I'm like relatively toned, slim girl and my boyfriend is quite fat and big, when we met he was working out to lose weight and gain muscle. My type in guys is not fat it's muscular, now he's saying he doesn't want nor need to work out because he has me. What the frick do I do.
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>girl
Stop larping. Dubs and OP will burn in hell.
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Based. Frick OP and "her" manic delusions
I cast thine soul a-flame, OP!
Sorry ma'am but there are no girls on the internet.
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dump him. get a fit boyfriend. you’re wasting your best years with a fat tubby lard. all your friends make fun of you behind your back for settling
He was unironically working out and losing weight to get a girl, since he stopped now that a girl is in the picture.
Dump him so he gets his ass back to the gym. You'd be doing both of yous a favor
Unironically leave him if you don't like how he looks and his attitude
Its not gonna get better, it will get worse
He will get fatter and lazier
I don't get why grasp on relationship where you clearly don't have the same lifestyle, goals etc, doesn't make sense long term b***h
Tell him to get fit or you're dumping him. You're not attracted to him like he is now and he's being a lazy homosexual
No one will workout because of another person badgering them to do so.
It has to be self-motivated, otherwise they will resent it and the person who made them do it.
Just break up with the fatass and meet a new person. (Goes for both genders)
Workout is a noun, brainlet
>What the frick do I do.
Be part of the 41%. Neck ropes till failure.
gays will burn in hell
He sounds young. You’ll probably have to dump him, will be better for both of you in the long run. Taking care of yourself is a requisite trait for both partners in a good relationship.
You could try talking to him I guess, but you can’t make someone want to do something.
Frick that bust his balls until he gets his shit together or dump him.
kill him
Is this achievable natty or not? That's literally what I want to look like
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Buy a rope
refuse to have sex with him on days that he doesn't go to the gym.
don't be mean about it and make it clear that you aren't punishing him, just say "i'm not really in the mood to have sex on days where you refuse to go to the gym"
also require him to go to the gym for two hours or as close to that as he has time for, and say that he doesn't have to work out the entire time but he has to get used to being there for two hours and eventually he will work out the entire time out of boredom. unless he just gets used to watching anime on his phone, then indicate that that doesn't count and again refrain from having sex with him.
remember, do not express your anger, explain it. don't be mean, just make it clear how you feel.
also, really rub it in by wearing extra loose clothes around him (around the house) and then make it clear that you are wearing it for you and you are not having sex with him unless he goes to the gym and its not a punishment.
for the first little while he may not work out the entire two hours or work out very hard, thats fine.
he has to psychologically get used to working out, rather then focus on intensity.
when he gets used to the time spent working out, the intensity will follow naturally out of boredom. "well i'm already at the gym, might as well do some curls" etc.
but if its been like six monthes/a year and he's legit just going on netflix at the gym then you can explain, not express, your anger over that.
you have to help him find working out fun, so if you go with him, act bubbly and be charming and make it fun for him.
you guys can also work out at home together while watching an anime that you only watch while you work out, i suggest "how heavy are the dumbbells you lift" and "one piece" and "hunter x hunter", they are fun, which is good for working out.
in general, do not use fear or shame to get what you want, instead, use encouragement and comfort. do not threaten him and do not make him feel bad about him self as much as possible.
in general, you need five to ten positive interactions for every negative interaction for a relationship to work, so if you overwhelm him with negativity you won't get what you want, you will actually lose even more.
don't listen to the dyel virgins in this thread who tell you to dump him. they are telling you to dump him because they are envious that he has a relationship and they don't, they are mad that someone who is, in their minds, trying not as hard as them, and yet has a girlfriend, and they want to correct that out of a sense of percieved justice/fairness, not because they care about your best interests.
a good relationship is built, not found. you shouldn't just break up with someone everytime there is a problem, its not you vs your boyfriend, its you and your boyfriend vs the problem. you guys are a team, so act like a team and you can solve anything.
this
but def flirt and hangout with whatever men you want until he starts being a boyfriend
glad to read this at this time.
glad to hear that, i like helping people.
its ironic because all the dyel virgins are telling her to break up with her boyfriend because there is simply a problem. but if she became the type of girl that would break up with a guy everytime there is a problem, she would be the exact type of girl that these dyel virgins call a c**t and she would inevitably become an over the wall roastie.
>implying you, a self-righteous, annoying tripgay, are not a "dyel virgin"
el oh el
This right here. Shocked at all the dudes telling you to leave your man, that's not what a strong person who cares about their partner does, that's what a coward does. What a surprise, we are surrounded by total cowards.
