i like lifting alone (sometimes i wish i had a gymbro), i don’t like being completely alone. taking pump pics and realizing that you’re going back home to complete emptiness, the notification number on your message app hasn’t changed in months.. shit fricks with you after a while.
>the notification number on your message app hasn’t changed in months..
Start networking. I still hardly ever get pussy but now I have a ton of male and female friends from always hanging out in the bar/club scene. I invited out 8 people I've met in the last year for tomorrow night, 50/50 male female. At least half will show up
Sounds rough but stay in there bro, is there a volunteer opportunity or pickleball club you could join?
i think a portion of me has just given up. i used to have a huge social circle growing up, multiple friend groups, and so never developed the abilities to form new relationships. im now 28 and just don’t believe i have the capacity for it. i have no hobbies, no habits other than the gym, and am genuinely not interested in anything this world has to offer. i believe that’s how you form bonds with people and i don’t have that foundation. i work about 50-60h a week too because i have a lot of medical debt so that limits my time and depletes my energy even more. sounds like i’m making excuses, i know everyone is struggling in their own unique ways
My god literally me except no debt and can’t find good work. Shit is eating away at me idk what to do anymore. I remember when I was younger I’d wake up to texts from friends and even girls here and there, now I rarely get any messages or anything and I barely speak to girls anymore. I’ve fallen out with so many friends it makes me so sad. The last friend group and my last girlfriend kind of left me jaded. I have no hope and I feel I’m not enough romantically or even just a friend frick
>I’ve fallen out with so many friends it makes me so sad. The last friend group and my last girlfriend kind of left me jaded.
wtf this just happened to me. ex fricked me over, relapsed for two days because of it, then get fricked over by a couple of friends who did some snake shit behind my back to get me out of the living situation. i hope it turns around for us dude, seriously. i feel more and more fatigued and overwhelmed with each day, with fewer and fewer ideas for solutions
My god literally me except no debt and can’t find good work. Shit is eating away at me idk what to do anymore. I remember when I was younger I’d wake up to texts from friends and even girls here and there, now I rarely get any messages or anything and I barely speak to girls anymore. I’ve fallen out with so many friends it makes me so sad. The last friend group and my last girlfriend kind of left me jaded. I have no hope and I feel I’m not enough romantically or even just a friend frick
>Meet at cute chick at work >She's a client and I visit her store >Have good rapport, she smiles and at my jokes >Ready to ask her out >Get injured at job and will be out for another month. 2 months total
and I know that feel OP.
i haven't had friends for a while now. never had a gf. never even had female friends my entire life.
i'm a 30 year old khv. so trust me, I know pain.
we gotta do something about that shit OP
but seriously lifting alone is just perfect. it's just you and your weights
i like lifting alone (sometimes i wish i had a gymbro), i don’t like being completely alone. taking pump pics and realizing that you’re going back home to complete emptiness, the notification number on your message app hasn’t changed in months.. shit fricks with you after a while.
i hear you fren..
>the notification number on your message app hasn’t changed in months..
Start networking. I still hardly ever get pussy but now I have a ton of male and female friends from always hanging out in the bar/club scene. I invited out 8 people I've met in the last year for tomorrow night, 50/50 male female. At least half will show up
i think a portion of me has just given up. i used to have a huge social circle growing up, multiple friend groups, and so never developed the abilities to form new relationships. im now 28 and just don’t believe i have the capacity for it. i have no hobbies, no habits other than the gym, and am genuinely not interested in anything this world has to offer. i believe that’s how you form bonds with people and i don’t have that foundation. i work about 50-60h a week too because i have a lot of medical debt so that limits my time and depletes my energy even more. sounds like i’m making excuses, i know everyone is struggling in their own unique ways
I feel that wagmi we will find our way
i hope so brah. hard to believe it sometimes
>I’ve fallen out with so many friends it makes me so sad. The last friend group and my last girlfriend kind of left me jaded.
wtf this just happened to me. ex fricked me over, relapsed for two days because of it, then get fricked over by a couple of friends who did some snake shit behind my back to get me out of the living situation. i hope it turns around for us dude, seriously. i feel more and more fatigued and overwhelmed with each day, with fewer and fewer ideas for solutions
My god literally me except no debt and can’t find good work. Shit is eating away at me idk what to do anymore. I remember when I was younger I’d wake up to texts from friends and even girls here and there, now I rarely get any messages or anything and I barely speak to girls anymore. I’ve fallen out with so many friends it makes me so sad. The last friend group and my last girlfriend kind of left me jaded. I have no hope and I feel I’m not enough romantically or even just a friend frick
How do you make friends by going to a bar?
You make very sad friends at a bar, dont follow that advice.
Yeah I miss my ex too
>chud thinks lifting will save him
i never said it would nor do i think it will. i think it’s better than doing nothing
>Meet at cute chick at work
>She's a client and I visit her store
>Have good rapport, she smiles and at my jokes
>Ready to ask her out
>Get injured at job and will be out for another month. 2 months total
Back to being alone
Sounds rough but stay in there bro, is there a volunteer opportunity or pickleball club you could join?
He truly was the most aesthetic
rip zyzz
and I know that feel OP.
i haven't had friends for a while now. never had a gf. never even had female friends my entire life.
i'm a 30 year old khv. so trust me, I know pain.
as buddha said, life is suffering
Id relate more you didn’t put that homosexual in your pic
You need to get off this eccochamber bro.
Stop working out and start doing team sports, social events and group traveling.
Remember that when people see you having fun, they automatically like you better.