>being lonely and having little to no physical contact with anyone is more damaging to your health than smoking a pack a day

>being lonely and having little to no physical contact with anyone is more damaging to your health than smoking a pack a day
I haven't hugged anyone in over a decade. I will die.

  1. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    might as well get roided and exploit your body before offing anon.

  2. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    im 30 and never kissed a girl.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Don't give up anon - I wasn't 31 until my first kiss, and now I grab her tits and finger her while she sucks my dick every time we hang out. It gets better.

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        how

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          not him but I stopped being an incel at 28. you have to deeply internalize the fact it’s all on you to be the one to make the first move, to be direct, and that you must escalate. Once you truly accept that the rest falls into place. It is unfair and goes against what feminists taught you in school and media, but it is what it is, they don’t realize their advice is garbage since they don’t have to put it to practice. The reward you get for it is sex. Do nofap when trying to date, the hormones let you more easily say/do what you need to. It is not immoral for you to be motivated by that. Women, even 100 body counts, can still be passive and wait for you to initiate. If you have no game, keep in mind you’re unlikely to snag a virgin while you’re out there trying. That means you should rest easy, she knows what the game is, she knows if agrees to a date then on some level that d is eventually coming for her, whether that night or on a third date, AND she expects that and will even be confused or angry if you don’t try to bang her.
          Godspeed anon

          • 4 months ago
            Anonymous

            >It is unfair and goes against what feminists taught you in school and media, but it is what it is, they don’t realize their advice is garbage since they don’t have to put it to practice
            very well put, and it's not only the feminists
            women are the garden gnome of gender, they delude themselves and others to feel good, more often than not
            as a man, the consequences are much worse for you if you fall for those delusions too

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          [...]

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      happiness comes from within
      you do not need validation from external sources
      if you do you have not addressed the root of your problem

      lower your standards
      groom yourself
      download the swipe apps
      a cute lunch date & kiss in 2022?
      done

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Same but 25. But yesterday I came to a scary realisation, not only have I never even kissed a girl, I have never even had a real conversation with one that was longer than two minutes. And this is including my school years where I just never had an interaction with a female beyond a few words (this excludes teachers, elders, etc.). This, coupled with the fact that I now as an adult go most days without even seeing a female means that at this point women are a completely alien concept to me. I am literally on track to be an 80 year old virgin if I live that long. I struggle just talking to men when they ask about my personal life, talking to a woman that may inquire about my life must be harrowing and all the more embarrassing

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yes also 25 here. I cannot remember the last I truly interacted with a girl around my age. Not sure how regular men even find single women after hs and college, I literally do not ever come across one. It's over.

  3. 4 months ago
    Fitness Helper

    Why not OP?

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      I don't know.

      • 4 months ago
        Fitness Helper

        Do you socialize with people?

  4. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    just pay foe sex like a normal person

  5. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    lonely and having little to no physical contact with anyone is more damaging to your health than smoking a pack a day
    its literally not, this is a stupid thing, its as dumb as "dude it takes 7 years for your body to digest gum!"

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      It's one of those catchy buzzword headlines that some peer reviewed gay researchers put out and the entire planet took their word for gospel. I hate the academia.

      t. former grad student

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        reproducibility crisis really aired a lot of that dirty laundry, e.g. the ego depletion bullshit
        scientific reporting industry needs to be gassed and the new crop needs some draconian punishment to prevent them from fucking over people as much as they do now

  6. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    What sensationalist Reddit study did you pull that from?
    If you're unhappy being lonely, get a girlfriend or just hire a cuddler. Being able to live in a cabin in the mountains for the rest of my life with no other human contact sounds like a dream to me.

  7. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    dont be retarded
    i hate being touched
    i probably give out 1-2 hugs per decade
    i still got fucked plenty of times anon
    if you must smoke, smoke organic or roll your own

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      You're probably autistic. Legitimately.

      not him but I stopped being an incel at 28. you have to deeply internalize the fact it’s all on you to be the one to make the first move, to be direct, and that you must escalate. Once you truly accept that the rest falls into place. It is unfair and goes against what feminists taught you in school and media, but it is what it is, they don’t realize their advice is garbage since they don’t have to put it to practice. The reward you get for it is sex. Do nofap when trying to date, the hormones let you more easily say/do what you need to. It is not immoral for you to be motivated by that. Women, even 100 body counts, can still be passive and wait for you to initiate. If you have no game, keep in mind you’re unlikely to snag a virgin while you’re out there trying. That means you should rest easy, she knows what the game is, she knows if agrees to a date then on some level that d is eventually coming for her, whether that night or on a third date, AND she expects that and will even be confused or angry if you don’t try to bang her.
      Godspeed anon

      >that d is eventually coming for her,
      Lol, yeah. You gotta be a man and take the chances to escalate the situation. It's a dance and you're leading.

