There's this tiny redhead at my gym who actually has impressive lifts, never checks her phone, headphones on the whole time, doesn't talk to anyone, has impeccable form. I've complimented her lifts a couple of times and she was nice, but she never says hi to me next time she sees me. Just pretends I'm not there. What do? I want her so bad bros.
Picrel is a lookalike
If you actually have an opportunity like this then fuck you. I would have already asked her out for dinner and never posted on IST.
What's stopping you from asking out any woman at your gym? Why so aggressive
I'm not trying to harass her or fuck her then discard, I actually want to date her. I'm trying to get to know her while not being a creep.
Then slowly get to know her. Ask her for a spot sometime if it's not too awkward, use the machine next to her if it's not too awkward, slap her ass in the locker room if it's not too awkward.
Getting the idea?
Ah, l'amour! Your quest is admirable, anon! You must recognize that your position, my lovestruck friend. Complimenting her is not enough, words from a stranger are just that: words from a stranger. You must bridge that gap yourself, put a name to the face, introduce yourself and let her know you've seen her at the gym and are interested in getting to know her. You can ask her out for coffee if you feel brave enough, but the point is she needs to know YOU, not just your interest.
>Hey, I've noticed your lifts and think your dedication is really impressive. I don't want to bother you while you're working out, you seem super focused. Mind if I get your number and we could maybe meet up outside the gym to talk?
Something to work from.
>I'm not trying to harass her or fuck her then discard, I actually want to date her. I'm trying to get to know her while not being a creep.
LMAO You want to date a person you literally know nothing about. You're like one of those incels that get a crush on a girl and imagine entire futures together.
Leave her be, she won't want to date a mentally deranged incel.
>You want to date a person you literally know nothing about.
Yeah that's what crushes are.
Crushes are for 13 year olds. If you're a man and see a woman you find attractive, you approach her, talk to her, get her number, go on a date, and get to find out more about her to see if you're interested in her or not.
JIDF out in force today I see, or just same fagging?
Nice larp manlet, a attractive girl wouldn't waste her time with some gymcel manlet who goes on a incel board online. There are 1000+ tall, attractive chads and your telling me she’ll settle for you? Some 5'6 dwarf? Kek nice larp gay
>Nice larp manlet, a attractive girl wouldn't waste her time with some gymcel manlet who goes on a incel board online. There are 1000+ tall, attractive chads and your telling me she’ll settle for you? Some 5'6 dwarf? Kek nice larp gay
Larp, manlet, gymcel, incel, chads
Go touch some grass, spend some time under the sun and assess your relationship with the world.
Kek nice larp manlet incel virgin. You’re seething on a Saturday morning. Take a walk and cool down, maybe you’ll finally kiss a girl today if you leave the house for once
holy retard (you) farmer
gym crushes are just that. it’s meant to be left then and there lol he fantasized this dream girl in his head because she’s not like other gym girls and therefore he must have her
What's so strange about the fact that I want a gf who's dedicated to the same hobby that I am
>Redheads are slutty
It's just a meme. I doubt the girl who doesn't talk to anyone at the gym is a slut. She doesn't even wear those ass crack leggings despite assmogging all the gym thots.
>I doubt the girl who doesn't talk to anyone at the gym is a slut
The quiet ones are usually even bigger sluts.
What about the ones who are quiet to begin with and but then later on never shut the fuck up
i find it funny that the idea of dating simply being a way to get to know someone is completely lost on zoomers
that same idea describes friendship bro..
This. Zoomers are just brain dead. Even if you know the person, it's just a social mask. The real person is different and will be different in a relationship, even if that girls is someone you know from the childhood.
>hmm I want to ask that girl out
>mentally deranged
?
gnomish or just paid to post here?
kek, bluepilled as fuck, it's over and you have no chance
Leave her alone and let her lift
Its rare to see a woman in the gym who isn't attentionwhoring, doing some retarded meme exercise, or glued to Instagram, and then also having impressive numbers with good form.
