Just got together with a girl for the first time in years and went soft. Any of you guys have similar experiences? What’s the fix?
Going soft during sex
Just got together with a girl for the first time in years and went soft. Any of you guys have similar experiences? What’s the fix?
her fault
king
Do more forearm isolation exercises.
Skill issue
>What’s the fix?
don't fuck fatties
She wasn’t bad actually, ok body
common problem. have you tried a guy?
are you a coomer?
I jerk off at least once a day but I’m never jerking it again from here on out
I quite liked her, fucked way worse successfully that’s for sure
i've been jacking off 5+ times a day for 25 years and fucking my wife at least thrice a week for 14. beating the bishop isn't your problem, it's all in your head
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If you have to ask, does it matter?
Damn. Don't remind me of a fall from grace like that.
Shitty bait
thing long me no read also not bait
Thanks for that!
now make it do a video
Maybe you just didn't find her that attractive after all? How did she react?
Same here, 50mg of sildenafil is enough for 4 hours of sexual marathon.
Isn’t that a bad habit to start? I’d feel like you’d need it every time no?
True, but shit has a residual effect that will give you a plus when you don't take it or know that you're only going to fuck very little.
I feel like doing it once or twice just to get out of your head about the act itself would help. Hopefully it’d be smooth sailing from there
Personally, i took sildenafil as a sexual "preworkout" just when i knew i'd be fucking for a long time.
If you have addressed the cardio and whacking off too much and have genuine performance anxiety then I agree that low dose sildenafil (like 25 mg) for the first 1 or 2 times is worthwhile to get into the swing of things
No. Its not dependency forming, unless it literally becomes a placebo to you.
Use viagra or cialis as a short term crutch if need be, there's no shame in it, but if you can fap with 10/10 hardness then softness during sex is purely psychological. It goes away when you're with somebody you trust and care about.
tell her her pussy was so stinky it turned you off
then keep going until she cries and train yourself to get hard to that
tatemode
Need hotter woman
happend a few times
my mind drifts off and I think about audio-band signalling instead of the act in progress
you jerk off too hard and your hand is more stimulating than her vag
stop porn
stop jerking
Eat red meat. Cut out processed goyslop.
i love going soft during sexing its really deep bitches love it. when they say they love me, i get way harder
I've heard the vaccine causes ed
Shut up
I've heard the vaccine causes irritable moods
it 100% did, I went from a god damn sexual tyrannosaurus before to literally having a hard time keeping hard 2 weeks after the clot shot. But no gay doctors will listen to that.
sildenafil
Could be Long COVID, it's a common side effect. Should've worn the mask instead of going to Stop The Steal in December 2020. You should see a doctor.
Astounded that nobody else has mentioned this yet.
>cardio
Low to moderate intensity steady state cardio for 40-60 minutes 2-3 times a week will do wonders. Banging requires a certain amount of endurance and if you find yourself winded after jogging a few hundred metres then you have some work to do in this department.
Also don't whack off as much and cut out the porn but I find the cardio has helped as much if not more.
I do cardio 4 times a week but maybe I should up the intensity
This for me. I get horny as fuck when I’m in lean runner shape.
It's because of no fap, it kills your libido worse than finasteride. You need to start being a coomer.
nah i never had sex
Honestly being a stone cold incel is preferable to the embarrassment of going soft like that. Girl asked if I was gay lol made me want to an hero
i'm a volcel not incel
It fucks with girls heads too. Guarantee she called you gay because you made her insecure as fuck
did she get btfo?
Try man butt and report back
have sex with hotter girls, if that doesn't work do to a doctor or buy some blue chew or soemthing
I can't believe people actually fall for no fap though. What do you do if you want to get better at something, practice? Nah, just not going to do it at all. Hilarious.
Asian massage parlors
Nofap resets penile sensitivity and dopamine reception of sexual stimulation
if he's cut the former doesn't matter and the latter is pseudoscience at best
I had this 75% of attempts at sex for like three months when I went off of ssris.
It was stressful, but the relationship held up.
Just keep plugging away, if it stays fucked up consult your doc. It makes ne sound like a corny mom but if the girl really likes you she can put up with some sexual disfunction.
You were nervous and had performance anxiety. This is especially true if you have no problem getting hard jacking off or if you have morning wood.
If you always limp dick then you just have ED and need to hop on viagra or smth.
if you were wearing a condom that's your problem right there
She thought you didn't think she was attractive so that's the end of that
She’s still texting me like before, did I sour her on me?
>caring what she thinks
you were ngmi it anyway
>did I sour her on me?
Ost likely. When men can't get hard when they're naked, they immediately think it's because they're not attracted to them or something is wrong
Idk if you can make it up soon after I feel like you can look back and laugh about it
If she likes you she shouldn't care that much. Happened to me with my first girlfriend, I just couldn't get hard. A week after that tho we fucked until she couldn't keep up with me anymore. Try to relax and have fun next time.
Were you using a condom?
Yea but I went soft before we even put it on, hard as fuck during foreplay though
Happened to me recently with a literal 10/10 beautiful soulmate girl so depressing shit ended cause I accidently nutted in her and I'm retarded. Had a lot of psychological shit going on I think was the main factor since within the prior two months I had my parents diagnosed with cancer and my grandad die but shit I knew besides that I didn't feel good enough for this woman and the anxiety of not wanting to fuck up made me fuck up I could only get hard when we were relaxed. She literally was undoing my pants and starting to fuck me and I couldn't keep it up.
What was her reaction?
well initially we were cool she said she really liked me that night and I still ate her pussy after I did that and we were talking for a week or two still but it ended up falling through cause she said she felt bad I came in her cause of trauma but then I saw her at a mutual gathering a couple weeks later on her birthday and she was being all flirty smoking my cigarettes being all touchy which I was surprised by. She came to the place with another dude and pulled me aside to tell me nothing was going on between them in front of him and some other bullshit but went cold on me when I tried to get her out for some free VIP tickets to trans siberian orchestra I had a day or two after, then I called her out for doing this hot cold bipolar bullshit and made her make a decision so we stopped it. Talked to her briefly the other day but I know shes got a new dude Im still looking for a new chick probably gonna be a while. She still has my jacket from months ago.
Date a hotter woman. If shes actually hot and you dont have to lie to yourself and to think shes attractive then you need to go to the doc.
post age. if you can't get rock hard for any vag that will have you there's a problem in your brain
make her dress as an anime girl you are obssesed with, it works for me
It might have just been because you were uncomfortable. Get off with her a few times and you'll be fine.
Only time had this happen was with a girl who was execessively fat. What she look like?
>What’s the fix?
for powerful erections, follow:
>zone 2 cardio, minimum 20 mins a day
>zma
>l-citrulline
>beets or beet powder
>pelvic floor exercises
>kb swings
>get hard during foreplay
>get soft after putting condom and fucking
anyone else? also sometimes foreplay goes on for so long I kind of become desensitised to the stimuli and go soft.
I imagine it's like when you're watching a 1 hour porn movie (not that I have watched something that long) you don't stay hard all the way right?
We all push a little rope sometimes king, don't let it get you down.
use a thinner condom
this works the opposite way, cummijg too quick? Use a thicker one
You watch too much porn and jerk off too much. A man should always have on hand viagra or gas station bones pills for emergencies. That's why I always have then suck my dick first they all do it don't let them fool you. Be the alpha that you are and dominant. Women want you to be in control in the bed be aggressive read her body language. Get nasty they love it. Take kratom or a benzo or a perk helps with anxiety. Alcohol is a godsend for these problems.
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You are supposed to take cialis the first few times with a new girl for confidence and to give a good impression.