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        kek im not autistic if i bagged hotties
        women shy away from autists
        especially when they can get attention from other non-tard males

        im not that cute anon

        the no-touching thing probably stems from my childhood abandonment problemsabuse

        the trick is to hide your wound
        you dont let them know you are damaged goods
        dont saddlebag your relationships with mental anguish bullshit - they are not your therapist

  8. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I have reached a point of total and complete apathy. I have literally no redeeming qualities as a human hence it becomes impossible to believe any woman would ever find me attractive at any level. I sometimes ponder paying a prostitute for sex but the thought of her having to endure sex with me makes me physically ill.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      you have a narcissistic victim complex of self flagelation
      i bet you have dreams of being crucified or publicly humiliated

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        >i bet you have dreams of being crucified or publicly humiliated
        Wrong. Stop pretending like your psychologist.

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          deep down you know i'm right
          fix yourself attention whoring crybaby fag

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      >I have reached a point of total and complete apathy

      Post body.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      You sound like a gay and if you truly don't care then post your body

  9. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    dude where can I go to meet people that are open to talking

    ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I'm so lonelyyyyyyyy... I do things and go out but I do literally everything alone...I just want someone to share my time with even if it's platonic..jesus fuck I hate my life

  10. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Lost my kid and a girlfriend last year... I still have breakdowns.

  11. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    How do I stop being so awkward around people. Most people seem to find me weird when we’re talking and I’m not sure why. Sometimes there are pauses in talking where neither one of us has anything to say, but that can’t really be helped and I usually try to recover it anyways. I don’t even really try to speak to women much in real life, mostly dating apps since it’s much easier for me. I just don’t know how to get better

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      I’m clinically diagnosed with Asperger’s syndrome, I don’t even have the over stimulation or meltdown stuff I’m just that socially awkward to put it into perspective. How do I get better? I am trying to go out more but it’s not really working

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        go to a therapist specializing in anxiety/social dysfunction

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          I did go to a therapist at one point but it wasn’t really working out well. I’d rather not have to go through it again to be honest

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      The trick is to be comfortable with yourself, this applies to non autistic people with anxiety issues.

  12. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    that's retarded statistics. they live shorter lives on average because some of them kill themselves, thus bringing down the average age at death. those that don't kill themselves live average life spans.

  13. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Get massages anons.
    Asian massage parlours even if you have them near you and if you are so inclined.

  14. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I don't think I have ever been lonely. I have my dog, IST, and my parents.

  15. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    >the only thing i interact and have genuine conversations is a stray cat that is always outside my dorm
    how bad it is?

  16. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Well if you're alone why not do whatever you want? I don't mean jacking off or doing drugs, I mean if you hate the city or don't like work or other shit why not go be like forest anon and live in the woods or wilderness areas, if you like lifting then do that and aim to be a God at it, you wanna be a criminal well fuck learn basic penetration testing techniques and study systems and vulnerabilities.
    Go start a business in something you wanna try or are passionate about or that you think will make a lot of money because some gnomish schmuck will buy it as an investment. It's better to fuck around and do anything you wanna try than to just off yourself, and nobody will care if you fail so why worry about failure

  17. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Ok, first of all I hate you /LULZ/ gays. You don't belong here and you should go back.
    But since today is my special day I will say this. Tonight I had my first kiss in over 10 years, with a girl that I've been in love practically my whole life.
    I picked up gym in April and have been on monk mode nofap in the same period. Take this as you whish, as cringe broscience or motivation.
    You don't have to trust me but tonight feeling was so good, her lips were so soft and I think no one on this world deserves to live without such a pleasant thing. So if you are about to give up, keep on grinding and WAGMI!

  18. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I got a job working from home during the "pandemic", and only now the company is calling us all back at the office
    There's like 150 people there and I know no one

  19. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    rate my pickup strategy
    >hey you're cute, can I get your number?
    worst case they say "no thanks", but 50% of them would probably be too taken aback to resist

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      and then what am i supposed to do, call and speak to them???

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        Wait a while and text them "Hey, it's X from Z place, how you doin?

        After that you're on your own.

  20. 4 months ago
    Wake

    Lol

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