I don't know if this is the right board but I really need help with my fat girlfriend.
How do I convince her to start being healthy without sounding like an butthole?
She is literally perfect, except for the fact that she weighs at least 70 lbs more than me. I'm 200lbs btw.
"Just break up with her" isn't really an option. I've been dating her for about a year now, and it's going great. Her family likes me (which is important), my family likes her, we're both in the same college, she says I can live in her apartment with her (free rent would be amazing). You get it.
I don't even care if it happens slowly over the course of a year I just want her to lost at least a little bit of weight. What are some of the best exercises/diet plans for fat people?
Honestly if she lost enough weight she could easily be at least an 9/10 without trying.
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Does she want to lose weight?
I think? She goes to the gym every once in a while but I don't even know what exercises she does.
>I think? She goes to the gym every once in a while but I don't even know what exercises she does.
She’s seeing an architect behind your back.
Anyway start going to the gym with her and start cooking healthy meals for her, high protein low carb
Frick I miss this shit as a kid...
Ahh purified liquid goyslop.
No that's goyslurp
>contain 0% fruit juice
What
Honestly the nutritional info on this isn't as bad as I'd expect
Straight sugar water and coloring, respect
Nvm I just saw the hfcs
only 110 calories for 240ml, and the carbs isn't high as frick, doesn't seem so bad
but corn syrup so big nono
Has she previously expressed any interest in losing the weight? The safest option would be to enthusiastic in agreeing with her if she does and inviting her to join you in the gym like
suggests. Other safe things would be cooking more meals for her (assuming you know how to cook healthy meals that are actually delicious), but yeah it's kind of hard to suggest it directly in current year. Even if she doesn't take offense to it initially, if she tells a friend or otherwise gets a second opinion, you could get in hot water anyway.
Soft homosexuals, someone who is 270 fricking lbs isn't stop extremely overeating and lose over half their bodyweight because you beat around the bush thinking of ways to mention it while not offending her
How fricking weak, to even get that size is mental illness and needs a seriously direct approach
Literally like going up to a junkie and saying "oh I hope this doesn't offend you, I'm sorry, but maybe reconsider your drug habbit please?" while they're still got the fricking needle in their arm
How pathetic you both are
Honestly I would say dump her. 90% chance there's no saving her. But OP ruled that out and a softer approach is the only thing that would preserve the relationship. Telling her to put the down the fricking fork will have her eat more out of spite, or break down and eat more out of sadness. Is that what she deserves? Almost definitely, but I'm giving advice under OPs parameters, not dispensing judgement.
Yeah, I'm just working with OPs parameters. The average normie's addiction to goyslop prevents me from ever considering dating someone who was already fat, if I could even look past their physique. Getting a woman to put down the fork is too much fricking work considering it's current year and her most certainly being addicted to goyslop. I agree the superior option is just cutting ties and finding someone who doesn't have to be coddled into fitness, but OP really believes in her, so
This is the issue. Involve yourself in her fitness. Start by coming to her, not pulling her to what you do, that comes later. Is she interested in yoga? Do it with her, make it a pleasant experience and suggest doing it more. Talk with her about your own fitness stuff without directly telling her to do it, just talk about how great it feels and how lifting has one of the best effort to reward ratios in all fitness. Eventually ask if she wants to come to the gym with you and keep offering. Remove the obstacles in her life that would keep her from getting into fitness more.
Ok I will start doing this.
Also if you go a bit too hard, and she calls you out for thinking she's fat explain in those terms. Tell her she knows how attractive you think she is (hopefully you're having regular sex) but you're thinking of getting older together and what you want out of life definitely includes her, but also includes things that involve being active. Talk about how injuries happen easier as you get older and you want to be healthy together your whole lives. You don't want to make her feel bad at all, you want to bring two things you love together.
That's a roundabout way of saying "eat less you fat frick"
Yes precisely. It's subtle and long term and it isn't foolproof, but if you're really committed to someone, you have to be prepared to put time and effort in. Looks are nice of course, but what do you want to do with a partner? Travel? Hike? Have healthy children and live to a ripe old age? Fitness is a factor and it'll matter in so many ways.
