with time running the wall is approaching

>be 22 years old loser
>will take 5+ years to get a IST physique natty
>will take 5+ years to get a valuable degree including a Masters
>will take 5 additional years to make money and afford a house with car
>will be 35 when finally be ready to get a girlfriend
>probably hit the wall then and be undesirable
I cannot cope with time running out so fast. It feels like my life is over.

  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    5 years ago you were 17, look how fast the time went by? The same thing will happen with the next 5 years, anon. Start now and before you know it you will be 27, with a good, healthy body and habits, an education, and a job.
    Imagine/visualize what you want to be and then focus on that mental image.
    You will become that in time.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      fpbp that gay OP will ignore

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >The same thing will happen with the next 5 years, anon.
      It’ll feel like time flew by faster than before. More of a reason to get to work.

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >will take 5+ years to get a IST physique natty

    nah, barely a year and rosties will like you, the bar is so low nowadays

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Thinking too much about the destination is daunting. Just workout and make more money JUST BECAUSE. Because it's better than sitting in your room all day and wasting your life. Don't even think about the end result. Better yourself just because. And when you do it long enough, the results will just be there. And you'll be happy you didn't just sit here at 22 crying about how long it'd take.

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >I'm going to get in line and wait for life to come to me, by following the pre-approved globohomo "success" narrative
    >Woe is me!!
    You have the mind of a roastie. Start transitioning

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    If you do all those at the same time it'll only take 5 years. You can gym while schooling and as long as you don't choose a retarded degree you'll have a good job right after the masters that let's you live comfortably. Also unless you're obese it'll probably be only 2years of lifting to be a healthy and built. There is no need to catastrophize

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    If you get fit and get an education, in 5 years you’ll be 27.
    And if you don’t do all of those things, in 5 years you’ll still be 27 except you’ll not have achieved any of your goals.
    It’s not too late anon. You can’t change what’s in the past, all you can do now is make the best decision for yourself going forward.
    And there’s lots of reasons to get fit and work on your career other than women, that said the wall comes much later for men anyways you should be fine.
    WAGMI

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >22 years
    first of all, kek at thinking you're old. secondly you don't need to do all that shit before getting a gf.
    preferrably you find someone who loves you before that who will support you in your journey, not some golddigger who gets on when you're already at the top.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Good girls like this who are satisfied with the fact that you give your best are not only extremely rare but often taken by the tall handsome guys who are successful much earlier than me. The rest want the winners who already ran their marathon and are not still running.

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You need to enjoy the process of attaining your goals, and not just hyper focusing on the goals themselves. The time spent in the gym is invaluable because it gives you stress relieve, a confidence boost, and builds discipline that you can apply to every other part of your life. The years it takes getting your degree can be full of formative experiences and building friendships/relationships that will last your whole life.

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Less competition for me. Stay in the bottom 20% where you belong

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    We're about to enter a global recession and likely economic collapse. 5 years for most of those things is very optimistic. Go out and make connections now anon, the future is never guaranteed

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    > Takes 5+ years to get a master's simultaneously to getting IST

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Just start doing things. Since you like putting things into perspective; your life expectancy is about 60 more years. On average you are likely to live another SIXTY YEARS. You will be expected to work 40+ of those.

    What is the alternative here? How can it possibly not be worth start investing in an education and lifestyle that you like.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Male fertility decline is a thing too and at 30+ I cannot just get a 22 years old girlfriend. If I want a (big) family it will basically be too late and then I got 40+ years of loneliness.

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    people on sites like this are introverts with low self-esteem and use self-improvement as an excuse to not get a girlfriend. "I can't get a girlfriend until i achieve these extremely high standards so let me just grind away alone". In reality, most guys who get girlfriends are kind of shit, but their social skills are not crippled by insecurity-caused introversion. yes, it will be difficult (maybe, you just might have enough natural charm even in your current state to land a gf quickly) to get a gf without looking like a supermodel, but you will have one far more quickly than trying to become a supermodel and then acquiring a gf. But this option challenges your introversion, so you naturally avoid it and construct false realities so you can avoid feeling uncomfortable, even though in the long run you just need to get over the hump of diving into socialization and the fear of failure to live your best life.

    i know this because i am exactly that kind of person but I've also had enough time to self-reflect and enough experience of absolutely nothing happening to dispel these false realities. seriously OP, at most you need to stop being fat, which can be achieved in 3 months per 10 kg you are overweight, and you are 80% where you need to be lookswise. If I was offered the chance to be 22 again I would kill you and devour your thymus without a second thought.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >I can't get a girlfriend until i achieve these extremely high standards so let me just grind away alone
      I can grind until I reach these "extremely high standards" (most of them are basic shit everybody does but ok) while also socializing. However, I just don't expect to land a girlfriend because I need to be a winner first. Men run the marathon of life while girls wait to pick the winners at the end.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      yeah i do challenges my introversion, only to get rejected times and times again. “Just be confident bro” only apply to normal people, not with autists that have nothing to show for

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        it's not about being "confident", it's about being a normal person and then striking out from that solid foundation. if you are a sperglord who can't make friends or entertain people, that's your problem and not your lack of other features. but you can work on this unless you're clinically mega autistic who can't tell if someone is laughing or crying.

        >I can't get a girlfriend until i achieve these extremely high standards so let me just grind away alone
        I can grind until I reach these "extremely high standards" (most of them are basic shit everybody does but ok) while also socializing. However, I just don't expect to land a girlfriend because I need to be a winner first. Men run the marathon of life while girls wait to pick the winners at the end.

        if you don't let your grinding postpone your socializing my advice is not for you. but you don't need to be a winner to land a gf, because it's evidently not a true. your gf won't just be the cream of the crop, much like you. having a negative outlook towards the possibility of getting a gf will negatively impact your chances because you won't be taking any shots even if you're socializing.

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >will take 5+ years to get a valuable degree including a Masters
    You can go become a self-taught dev and start making ok money in about a year.

  15. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Life ends after college bros. Make sure you get a GF before graduating

  16. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    follow these rules

  17. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    i’m 28 and i start hitting the gym, better late than ever

  18. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    The best time to start was yesterday, second best time is today. Fucking get over yourself and get to work, gay.

  19. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >thinks all that is necessary to get a gf
    >doesn't even mention developing social skills
    You're gonna do all that and then pay some pua guy to teach you shit that would have gotten you a gf as a 5'5" skinny fat virgin.

    On top of that, you'll end up with a girl and realize you're still not happy, because happiness doesn't come from girls.

  20. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Cry more pussy. You repeat the same everyday in life and expect a different outcome. Learn to exploit the very system that sought to enslave you.

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