Does lifting ever truly make you get over HER? Bros it’s been a long time… I’m tired… I just want the longing to end. You can call me a b***h boy simp, beta, whatever, but I actually turn down multiple women regularly who want me to frick them. If you asked anyone on the streets they would call me a Chad, but I feel like I’ll never truly get over her. It’s pushing me to become a fricking Buddhist because I can’t handle the mental suffering. Will the weights ever make it go away?
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no, you should just take these alleged advances from other women and move on
It’s at the point where I wish I could just going back to the peace the being a loner virgin gave me. THAT felt like suffering at the time but it’s not even in the same ballpark.
I have a friend just like you. Just get laid with those other women and whatever else it takes to move on, damn it. I bet your friends are tired of your bullshit, come on now.
I don’t vent to them
But you stop going out with them on occassions, or talk with a voice like you've got a stick in your ass, etc
Get over her, you'll survive
there wasn't a her to begin with.
what does a woman do to get you like this?
Exists
Simps will never learn.
Have your child, pretend like you're special, and lie about dying for you. Then frick random people as often as possible. Divorce, lie to everyone about abuse, and try to take everything away from you.
sounds like you got cuck’d hard and I bet you deserved it
Yes I did
Lifting will help because you will keep looking better and growing while she (statistically) dates someone overweight and ends up with a kid out of wedlock.
>t. Happened to first ex, slowly happening to second
Call me schizoid but the worst I’ve ever felt from a breakup was maybe 10 minutes of disappointment. Might be because I’ve initiated all of them but still, I don’t understand how you could let a woman frick you up this bad emotionally.
It's understandable for a man to be fricked up when a woman divorces him, gets alimony, child support and tries to take the kids away but from a fricking breakup? Holy shit get a grip you pussy.
It helps, but it's a mental hurdle, and a small one at that. Get's easier as you go along. Remember theres about 4 billion fish in the sea, one HER isn't gonna cancel your life if you have any self respect and testosterone
Thanks bros this is actually helping. It’s nice to hear that it really doesn’t have to be a huge deal. I have severe issues from childhood trauma that I’m working on and I see light at the end of the tunnel. I don’t want to become an unfeeling robot but I know I will move on
>not hating her with everything you have
She's popped up in my dreams a handful of times and each time ends up in me beating her. Wake up feeling pretty happy though
We ended amicably, just realize it was having a negative affect on both our lives and we were getting too wrapped up in it and losing ourselves. I still just want the best for her, she’s an awesome person and we both treated each other great. I honestly almost wish it ended badly so I could hate her. That sounds kinda based.
anon, i'm going to be honest with you
it wasn't meant to be
she probably doesn't think about you ever, and you need to give up and move on, it is quite literally hopeless and you're being a pathetic little worm
stop putting pussy on a pedestal, women will NOT cure your depression or make you happy, and if she did help you with these things, it still wouldn't have lasted because women hate dependent and clingy men
you will NEVER get her back, you probably won't ever find "the one"
most people never do
accept this reality or have a nice day
Not OP but in my case she left the country for vet school and I broke up with her about a month later. Couldn't handle the distance. That was 6 years ago. I don't yearn for her like I used to but she still crosses my mind most days. I know she doesn't think about me still. Last communication was 3 years ago. Lifting helped. Banging sloots helped. But nothing really ever can change that impossible standard. Just gotta live with it
You seem to be cut from the same soft cloth as me (OP). We’ve gotta move on man. I’m here with you bro
I appreciate it. I've dated girls since her and life has gone on. The problem was ending things while still being in love. Crystallized the feeling forever. Atleast it doesn't keep me up at night like it did for the first few years. Lifting probably kept me from offing myself at its worst. And hey got to 2/3/4/5 so it aint all bad
Same situation here. We ended things both while still deeply in love. We’ll survive though. Appreciate the honesty man.
Hope the best for you as well. We're all gonna make it brah
Thanks friend. I figured this might be the truth. Hard pill to swallow but I’m working on it. Existence is cruel yet beautiful
>Does lifting ever truly make you get over HER?
didn't read the rest of your gay blog post but yes it does
>Does lifting ever truly make you get over HER?
No, that's called being a man. You are still a boy wasting time thinking about her instead of doing something productive. It can help fuel productivity, but you have to realize you're wasting your time first
It's a gateway to self love. A gradual transformation happens within the mind in parallel to the subtle transformation of the body. Needless to say it wont happen instantaneously. Good luck, man.
Also the painful truth is not that you cant lef her go and move on, rather the truth is you dont want to. Its not something outside of your control, and the moment you truly internalize that is the moment you'll begin to grow out of your infantile understanding of relationships.
Nope, lifting won't help you get over her. It is a good way to direct/focus the pain and suffering in a way that leads to self improvement rather than destructive shit like alcohol, drugs, overeating, etc. You're going to hurt either way, might as well get a sick physique out of it.
no lifting won't help. realize that she's not the one, never was, and never will be.
You'll never get over her anon. Your mental scars will stay with you forever. Move forward but remember them. Nothing will rid you of them.
Call upon the scar when you need a humbling, or when you need a reason to press forward.
Make deals with your devils anon, they're weaker than you, and you both stand to gain something.
All of our souls have been damned to our own hells, and we are the only ones capable of carving a path out of the stone walls to our salvation.
When I finally reach salvation, I do not want to forget the eternity of suffering I endured.
Neither should you.
Don't lose yourself.
I like how you write. Please feel free to continue writing things, I will read them.
I appreciate it anon, its rare that there's that perfect combination of intoxicants and mood altering media that spurs a hypomanic writing spree
here's a link to a twitter thread that i started earlier that has a similar vein of writing in it:
https://twitter.com/creator_incog/status/1561583470840877056
dont follow tho, im usually just a racist shitposter, but damn does writing sometimes feel so good
perhaps ill start a place where i just write for its own sake
Just wanted to say I know that feel and wish you the best. Another woman is the only thing that'll solve the problem, but for it to happen you will need a lot of time to distance yourself from what was. And also something else, like a new hobby or two, a long trip around the world etc. And then maybe someday if you meet a woman worth a shit, you might start thinking about her instead of the last one.
Doesn't always help, though. My new one doesn't reciprocate the feelings, so for me it's like living the hell anew.
Anyway, godspeed, anon.