Your boyfriend does sound quite immature (I don't have to try anymore because I reached my goal and can just be a lazy dumbass now - that's immaturity speaking) so work with him. Let him know it offends you that he doesn't think he has to try anymore to keep around. You're (hopefully) an attractive young woman with goals and values, and good fitness and constant striving in general are a part of that - you need to tell him that.
Help your man, and when your shit gets fricked up, AND IT WILL, he won't dump you at the first sign of trouble.
WORK at your relationship - stagnation is death.
Good luck.
i will add though, keep track of your interactions, and then afterwards ask your self "was that a positive or negative interaction?"
if the over all interaction was negative for him, unplesant, then you need to counter weigh it with 5-10 seperate, entirely positive interactions, so that he doesn't get over whelmed.
in addition, when you are communicating something you are upset about, do not express your anger, explain it, and employ compliment sandwhiches, say something nice, then say something critical, then say something nice.
people can only handle so much medicine at a time before it becomes toxic.
2 hours is overkill, even for those who are IST. That will make him hate the gym.
One hour in the gym, one hour outside. That's the easiest way to get lardtards on the right track.
punishment can backfire, some of us homies have a bit more self-respect
much better to offer a reward first
>don't be mean about it and make it clear that you aren't punishing him, just say "i'm not really in the mood to have sex on days where you refuse to go to the gym"
"I'm not pissing on your leg, it's raining"
people aren't entitled to have sex with you.
maybe i guess, its been a long time since i've been a dyel piece of shit, i did say that he just needs to be at the gym, he doesn't have to work out that entire time, so that he can get used to being there because thats the hardest part, but yea, what ever is closest to that that he can manage.
and people aren't entitled to have a relationship with you
I think it is important to communicate to your boyfriend that you have a preference but that you are still attracted to him and care for him no matter what shape he's in. While people may have preferences the most important thing is to show and appreciate the person that you're with for who they are and not what body you want them to have
make it clear that you care about him no matter what shape, but make it clear that you would be more attracted to him if he was in shape, don't enable him by overly communicating that you are attracted to him even if he's a dyel fat piece of shit.
attraction isn't unconditional, if it doesn't give you wood you can't wish it would.
Dubs and OP gets raped by an indian man named Rajendahar
What kind of steroid cycle gets this kind of physique? There's like 30 different steroids to choose from. Will literally any combination get this physique as long as you run enough cycles and manage your diet? Could literally multiple cycles of 500mg test/week reap these kind of gains?
Steroids go into your blood and circulate around your entire body moron. No steroid builds a particular kind of physique it's always just genetics + training + bodyfat percentage.
That guy obviously has a great frame, too.
do not over rely on fear or shame to get what you want.
fear makes people give up
And shame/discomfort makes people act like parasites.
instead, use encouragement and comfort.
Suck his dick and wear skimpy clothing whenever he finishes a work out. Literally rip his clothes off and sexually assault him after every workout. Compliment how his body looks post workout as you do so, but always add that you think you'd be even wetter if he was leaner and more muscular.
Then just be distant whenever he doesn't work out as much as you'd like.
He'll be ripped in six months ezpz.
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How do I get a bf that looks like this I'm a white toned twink 6'1'' 175lbs
>My type in guys is not fat it's muscular, now he's saying he doesn't want nor need to work out because he has me. What the frick do I do.
ugly troony who settled for a fatty
You can't make people exercise. Best you can do is lead by example.
Just leave him. You're not married. And stop being a dumb woman who needs men's advice to live your life.
>now he's saying he doesn't want nor need to work out because he has me.
Told you to your face he both doesn't have to try for you and doesn't want to look good for neither you nor himself.
Now, I'm not some degen who is going to ask for you to post your breasts, what kind internet creep would do that ahahah. I do feel that you should post a pic of your ass however. Or gtfo
>now he's saying he doesn't want nor need to work out because he has me.
“You do actually.”
Tell him you don't train the body to lose weight, we treat the body rigorously so that it will not be disobedient to the mind.
He is either a man, or a pussy. And you don't want a pussy.
Either stop being a shallow b***h, or leave him and continue being a shallow b***h
Same advice id give to a guy who had a fat/ lazy gf.
leave them.
Leave the fat lard also post 'em
Keep blatantly miring muscular guys in front of him and make comments about their bodies to his face. A wise anon once said "Bring a man to a gym he lifts for a month. Give a man body dysmorphia and he lifts for a lifetime."
all these replies to an obvious bait/slide thread.
god you dudes are fricking moronic. sage.