areas of my life. You are weaker willed loser if you’d stop lifting after getting a girlfriend.
Simple as
>Met in the gym
>Both did lifting
>Got together
>Lifted together
>She stopped lifting, switched to rock climbing
>I still lift, didn't like rock climbing
>Grew apart
>Broke up
I'll be lifting until I'm bed ridden for life
It never stopped me
I need some advice
>move to a new country
>feel alone so download Bumble
>go crazy with a bunch of cuties
>finally get bored and settle with a french qt
>fast forward 1.7 years later
>want to go back to frick random girls again
I love her but the lust consumes me
No, I'm hoping to find a IST bf and go gymbro full homosexual lifestyle.
Of course. Need to stay in shape if you want to be able to cheat on her.
>ill you still lift when (if) you get a gf?
I will continue running since I do that at 6 am and it helps me be more relaxed,I do not know if I would ave the time to also continue training with weights
People who say they would are pathetic. 30 yrs old been married 10 years best shape ever. I MOG the frick out of friends and family.
You probably won’t. You need to though. Other women wanting to frick you is the key to a good relationship.
I didn't start lifting until I already had a GF