Its like finding a rare plant on a stroll through the woods. Let it be and allow it to prosper, dont try to pick it for your own gain
Eye contact, smile with a slight head nod, if she smiles back you're good to go, if not just leave her be, unless you encounter her in the wild at which point you can approach her and say hey I know you from the gym
I can't even get eye contact normally, she just zones out between sets or looks at the ground.
I've worked out close to her before but the problem I have is with talking to her.
Normally I would agree with this but she really seems in the zone all the time, I really think she might just not notice her surroundings when she's working out. As I said, she was very nice whenever we talked and didn't seem annoyed.
>I can't even get eye contact normally, she just zones out between sets or looks at the ground.
Ask her to watch your form to open a conversation, you'll quickly learn how interested she is by how much effort she puts into the conversation afterwards
she don’t want you brodie. the more you try the more annoying she finds you and you’ll feel it when she changes her workout hours to avoid seeing you
This
Leave her be anon.
Fuck that, you don't want to die with regret in your heart, make your move OP, dont listen to these gays
This. If she wanted you she would be friendly and more receptive and you wouldn't be posting about this on an anime shitboard. She doesn't even look at you and here you are swooning and simping. The first rule about dating as a man is to not be needy. You need to not give a fuck, which you are not doing now my guy.
>I want her so bad bros
>She never says hi to me
>Just pretends I'm not there
>What do?
LMAOOOO name one person in IST history who got the girl being this desperate and needy
because she has no interest in you obviously, otherwise she would at least greet you if she sees you
Progressive overload my guy
Start with just smiling when you see her
Then move on to “heys”
Then add a “what’s up”
When you’re ready move on to “I’m anon” and get her name
“Hey anonette”
High fives
Get her insta
wow, so it all comes together
>have gym crush for months
>then one workout I notice she’s SUPER close with one of the jacked dudes, probably her bf or just fucking
It’s over
Girls are not at the gym to be talked too. Please leave her alone. If she wanted to talk to you she would have done so. Notice how she only responds to you and never initiates conversation. That means she doesn't like you romantically. If she really wanted you, or was at least interested in you. You'd already know and wouldn't need to make this thread
Shoot your shot dude never mind fags saying leave her be, if she’s not interested she will reject you and you can move on with your life
Good luck
creep alert!
Anon I have the same type of woman at my gym, the reality is that she is not into you. I did the same things as you, we simply lost. But remember, we fall to learn. It's hard to lose your interest but you have to go through it.
From the information provided, I wouldn’t say she’s interested unfortunately. It might be worth a shot but you’d have to be cautious so that you don’t have a nice day in the foot.
It’s sucks because redheads are hot. But I saw some meme ~~*study*~~ yesterday saying they’re proven to be sluttier than other women, which is concerning.
To clarify, do you at least have exp with the meme gender? I’ve never asked one out, so if you’re in those shoes, I’d be hesitant to try something so bold in a setting where it’s generally dissaproved of
Yeah, if she liked him, she would have said hi or at least made eye contact next time. Not ignored him. Move on, OP. You tried.
incel
>she never says hi to me next time she sees me. Just pretends I'm not there.
It's over, go next
>incels and would-be-incels-were-the-circumstances-slightly-different arguing and calling each other incels
Since we're here, should I follow the girls from my gym who I've never spoken to on Instagram? I already stalk a lot of them.
if you have normal IG like with actual 100s of followers/following and pics of urself yeah
if it's stalk type IG with a couple followers and no pics of urself then no
My gym reposts stories of gym goers when they're tagged and I never see her. I even stalked my gym's followers and didn't find her. She might not have IG at all. I wouldn't know what to make of it if that's the case.
Ok, and?
I just find it strange that someone as attractive and fit as her wouldn't try to attentionmax I suppose. It would be very easy for her to get simps.
