Is there a gym for personality?
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Is there a gym for personality?
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Yeah, school. Where you're meant to socialize and emotionally come into your own.
I fricked up and studied instead
Cope harder homosexual, you could have (and should have) done both.
What if you didn’t socialise in school much?
Is that a joke?
School is a day care-(with room for indoctrination)
Even if it's not a public or bad school you don't develop properly through involuntarily Action environments & social interactions
It's only that way because it's enforced
Things aren't necessarily meant to be that way
I value education a lot btw more than almost anything but not the way it's done now generally
>involuntary environment
>"this will prepare me to interact with people!"
Stamping your feet and demanding life occur on your terms won't make you better with people.
Yes!!!!!
I grew more at my job than in school, but then again my job isn't full of massive homosexuals like my school was.
College is better for that honestly
I had the 'tism and nobody told me. Now level 35 khhv wizard. Wat do.
yes, therapy/a psychologist
I firmly believe after going through this journey myself that being a stone-faced high inhibition generic looking person is not normal or natural and is caused by some form of social trauma and failure to properly incorporate the self/the unconscious/the shadow. I was like this because at my root I was deeply afraid; afraid to express, afraid to share, afraid to let loose. I was terrified of the world and others and withdrew into my mind as a coping mechanism, becoming hollow as a result; I spent years and years like this. The day I realized it was a pathology and I didn't need to be like that forever was like coming out of a never ending nightmare/fugue. What a surprise I lost my virginity that same year as well, accomplished more than I ever had before in my life, and was far happier as well
I’m happy for you anon. I hope to have sex one day too
Not sure if this normie shit is ironic or not. If by "socialize" you mean Ted K's definition, then sure
Buddhism.
>refuses to elaborate
Hard work builds character
hardship
The gym presents some good opportunities, unironically.
Start forcing small talk on the reception staff and personal trainers, be willing to spot and receptive to being spotted, and just say hi to people if you cross paths and make eye contact.
But what if they say hi back? Id be screwed
You introduce yourself and shake their hand if they're someone you see on regular basis, or you leave it at hello if it's someone you haven't seen around.
Don't try to lead conversations if you are socially inept, but get the feel for asking basic questions.
Reflect and learn from each experience.
>The gym presents some good opportunities
no, almost any other sport I can think of is better for that.
ego kills to failure
any way except drugs?
maybe if you have 50-80 years to spare
Waiting tables is like social skills bootcamp. Worked for me, highly recommended
Clubs, religious orgs, sports teams, and volunteering groups.
SOMETHING IN THE WAY
MMMMMM HMMMMMM
somebody post the senator armstrong roidhead vs skinny smoker model
>sales job
>travel agency job
>improv/acting
>not being an avoidant homosexual in grade school/university with an unwarranted superiority complex
>not being an avoidant homosexual in grade school/university with an unwarranted superiority complex
Shit does anyone know where i can get a time machine
The past is the past; let it go.
But you don't need a time machine to stop being an avoidant homosexual with an unwarranted superiority complex NOW, now do you?
Yeah, it's called a normal gym
Socialize homosexual
>Is there a gym for personality?
Actually a great question. There's not. Its just alot of trial and error. As the anon stated earlier, its about talking to everyone you can. And noticing people good at it, and learning why they're good at it.
I didn't really get good until I had to attend a ton of receptions for my job, and interact to get work done. What I learned was to have a list of people to definitely talk to, ask questions, and have a goal for the conversation. After years of this, I can pretty much walk into any social situation and talk to anyone I don't know.
Its really all practice.