GF is getting fat

How do I make her lose weight and stop eating like shit, I need actual advice. Not just virgin shit like “just call her fat bro” that direct approach never works with women and just leads to bad atmospheres and arguments.

I’m losing attraction for her seeing huge rolls of fat appearing, and an over hanging belly I can see through clothes.

Worst thing is NONE of it is going to legs/tits/ass it’s all going to her fucking stomach and lower back.

I literally just watched her grab a random half rated chocolate bar and eat it then (loudly) eat a bag of chips.

What the fuck did I do to deserve this fate.

  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You don't.

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    give her some HWD [HUGE WHITE DICK]

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Loving this new meme

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Not something OP is capable of

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Wish I knew the answer dude. Second time it’s happening to me. It’s hard cause once they get to 160lbs I can’t even get hard anymore. Just cut and run, I waited 5 years on the last girl to get her weight together and she only did when she was single again. Women won’t get motivated to be fit unless their on the dating market. No idea what the long term solution is.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Only 160? Mines is nearly hitting 190…

      Yesterday I brought her a McDonald’s into work because she asked me to, her order was a double cheese burger meal with cheese bites and 6 chicken nuggets plus a milkshake.

      Start exercising with them.
      Eat healthy food with them.
      Maybe grow some balls you pussy

      Don't outright call her fat but explain how her being fat affects you. Also if you watch stuff together you can put on some fitness channels or diet stuff. Take her with you to the gym and immerse her in the fit lifestyle

      Already suggested the gym but she doesn’t want to. Issue is her apartment has no food so she just orders takeout all the time. And when we’re together we normally eat out or yes order takeout.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Where did you meet this girl? And when did this start happening in the relationship?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Bruh, 190? She’s not getting fat, she’s obese unless she’s 7’0”

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        bro your girlfriend is obese she needs medical intervention

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Not just virgin shit like “just call her fat bro” that direct approach never works with women and just leads to bad atmospheres and arguments.

        >hitting 190
        >her order was a double cheese burger meal with cheese bites and 6 chicken nuggets plus a milkshake.
        >she just orders takeout all the time
        kill her and yourself. especially yourself.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      How tall though? My wife is 6,ft approaching 180 and I want her back at 160

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        160 @ 5’4”, I don’t know what I’m doing with my life anymore.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Anon, that was my wife's weight when she was 9 months pregnant.

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    God I can't wait until my ex starts getting fat, just like her mother

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Don't outright call her fat but explain how her being fat affects you. Also if you watch stuff together you can put on some fitness channels or diet stuff. Take her with you to the gym and immerse her in the fit lifestyle

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Start exercising with them.
    Eat healthy food with them.
    Maybe grow some balls you pussy

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    unironically start looking for a new gf. if she wont do it for herself, she sure as fuck wont do it for you. sorry.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      This is the sad reality. What sucks is when you have a gf that loses a bunch on weight, and then slowly starts gaining again over time. I had to leave my last one because of this.

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm in a similar boat but gender reversed. He just eats chocolate every day. We haven't had sex in 6mo. since I just find it gross now. And I told him this as well. I guess he's ok just jacking off as long as he gets his chocolate. Now I'm here to mire fit men and look at fph. I'm gonna have to leave him. It's not changing. He used to be very cute. Shame.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'll do whatever you want

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    If she gained relationship weight then start reminding her about what you were first attracted to about her such as flat stomach, jawline making face so pretty, toned whatever etc. Start cooking and feeding her good low cal and filling foods so she feels loved that you’re cooking for her. Less effort she has to put into the weight loss, the better it’ll work for you if she’s unwilling to lose it.

    If she was fat when you met her, it’s best to leave if you’re not too committed to her. Otherwise you’re going to have to combat her whole lifestyle.

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You can't force her to eat well, only thing that has worked for me is having my girl make me healthy meals so there is enough left over for her, then getting her outside for day hikes and other physical fun activities.

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    In general, women need to hear advice from someone other than their partner.
    I don't care to get into the psychology too much, but you basically need someone else to tell her she's a fat slob.
    Try to take photos of her body so she realises what she really looks like, because I guarantee she thinks she looks about 30lbs lighter.

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    "Babe, I want to be able to see your face when you sit on my face :("

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >dating a chestlet
      ngmi

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        OP said the weight is just going to her stomach, so I assumed she has the unfortunate fat-girl-no-tits body type.

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >7 year relationship with wife

    You motivate her by providing her the example of what you want her to do (lift, look after yourself and make progress), you motivate her by laying out the consequences of what she's currently doing (you will no longer be attracted to her), you tell her that you expect realistic results (she won't turn it around overnight and she will slip up, acknowledge this) and then you drop it and pray she makes the effort to change. If she doesn't make any effort at all, you leave. Simple as

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      This. You support each other in a relationship by being honest. Tell her the truth, support her if she wants to change and set a good example yourself. If she doesn’t change: go. My wife knows that I’ll leave her if she becomes fat or stops taking care of here body, and it works the other way around to.

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Shes letting herself go prior to you even commiting. What do you think will happen when she really gets comfortable?

  15. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Recommend attending two group counseling sessions with a counselor sympathetic to your situation, who understands that obesity is secondary to a psychological disorder.

    But yeah, three things:
    1) Make sure she knows how her obesity makes you feel.
    2) Make sure she knows how her lifestyle has caused her obesity.
    3) Let her know that you cannot marry someone who does not care for their own health enough to do common sense things like maintain healthy dietary habits alongside some exercise.

    Were you my good friend, I would offer to take her with me to visit a center for the elderly, to show her the consequences of continuing such a lifestyle as hers.

  16. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    dump her ass and get a more attractive model

    if you don't have kids or marriage or a joint bank or house, there's no excuse to stay around when she starts gaining weight, just kick her out and move onto the next

  17. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    She does this, because she thinks you're weak, she knows you're too beta to leave so instead you'll just make a thread on the internet bitching.

    If she isn't always afraid to lose you it means you're not high quality.

    Leave her you're not married, you don't have kids. If you're not willing to do that then you're just waiting all our time.

  18. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    maybe have her read the emotional intelligence book

  19. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    OP how much do you weigh lmao. I bet you too have a relationship like Leia and Jabba the Hutt but in reverse.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I’m 280

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        It’s over before it could start.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        my brother in Christ I am 100% certain that at 280lbs you definitely need to lose a bunch of weight as well. Maybe lead by example.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >I'm not attracted to my fat girlfriend anymore
        >Is a fat, sloppy mess of a "man" who served as an example for his girlfriend getting fat in the first place
        Absolutely disgusting.

  20. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >noooo you virgins don't understand
    >You can't just tell your gf if she gets fat you'll dump her
    If you are too scared to even bring this up it is already over. There is absolutely nothing wrong with telling her this

  21. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It only gets worse from here. Fucking bail

  22. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Put 10 Mg anavar in her food every day.

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