Maybe she's content with her life and has a boyfriend so she doesn't care for simps.
Is that really the only option? I was hoping she wasn't taken.
How many times do we have to tell you she does not want you? If she was interested and knew you were interested in her (which you made clear to her by complimenting her), she'd already try to make it obvious by saying hi/smiling/trying to work in with you and make a small talk.
You're such a negative nelly, that's why you don't have anything valuable in your life
Hey, I'm not the one whining on the internet about a girl who ignores me and who I put on a pedestal without knowing anything about her.
Whining? He just wants a little encouragement, he should take his shot, if yes great, if no, he'll learn how to handle rejection and it will temper him. Also he will understand it's a numbers game.
what if OP is just some ugly dyel manlet and you’re setting him up for failure instead of giving him a much needed reality check hmmm? leave that poor girl alone. he’s likely not the first guy at the gym to try this
I'm not ugly or a dyel or a manlet.
>he’s likely not the first guy at the gym to try this
I don't see other guys interacting with her much, although I've noticed them staring.
the real option is that there are tons of girls like her you'll be interested in out there
Telling that you assume displaying your attraction and being a sexual being is a "simp"
welp so there goes that
you’ll just be one of many men who do this already, except you know their exact workout schedule and where and when to see them. go for it!
dude just shoot your shot. its not creepy, its literally what humans are programmed to do and what youre supposed to do. just be respectful and nice about it and dont be a bitch about it if she isnt interested (which is probable, but bigger miracles have happened and luck is with the brave ones). rejection will sting, but in the end youll be proud of yourself for being courageous and going for what you want.
*mutters under breath after being rejected* what a soulless ginger bitch..
sounds like it's game over, mi amigo
OP, how many girlfriends did you have in the past?
4 worth noting, why?
And yet you act like you don't know how to proceed with getting a girlfriend, curious.
I met my previous girlfriends through mutual friends, I've never dated someone from the gym.
How many relationships after high school?
Anon you have nothing to be ashamed of, you're a heterosexual man and the opposite of a degenerate, go ask her out and be done with it, you won't lose a limb from rejection, you'll remain the same person as you are but at least you won't be a pussy anymore. I don't follow my advice though cuz I'm an ugly lanky ottermode but you definetly should
Honestly I wouldn't do it in my gym, it's going to create a really shitty environment for you and her if you end up rejected.
It's going to affect ur training because you will be forced to see her everyday and your mind will create grief, hate, etc...
I still remember approaching a girl in college, got rejected and everyday I had to see her and it sucked so much, yes I shoot my shot but I probably should've catched her signals that she wasn't really into me.
Maybe I'm wrong but hitting on girls you have to see on a daily basis fucking sucks, bros. (If you get rejected, if you score then it's a win-win).
I have 4 previous girlfriends under belt worth noting so I consider myself quite the professional. I just can’t seem to get her attention..
>I just can’t seem to get her attention..
Maybe because she's not interested in you???
The guy you're replying to is pretending to be OP
Proof?
>I still remember approaching a girl in college, got rejected and everyday I had to see her and it sucked so much
I always smile and almost laugh when I see a girl who rejected me, top points if they see you taking to other women and then suddenly act interested
>Maybe I'm wrong but hitting on girls you have to see on a daily basis fucking sucks, bros.
idk i am not like that. I just take the no and move on. No hard feelings.
>idk i am not like that. I just take the no and move on. No hard feelings.
I want to be like you anon, thats the way to go
So let me get this straight, OP had his previous relationships set up by his friends and now he thinks that if he finds a girl attractive all he has to do is compliment her and she will magically come crawling to him?
Not my problem
Leave her alone lmao
See OP, only satan himself would advise you not to take your shot
Why is there always a thick redhead at every gym I go to
The quiet girls, or the ones that claim to have "social anxiety" etc are usually even bigger sluts than the louder outgoing girls. Shes fucked at least 20 guys or more, no doubt in mind.