Friday Feels Beer Joint

Open early this week. Pull up the chair. Pick your poison.

She is 7 timezones away. No way of being with her. Have to live a life with another, just because i cannot be with the one. Life is not a romance novel. Lifts for that feel?

  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Cider 11%
    Friends are in the past.
    Just lift and work.

  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Orange juice, please.
    Who is she, OP?

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      checking those quads
      Asian girl. 24 yo.
      short. stacked. middle of London. COVID. girlfriend experience = boyfriend experience. half a year.
      worth. every. single. day.
      We drink. We bang. Loves me for who i am.
      Still friends online. never to be real again,

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        That’s fucking brutal, I’m sorry anon. Sounds like you had the perfect deal. Hopefully something like that will come your way again, if it happened once, it can happen again.

  3. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Guys, my gf got an offer to move overseas. I work from home so I could make it work but my salary wouldn't be as good. She says she wants to consult it with me before making a choice. We recently moved out together, too. I've been through this before and my ex wife nagged on me all the time because she chose to be with me instead of pursuing her dreams. I don't want to make the same mistakes again so I want my gf to choose for herself. what do?

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Innkeeper here. If two people love each other, doesn't mean they will be together. Life ain't romance novel. She has her dreams. Would be a shape to fuck up her happiness. Don't push it. Let humans be humans.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah, that was my guess too. So I'll let her decide, no pressure at all from me. Whatever she chooses, I'm happy for her. It is painful, though, so serve me your strongest ale.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Brewmeister Snake Venom, 67,5%
          If you love her - she deserves her dreams to come true,
          If you want to own her - you are here for the 67.5% ale already.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Why wouldn’t your salary be as good? Taxes?

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Taxes, yes, and me earning in canadian dollars and she winning in euros.

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Hey, it’s me Goku. Better get back to training

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    White Russian please
    Trying to get over the fear of life I have slowly accumulated the past few years. Maybe I'll never not be scared and it'll always be there, maybe I'll just get better and handling it but that's where I'm at. Anyway, dunno why I'm even on this fucking board. I'm not even a racist.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Innkeeper anon here:
      Live is simple. People make it too detailed.
      What they say - is a lie.
      What you really see - is truth.
      Follow what you observe. Nobody knows the final truth. only you do,

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >work won't pay for any of my postgraduate studies
    >will never be able to afford the upfront fees to do it
    >basically restricts me to having an unfulling job where my memory retention is shit
    >career goals crushed
    >two co-workers had an argument at my desk and I couldn't leave
    >get home
    >gift from mum and dad
    >its another joke gift to remind me of the time I got hit by a car
    >just made my day worse

    I ended up crying myself to sleep. Right now the only two emotions I feel are fustration and extreme sadness. I contemplated the knife for the first time in 2 years.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Innkeeped anon here.
      Suicide is never the way out.
      Life itself is a magnificent gift. Some people are shit. Life isn't. We do not get to pick our parents. We get to pick out friends and life.
      You train. You power through. Smile back to the girl that smiles at you in the gym.
      Ping of cider on the house today.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Can you not take out an education loan? It's not something to do needlessly, but if you straight up can't go anywhere in your career, it's worth it to invest in yourself. The payoff will be worth it if you don't let it get out of control.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Can you not take out an education loan?
        No, I can't get a loan due to my credit score and they aren't deferrable to HECS/HELP because they're not done by universities.

        The only way work pays for it is if you pay for it and pass, and then they reimburse you 80%. And they don't cover required reading materials and such.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          It takes a while, but you can work on your credit score. You said you'll never be able to afford the costs of school, is there anything you could be doing to budget better and put money away? What is your degree in and what you working in now?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >is there anything you could be doing to budget better and put money away?
            I budget but its getting harder and harder now due to cost of living pressures. I can't even opt for cheaper brands because they're now becoming as expensive as named brands.

            >What is your degree in and what you working in now?
            Its an accounting degree but I don't work in the Big 4 or an accounting firm. I work in the public service but the area I'm in is notoriously hard to move up in and the only other area I could go to requires a CPA or a CA.