I think it's quite clear someone who is 270lbs has an extreme overeating problem first. To even get that size the excess in daily calories is huge
Hikes are nice but they wont help make someone lose 160lbs
Yes fair. What's needed is to inspire a legitimate love and intrinsic motivation of exercise, and then she'll be more willing to talk about those issues.
How can I tell this is a larp thread populated by the same fatasses that seeth in the eternal /fph/ thread?
Yes, this is how race-relations go for most for most of the south-eastern states (SC, NC, GA, FL). Both of these men probably frick the same race (not race mixing) and yes they both probably make racial jokes to each other all the time with no issues.
Jews hate this.
Pretty much, but we do have some extremely militant types on both sides.
Women ruined this
Change my mind
Yeah. In gay ass states like New York and California. Working class whites and blacks get along better than some of their family members. Unfortunately, when one race has a disproportionate amount of deadbeat Black folk, they get dragged down. Same as any white family related to trailer trash floridians, but on a larger scale.
How? How did they ruin it, I mean.
You can either trick her into getting fitter by doing serious walks or some other activity for the sake of doing it, or you can dump her, or you can just forget about it.
I could, but that would just make my life harder. Her family has great connection that would get me a good job.
What constitutes a "Serious walk"?
At least 30 minutes at a strenuous pace. Anything would be better than nothing, but if you're talking about 70 pounds of weight loss then ten minutes of shuffling around won't see results.
Ok yeah that makes sense.
That homie has great teeth
i wouldn't know because i'm not a loser and i haven't ever dated a girl above 120lbs
>I'm 200lbs btw
You need to loose weight unless your 6'2+ and jacked....
I'm 6'1" and have been working out since 9th grade. I wouldn't say I'm jacked but Im definetly not fat.
Dump her and upgrade. She sounds like a fat lazy slob and a disgusting piece of human trash.
OP you talk about her family and all this stuff, but will that really matter if she's obese and trying to get pregnant? What are your goals here?
She isn't obese, just really fat.
My goal here is to make her not fat.
I know she definitely wants kids and so do I, but I know that a fat mom is a bad mom.
What is her height?
He's 200lbs, and she's 70lbs more than him
She is 270lbs, morbidly obese
>She isn't obese
>5'7 270lbs
give her anavar
>She's 270lbs
>She's perfect
Pick one. You don't have a girlfriend you have cattle
My homie did you read the post?
I said shes perfect in every way except her weight.
>Honestly if she lost enough weight she could easily be at least an 9/10 without trying
How do you suppose she'll be a 9/10 with a whole other persons loose skin, dumbass
Yeah frick me for having a positive outlook on the situation
She's around 5'7-5'8"
Fricking fatties reinforces their shitty life choices, the only positive outlook on the situation is she will die early
I'm not trying to be cruel. If your measurements are accurate she is beyond obese.
if you were the type of dude to have a gf who wasn't 270 lbs., you would have a gf who wasn't 270 lbs.
get to do activities with her like going on a bike ride with her, trek, etc...
>She is literally perfect, except for the fact that she weighs at least 70 lbs more than me. I'm 200lbs btw.
she is literally perfect except she's MORBIDLY OBESE?! how would you even know that she's "perfect" under all that blubber? it's not like you could tell what her face looks like or what her bone structure is like in general.
to answer your question honestly, chances that a woman who is already obese by college age would ever lose the weight and keep it off are close to zero. and it's even less likely with you in the picture since the only thing that could change her mind and make her want to stop eating like an elephant would be to make Chad attainable. she already has a partner and I'll assume you're decently attractive and work out since you're here. so what benefit is attached to losing weight for her? fat people generally need some external motivator to restrict what they eat and drink on a daily basis. the abstract knowledge that it's "healthier" is not enough. it's not like normal people pay attention to what we eat either, we just don't feel like stuffing ourselves and fat people do. it takes a serious shift in mindset to get a person who doesn't care about nutrition to suddenly worry about every meal. what could bring about such a shift? I can't think of anything.
>5'7" and 270 lbs
>literally perfect except for the fact that shes a barnyard animal
>could be a 9/10
>only dating for a year
really bro? is this the best you can do? she's not a 9/10. shes a whale. your gf is literally more than twice the healthy weight of a normal human female. im disgusted.
>You get it.
No. No I do not get it. You fat larping c**t.
grow a pair of nuts and dump her. have some goddamed self respect