            • 2 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Hm. You mentioned HECS/HELPS, I take it you're an Aussie? If you're still living in Kangarooland and your in that bad of a situation, you could do some research and consider moving abroad. Not sure what the salaries for public sector accountants are, but they can make decent money in the states from what I've seen. Even if you move back eventually, it might offer you the chance to get postgrad studies done combined with more work experience to help you be a more competitive candidate back home. Obviously I don't know your specifics, immigration is complicated, and moving is expensive, but if you're willing to cut everything loose and run, it's an option. You might consider leaving valuables and sentimentals with you parents if you can't afford to bring them.

  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >getting laid off from work, along with about a third of the company
    >they gave us a month notice and two months severance, plus an extra month on payroll and benefits, pretty good package
    >still doing a couple of things here and there to help out the team so things don't totally collapse without me
    >looking for a new job, have some good leads
    >trying to finish building my dining table before my dad comes for dinner on Saturday, literally about to biscuit the top right now
    >finances are kinda fucked this month from general spending and family stuff
    I'm... Okay. I just have this kind of undercurrent of low-level stress. I know things will work out, but I'm anxious.
    I realized earlier this week that I've been binge eating and laying in bed because of the stress. Trying to be better about self care.
    I'm tired, but I know I just need to go a bit further for things to get better.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Innkeeper anon here,
      You hang in there. There is no need to push yourself. You are doing your best every day and thinking about them. You cannot do more than what you do. You are not a god. You are just doing your best and you cannot do more than your best.
      Everything is going to work out

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's still thursday here but whatever. My sister might be the worst mom ever. She lost her kids THREE fucking times. And she got them back two years ago after doing rehab. Mostly because of me, saying she might improve if I stick around. Every friday I took her kids from the foster homes and spent around 300 bucks on them on movies, swimming, activities like VR and shit.

    She's basically the opposite of the abusive mom: negletful. She never got them into sports or any activities at all. She never woke up early to make them breakfast for school, encouraged them to try any activities, just did jack shit and slept until 3.

    Finally snapped and yelled at her for everything. She snapped back and yelled in her retarded tone 'I'LL NEBER LET MY KIDTH NEBER THEE YOU AGAIN!" She's partially deaf/retarded thanks to her mother's drug and alcohol abuse while pregnant.

    Now I'm seeing some fucking welfare officer about being too close to her kids. I know the kids have my back, but how fucked am I?

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Innkeeped anon here. You are right, She is wrong. Just saying

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You know what's the worst part? She is getting over 100k CAN because of her mom's residential school attendance. AND she's planning on spending that money on improving on ANOTHER PERSON'S HOUSE instead of the kids' future funds.

        I tried speaking to her lawyer about that shit, told him that she'll waste it in the first few months and she should put half of that into the kids future funds. He told me he can't do shit about it, he already gave her advice about it.

        Injun women, man. They are retarded as fuck. But, they look amazing until they hit 19.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Man, treading on thin ice there. Justice always give the mom the right

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >opposite of abuse
      It is abuse. Just a different kind.

  9. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Mine is 12 timezones away, stay strong mate

  10. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's Thursday
    Screwdriver, more vodka than juice
    I am a failure. My lifts are weak. I received a package today and inside was merch I preordered several months ago, she has graduated since then. Voice in my head doesn't love me as much as I love her.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      All is going to be alright, anon. Trust me. You'll see.

  11. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I’m trapped in a moment of weakness. Please help me rekindle the flame I once had.

  12. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Water, with apple cider vinegar.
    I'm starting to realize that no one can help me with my problems. I feel selfish and rude for assuming that my dad will always be there to support me emotionally. I distanced myself from my friends and I don't even know why. Don't even attempt to text them. In awkward and distant from coworkers because I don't want to burden them with my incompetency. I'm ashamed of looking for validation from the people I train with. I doubt myself too much to be content with my own mind. I'm scared of the future and just want off this crazy ride sometimes. Always tired, busy, but not content or at peace. I need to get better somehow. Going to sleep soon. Keep the faith, whatever that means. And stay strong

  13. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    rum with soda water
    she made me feel feelings again. she's gone. and i am slowly losing any type of feeling. back to being a robot.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Tell us your story anon, we’ll listen

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